#he def is doing it bc i just got dumped ๐Ÿ˜‚
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guinevereslancelot ยท 1 day ago
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my bro making my fave meal gluten free for me!!! ๐Ÿ˜ญโค๏ธ
#fettuccine alfredo my BELOVED#have had it once since going gf ๐Ÿ’”#he def is doing it bc i just got dumped ๐Ÿ˜‚#which is v sweet of him tbh#i'm actually pretty ok with it now it was just right after it happened that i was crushed#but felt weirdly at peace abt it the following night and now i'm basically fine lol#still sad but i can 100% say it's for the best#there is a chance we couldnget back together but i honestly think it would be a bad idea#just can't promise i wouldn't let myself be talked into it bc of feelings#but tbh a relationship needs a stronger foundation than just feelings we didn't communicate well and he didn't prioritize me#which is fine as friends and we have lots of fun so we should def stay friends#but romantically i dont think it could ever work despite how i feel#and im not gonna settle for someone who won't prioritize me even if it means i end up alone#he has a lot of growing up to do and i don't think he ever will#so as much as i like him i think it would be a mistake to pursue that relationship#so i'm actually verybat peace w the breakup#like obviously my feelings are hurt and it felt like deeply awful like i'm unlovable etc i was falling apart the first night#then i just went numb and thought abt it rationally and im fine now#still a little sad but very much fine#but its still nice my bro is doing something nice for me lol#my whole family is feeling bad for me bc i was such a huge hysterical mess on friday night ๐Ÿ˜‚#but by saturday night i was actually okay ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ#i know it goes in phases but i think i actually am ok fr#even tho i was really falling for him i know it would have been a mistake so im okay#i should be more hurt bc of the rejection itself maybe bc im really sensitive to that but i'm not anymore and idk why#lol#this has been a shitpost#don't reblog
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destinyc1020 ยท 4 years ago
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They def not split up bc of distance. Tom posted her, he had strong feelings for her but I think her heart wasn't that free (Stanley). Maybe she tried. It was a rebound. But Tom imo was very serious about her. She prob confessed to him auf couldn't go on and he was first hurt but he is also just genuinely nice and doesn't hold grudges so he accepted it, "forgave" her. His pals +brothers on the other hand have clearly not. That's my gut feeling- N broke it off. T would've liked to continue the rs
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But that makes NO SENSE whatsoever given the FACTS that we know lol.
If SHE broke things off with Tom since she felt she wasn't over Stanley, why the thirst posts? Sounds more like smthg someone who's dumped does.
Also, why like the tweet about needing to get over your ex who's moved on?๐Ÿฅด She definitely wasn't referring to Stanley lol.
Why unfollow a bunch of accounts that mention Z, if she's so stuck on Stanley that she couldn't even have a relationship with Tom?
Why the "forget you" post? Wouldn't she have more SYMPATHY for Tom since she broke up with him? She wouldn't be doing shady posts like that towards him.
Why the IG break if you're the dumper and wanted to split up with him?
Why are some fans still suspecting that N still holds a torch for Tom after a breakup if she made the decision to dump him due to Stanley?
And, I hate to sound superficial, but do you REALLY think she would give up dating Tom Holland, if he was actually still agreeable to dating her?
I mean, just think about those things for a second lol.
Your logic makes NO sense. I'm not saying she didn't still have feelings for Stanley (obviously she did if she's back with him again), I just don't see her dumping Tom for that reason. In fact, I don't believe she dumped Tom at all. I think he dumped her, or she realized that he wasn't 100% over his ex.
I'm actually more likely to believe that other Anon who stated that N may have dumped Tom coz she realized his heart was still with Zendaya. Even THAT makes more sense than what you're saying.
I just don't think Tom's feelings were strong enough tbh. How is it a coincidence that as SOON as Tom and Z start reconnecting again, all of a sudden, Tom and Nadia start falling apart? C'mon.... ๐Ÿ˜ So Nadia realized that she was still in love with Stanley only after Tom reconnected with Z lol? ๐Ÿ˜†
Make that make sense lol.
Also, if N dumped Tom cuz of Stanley, why wouldn't she be back with him long time ago? They just started following each other again. Whereas Tom and Z reconnected with each other long time ago.
Plus we've all seen how Tom behaves after he's been dumped. After the Tomdaya rlshp he was quickly rebounding with other women, having flings, drinking all the time, canceling appearances, needing to "get away", etc. But after Tadia, he was bummed out for a little bit like anybody would be, but he quickly got over it. In fact, he was pretty much over it by the time he was in Spain. Doesn't sound like a guy who's been "dumped" to me. Meanwhile, Nadia was going on IG breaks, doing thirst posts, making shady posts, etc.... doesn't sound like a "dumper" to me. Just being honest. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ
I'm sorry Anon, but you just don't make sense to me. Maybe you're making sense to someone else lol, but you're not making sense to me lol. ๐Ÿ˜‚ You have to take into consideration ALL of the evidence that surrounded that breakup.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure Tom liked Nadia a lot (otherwise he wouldn't have risked his rabid fanbase in posting her), but you keep forgetting that when ppl are in a Quarantine bubble it can feel like you're "in love". Just like the Bachelor shows or shows like "Love Island". But then, notice what usually happens with those relationships... ๐Ÿ˜ After they are in the "real world" again, the relationship falls FLAT because they didn't start the relationship on the right footing. It was like living in a "fantasy". They usually break up months after the show ends when they get a little bump in the road. Keep in mind, these ppl are ENGAGED lol.... which is much more than just posting someone on Instagram lol. ๐Ÿ˜† In fact, the most recent Bachelorette Clare Crawley just broke up with Dale Moss just a few days ago lol. ๐Ÿ˜‚ He dumped her! And yet, they looked sooooo in love.
So, it happens Anon. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ I'm sorry, but your "theory" isn't lining up with the evidence .
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