#fuck t/rfs and transphobes i hate all of you so fucking much

[oathofkaslana]

#im incredibly wary of the last one though im scared that theyre doing it mostly for shock or comedy#ive also seen people use the otto one in particular to be transphobic which pisses me off so much for multiple reasons

i don't even think the person who said this played hi3 btw. they didn't even get the fucking context right. they said that "theres canonically a man who cross dresses because he's in love with a lesbian" AND THATS NOT FUCKING TRUE!!! they're referring to an old non-canonical valentines day event that had both himeko and otto cross dressing. otto's description did talk about him dressing up bc "kallen only seems to be interested in women" which is awful but its not canonical. moreover, the art used for otto crossdressing was similar to a page in the manhua elan palatinus WHERE HE WAS CROSSDRESSING AS A DISGUISE TO DISTRACT GUARDS SO THAT KALLEN COULD SNEAK IN SOME PLACE!!!!!!!! HE DIDNT CROSS DRESS THEN BC HE WAS INTERESTED IN KALLEN HE JUST WANTED TO HELP HER BC THEYRE BEST FRIENDS. YOU DUMB BITCH!!!!!!!!!

[heavenlydreamangelflyhigh]

imagine having the gall to censor the word “c*nt” and then in the same sentence dropping the t slur without even blinking just to come off as hardcore or whatever

[emails-i-cant-send]

Hi I'm Este/Asterion, I have two names since I am genderfluid if you were wondering. I'd love to be your friend so why don't you come lay with be in the grass while the sun is shining upon us? I don't care what song that we play, or mess that we make just company now.

"We rot, thinkin' lots about nothing... - I'm bisexual and not cis perhaps genderfluid - I'm a Hispanic mestiza, I'm proud of my culture - I'm diagnosed with adhd - I love to draw and make edits and layouts - I love music so much - I'm a Taurus - My favorite color is lavender - I might be aro spec idk ...Yeah, I could spend a lifetime, Sitting here talkin"

"I became such a strange shape, such a strange shape From trying to fit in... - Pinterest - Instagram - Spotify

...and now I'm just a jigsaw"

"Only got 12 hours in L.A., no time to waste, We'll sneak up to the fire escape and wait for the rain, And most days, dear, you drive me insane...

I have many interests some of those being The hunger Games,Owl House, Dragon School, pjo, hoO, toa, mcga, Six, SAO, mean girls the musical and movie, Beetlejuice the musical and movie, Heathers the musical since I haven't got the chance to watch the movie, a lot of musicals! 36 questions, heartstopper, the MCU, and there is probably more but my mind is blank. I also really love Greek mythology.

... playin' your games, Why don't we both push past the pain, so we can say, We felt it meet me in the middle of midnight"

"In the middle of the night when I'm in this dream....

My blorbos are: Alex Fierro, Hunter/The Golden Guard, Nico Di Angelo, Hazel Levesque, Emira Blight, Amity Blight, Regina George, Lydia deetz, Peter Parker, kirito.oh. and @austinwehaveaproblem Those are all I can think of right now

...It's like a million little stars spelling out your name"

"That's my fucking best friend, best friend That's my fucking lifeline, that's my ride or die, likе...

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...that's my fucking hate you, but you know that that's a damn lie"

"Parla, la gente purtroppo parla Non sa di che cazzo parla.....

This is kinda my dni, anyway dni if you're racist, homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, ableist, think taylor swift can do no wrong,pro autism speak, people who don't believe adhd is a disability, t*rfs, r*dfems, like the dsmp or are a precico shipper, like ol*via r*drigo (<- unless I followed you first) sabrina carpenter anti or josua bassett anti. Other than that you are welcome on my blog!

....Tu portami dove sto a galla Che qui mi manca I'aria"

"This is not music, this is life...

My favorite singers and bands are, Taylor swift, måneskin, Sabrina Carpenter, Avril Lavigne, fall out boy, Joshua bassett, Conan gray and halsey! I am a strong believer the pop and rock are the best genres ever! I am always open to new music suggestions so feel free to send me an ask!

...this is what I live for"

At last, as the sun went down you seemed to understand that is was time for me to go.

"You'll come back?" you say

"Always" I promised "The sun always comes back"

"We are friends now" I say "Call on me I will be there for you"

[urboymutual]

I feel like I saw someone say once that the transphobic detransitioners refuse to accept the consequences of their actions so they project it onto trans ppl as whole bc apparently we were the ones personally injecting them w hrt and doing their surgeries. I always feel kind of weird abt the the mostly non-transphobic ones that gear their content towards trans ppl to like. Tell us not to be mean to them or something ?? Idk if u know what I mean but like. Uh. Yeah that’s all I got

no i get u anon literally saw one in the tiktok comments getting mad at a trans person for saying to a cis detransitioner "good luck on your journey im happy that you were able to find who are u and i only hope you don't use your experience to be transphobic" (op literally liked comments abt how being trans was a trend 😭) but some random cis detransitioner was like "THESE COMMENTS R SOO FUCKED UP AND VILE" like . ur mad trans people are wary abt cis detransitioners when theres been a literally trend of cis women detransitioners becoming t*rfs?!? like literally two comments down there was one of them saying "so glad u got out 🥺 the medical industry mutilates our children" LIKE HELLO?.!. idk if this make sense but transphobic cis detransitioners are literally just like fatphobic former fat people . just so much bitterness inside their bodies . like lol sorry we're thriving and u made a mistake maybe try therapy before switching to hate groups

[cosmic-robot-menace]

I think in the two years since I realized I was nonbinary, I've become less and less happy. I hate how much more bitter, resentful and cynical I've been feeling ever since. I don't know if anyone else had a similar experience.

After I finally cut ties with a shitty friend in april 2019, I was slowly climbing up, healing and recovering from the damage that person and his gf did to me.

Then on november of the same year, that little progress just crumbled when I figured out I was trans, and I was subjected to some of the worst emotional abuse I've ever experienced from someone who claimed to be my best friend. It was so bad it really warped how I viewed myself, I was convinced I was a bad person due to all the insane accusations I received, I became suicidal and started to self harm.

Ironically, this ex friend who was spouting straight up tmed and t*rf trash eventually came out as trans, which, I'm not gonna lie, infuriates me. It doesn't wash away the horrific abuse they put me through, and they had no right to take their self hatred on me like that, when I did NOTHING wrong. Then I had to deal with more shitty transphobic friends who called me names, migendered me, or acted like I was "ungrateful" and "whiny" for asking to be properly referred. You know the story already. All these people. Every. Single. One. Were cis people who happily bragged about having trans friends and being trans friendly, yet they turned out to be the most heinous freaks I ever had to deal with.

Then my family... especially my mother. I resent her. The way she doesn't want to give a fuck about how JKR is a massive transphobe and keeps reading her books, how she threw a MASSIVE FIT when I mentionned we talked about inclusive language in class. It sucks, she doesn't care about us, not in the slightest, just a performative "oh that's terrible!" when there's news of a trans person getting attacked or killed. I know she'll hate me when I come out, she'll hate me for not being the eager-to-have-children straight woman she expected out of me.

I'm tired of it. My life has gotten so much worse since I came out. I'm so bloated with bile and I don't know how to get rid of it, I'm in a permanent state of ire after all I had to deal with.

[punksarahreese]

People are actually shipping Marjan with a character she's had practically zero onscreen contact with over the trans man she's actually being set up to be in a relationship with, huh? Fucking terf piece of shit.

So the funny thing is I’m absolutely not transphobic! You can identify however you want!! And love whoever you want!! As long as it doesn’t hurt anyone and it makes you happy/comfortable and everyone involved is consenting? It’s all good <3 Trans and nonbinary people are so valid and I really wish you wouldn’t come onto my page and try to insinuate that I believe any t*rf or r*dfem bullshit because that’s a fucking lie and it’s rather insulting that you’d dare say that

As a lesbian, I write primarily wlw ships. It’s a headcanon, my dear, it doesn’t have to be real or canon. I love Paul and Marjan but I don’t often write heterosexual romance, nor do I often write mlm content, because I’m a lesbian. It’s not me being transphobic it’s actually me trying to avoid writing for couples I don’t have experience with in writing or in real life. Just like how I wouldn’t write about Paul’s experiences as a transman because I’m not trans and I wouldn’t want to take away from actual trans voices. When I write for Marjan I do my research and try and be as respectful as I can while writing a Muslim woman because I am not Muslim. I don’t talk about her hair or reference anything I don’t know about or am not educated on because it’s not my place. I would do the same when I write heterosexual ships, I just haven’t at this point in time.

Also, are you referencing my most recent fic with Marjan and Nancy? Because I never said it was romantic in that sense, it was just Marjan comforting her teammate and friend. Nancy experienced a horrible thing in 2x2 and she was the closest person to Tim, but since she isn’t a main character they probably won’t talk about how she’s coping or anything much more in the show. Marjan is always comforting the 126 when bad things happen, we’ve seen it in both seasons so of course she’s help Nancy. So I wrote something where Nancy’s teammate is comforting her because THATS WHAT FRIENDS DO WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN.

Moreover, who cares if I write for Michelle/Marjan or Nancy/Marjan or Nancy/Michelle? It’s fan fiction, I never claimed it to be canon and I never will. This is my account and I enjoy writing for what I do. It’s people like you in fandoms that make content creators feel like shit for no reason.

I think maybe you should ask yourself why you feel the need to attack people on the internet and make horrible claims. Why not go attack real t*rfs who deserve this shit? I’ve seen you send a similar ask to Glow and it’s just bullshit. Leave me and my mutuals alone please. Take a step back and remember that just because you’re anonymous doesn’t mean your words don’t impact others. Take a deep breath, go drink some water, and grow up, my friend.

And never come onto my or my friends pages equating us to hate groups ever again <3

[salmonsnakerune]

that being said i do have to wonder how much of the uptick in T*RFs has to do with outrage addiction and cancel culture and whatnot becoming so prevalent.

a lot of privileged people (look at how many TERFs are white women) are so badly wanting something to be outraged at but aren’t willing to look at the social structures that already oppress them (sexism from cis men, for an example) or are mis-equating it (believing that trans folk hold privilege over them for whatever reason, or that trans folk are a bigger threat than cis men) and instead find it easier to punch down onto a group they already hold privilege over- in this case transgender people, transgender women specifically- because it’s socially acceptable to do so.

it’s not socially acceptable to challenge the way cis men mistreat cis women and trans folk, especially for tradwife types. and even self-confessed “man hating feminists” join in on this, because they know that they will get social support from nearly every other demographic, because you know what is socially acceptable, and has been happening for decades? shitting on trans folk. and as trans acceptance becomes more mainstream, as we start to push more for legal rights and protections? as outrage addiction becomes more of a cornerstone of our digital society? how people have begun to crave conflict and reasons to be outraged, any reason at all (because outside of outrage addiction and cancel culture, going off at a gay man calling himself “submissive and breedable” because it’s “co-oping the female experience [of breeding]” is fucking ridiculous)?

we see more TERFs coming out of the woodwork gently nudging people in the direction of their rhetoric to engage with their outrage addiction in a way that TERFs specifically find acceptable. they utilise cancel culture to point out trans folk who have done shit (for an older example, think caitlyn jenner, but there are always non-famous examples, because trans folk are not a monolith or a hivemind and there are always going to be shitty people in every demographic) as a reason why trans people are dangerous, or predatory, or “taking away the rights of women”. they prey on the fears of cis women and misdirect them (think of the natural fear cis women experience surrounding sexual assault, and how TERFs manage to misdirect that fear away from cis men and towards those nasty scary transes). and as a result we end up with a mass hysteria of transphobia that has always been there, society has been transphobic for decades, but is now fanned and inflamed by scores of TERFs worming their way into collective psyches because the internet is so far-reaching, because our opinions can hit more people than ever before if you utilise your platform in just the right (or wrong) way, because society as a whole is moving towards shock headlines and cancel culture and outrage addiction.

i don’t know, there’s no massive, poignant point to this, other than that the internet is spreading TERF rhetoric faster than ever before, and i don’t think anyone really knows what the answer to it is other than calling out TERF dogwhistles and not giving them platforms. they’re a hate group, sure, and in some cases domestic terrorists- look at the UK- but aside from pushing harder for awareness and acceptance, and teaching people about those dogwhistles and deplatforming TERFs, it does feel like there’s not much of a way to push back any meaningful amount. and i don’t think i’m the only trans person that feels hopeless in the face of it.

[halogen2]

actually wait i have things to say about trans exclusion and the ways t/e/rfs end up invading even trans-friendly spaces that i dont want to hide in the tags of a reblog

there is a LOT of trans exclusionary ideology running around in cis queer spaces &/or cis feminist spaces--often being pushed by people who say “fuck te/rfs” and who DONT actively hate trans people and its because people do not think critically abt the things theyre saying.

for example: that idea going around that cishet men on tiktok have started a trend of wearing skirts and nail polish in order to abuse and manipulate women into trusting them. that is transmisogyny 101. there is nothing not transphobic about that... and yet. And YET. 

and this happens because cis people--u arent thinking abt how the things u say impact trans women (and occasionally trans men and nonbinary people). ur only thinking abt other cis people. 

so then all this t/erf ideology gets spread in these “safe spaces” b/c u just heard one person u follow say it and refuse to engage with the ideas meaningfully and no one stops to think “wait, perhaps this affects the trans community” or “maybe this is rooted in transphobia and/or the assumption that everyone is cis”

which is how we end up with cis allies on here reblogging garbage that pretty much boils down to “if u have a penis/vagina then you always experience these things and u cant escape them and u cant change them and also chromosomes and also people with penises are evil” while also reblogging things like “support trans women :) t/erfs fuck off :)”

also, get the shinigami eyes chrome extension if u use tumblr on ur comptuer i am BEGGING u. it tells u when someone is known for being transphobic (their username will appear in red). its the easiest way in the world to make sure u arent accidentally uncritically engaging with transphobia.

tl;dr use critical thinking skillz and actually consider the needs of the trans community ur trying to support

[eldritchtouched]

I relate very heavily to Mohg and Miquella both in very, very different ways, so I always find it very frustrating that people act like one can only like one or the other and generally demonizing the other in some way. 

(This demonization is notable. There are Miquella fans who go with the “creepy rapist stalker in love with someone gay” trope for Mohg as if that isn’t laden in a mix of not understanding that rapists do not love the people who they rape otherwise they wouldn’t rape them and old tropes and assumptions about gayness as some malignant perversion and that gay people are more prone to rape (not so), and Mohg fans who go with the “Miquella basically brainwashes people into loving him all the time” instead of the possibility that Miquella is compelling to most without his magic because he is a good person who realizes the Golden Order’s completely fucked up and offers refuge and safety for outcasts.)

I relate to Miquella is because of the issue with his apparent youth and a lot of the shit there. I am transitioning over a decade after I’ve figured out my shit and so it is very strange to essentially go through (my proper) puberty in my late twenties. On top of that, I’ve always had a babyface, so I was already seen as younger than I was, so this just exacerbates it because I’m only recently having my voice drop and my facial hair is a patchy mess. 

Then you add in the general infantilization of transmasculinity, the “our daughters are being brainwashed into chopping off their breasts!” and so on and so forth, and there’s a lot I find relatable about it. It’s also why I find the discourse surrounding Miquella’s relationships and how, despite him being an adult that he shouldn’t have relationships because he looks young, noxious. I’ve dead-ass seen transphobic and homophobic takes about how gay men who are attracted to trans men are all secretly pedophiles because somehow top surgery makes one’s chest “prepubescent” and because of how earlier in transition one’s features look younger than average to many. It’s straight up a T*RF talking point and a chunk of the Elden Ring fandom has latched onto it so readily, even supposedly progressive fans as if that isn’t deeply close to something obviously fucked up.

I relate to Mohg because of the rejection and hatred, being outcast, and turning toward anger at having been hurt by a fucked up system. This is also why I ultimately pity Morgott and find him in a weird nebulous place, incidentally, because Morgott is basically trying to make himself palatable to the people who hate him, while Mohg’s whole thing is “be gay, do crime.” Which just proves a point that many who say “be gay, do crime” really don’t get that it’s not just a slogan. Even a fictional character doing fucked up shit after being fucked over by a regime that commits genocide and threw him in the sewers as a baby is apparently too much for them.

(There’s also some stuff surrounding religious stuff I will not get into in depth because I see it as deeply private, but the idea that a deity associated with blood and darkness is necessarily malicious, and the notion that the Formless Mother is a “corruption” leave deeply sour tastes in my mouth for that reason. And, as Miriel points out “all things can be conjoined.” The idea of corruption and purity are made up and actively seek to separate instead of conjoin.)

[nightcoremoon]

t*rfs are fucking delusional if they think genital reductivism and vaginal worship is NOT the epitome of sexually objectifying women in the same breath as saying that all bisexuals are just attracted to "genders" to hide the fact we all want just as much pussy as they do, allegedly. congratulations, you hate the GBTQA+. idiots.

I like girls with vaginas, I like guys with dicks, I like guys with vaginas, I like girls with dicks, and I like people of any gender or any shape of genitalia. you're the ones who sexually objectify what you perceive as "womyn" because of your

white

western

imperial

christian

european

colonial

upbringing and cultural brainwashing. you think how you think because you're complicit in the genocides perpetuated against the cultures with different perceptions of gender than from the Catholic/Protestant bloodthirsty militaristic savage warlords who just murdered everyone with different idealogy about gender than them

you don't have a leg to stand on

and to the "actually I'm a terf who's african so that's not true" anon: no, you are either white and pretending to be black for discourse clout, or you've been successfully brainwashed and assimilated by the aforementioned White Western Imperial Christian European Colonists and your opinion doesn't count. "I'm black and I love cops and hate blacklivesmatter/staywoke and oppose affirmative action and don't see a racial bias in society and don't have a problem with white people saying the n word even with the hard r but I do have a problem with black people using it to describe ourselves and think that the black panthers were terrorists and love ronald reagan because the 80s gays and blacks were all hedonistic prurient sex fiends who all deserved to die from aids and crack and maybe if black people didn't wanna be lynched they should've just knuckled under and obeyed the white men" man shut the fuck up and clean the boot polish off your tongue before I smack the veneer facade off your twitter account to show you're literally just another rachel dolezal liar. either way there's still dozens of non-african cultures out there with noncisnormative views on gender (jews, native americans, indians, etc) and even if you WERE black, YOURE STILL A FUCKING BIGOTED ASSHOLE TOWARDS ALL THOSE OTHER CULTURES which maybe might not be the conveniently narrow definition of racism where all ethnicities have privilege over black people and therefore racism against non black poc isn't ~technically actually racism at all~, but if you're a bigoted asshole to an ethnic minority hellbent on erasing their cultural history from the world, YOURE STILL RACIST. and just because you're black doesn't mean you're excused from queerphobia either in the first fucking place, and even if you're a black western imperial christian european colonial bootlicker, you're still responsible for spreading that shit. you are equally as culpable. besides, marsha was black too. and it's because of her we have what we have. trans, gay, or otherwise. shitting on trans people is shitting on your own legacy as queer. you stupid fucking cunts.

so this isn't about me, society doesn't treat me like shit for being trans, I'm white, I have the privilege, the worst I have is shitty worthless people sending rude anons. but the two-spirits, the hijra, the il femminiello, the elagabalus, they don't have privilege. they exist, they get treated like shit, and transphobic pieces of shit like you are responsible for it. you're culpable. you're racist. you're queerphobia and you're assholes for it. t*rfs do not belong in the LGBTQ. you don't want to anyway. so I guess you can just

😎

take the L

...

well you have to share it with the lesbians who aren't insufferable garbage fire humans but I'm bi I can't resist a pun when I see opportunity

point is: you're wrong, i'm right, fuck off bitch :)

[givelifetoaworld]

i stopped binding for months because i thought it was hurting my chances of top surgery. found out later that was a t/er*f thing and i was so fucking mad because i was just suffering with dysphoria for no reason.

i’ve been told personally that “radical feminism is always waiting for me” by someone hoping to get transmascs to “return to womanhood”.

i have seen self proclaimed te*rf*s specifically target trans men and slowly poison them with lies about transitioning to the point where they became afraid of identifying as transmasc.

you cannot be fucking serious by thinking that they aren’t targeting us. are they transmisogynistic? of course? do YOU a know what that means though, or is it just a buzzword to you? because you people are fucking transmisogynists. is “tme” something to slap in your bio if you’re not a transfem? do you actually understand the terms that you’re using? do you understand that transmascs are read as women on the daily because society hates us so much, meaning that we experience misogyny?? or do you think we all look like white hypermasc cis men. because you value us “passing”, because you’re a piece of shit who think we need to look or act a certain way to “prove” our identities?

oh and before you even think it: transmascs can be transmisogynists. there’s a popular tiktok transmasc lesbian who was recently revealed to be a violent transmisogynist for example! we are not exempt from being transmisogynistic, as no one is. even transfems can be. you need to understand and i mean really understand that t/e/r/*f ideology is not solely transmisogyny, though.

there are simply too many people who genuinely believe transmisogyny is the only “valid” transphobic experience, and at the same time, hold trans women to such high, unbelievable standards that apparently it’s okay to bombard them with violence the second they have a take you don’t agree with.

idk i’m just fucking exhausted of watching trans women be incredibly smart and insightful and so compassionate toward the trans community as a whole then y’all stupid motherfuckers be like “SHES A TERRRRFFFFF” because she suggested trans men have issues too. you hold us to such high fucking standards because you’re an insecure internet leftist and have no clue what you’re fucking saying at any given time.

y’all ACTUALLY think t/e*rf/s constantly spreading false info about hormones to get us to detransition, spreading false info about binding dangers to get us to stop, literally actively infiltrating transmasc spaces to spread false information to make us self hating for “being men” and “abandoning womanhood”... you ACTUALLY think that means they LIKE us??? WHAT????