#everybody needs to chill and some of tou need to think about your behavior

[adinelleggreeo]

So I saw this post about the victims of gaiman and it was..... not very well thought out ngl.

It was basically one of those 'lets not jump to conclusions' type posts and OP listed some known facts and 'facts' about what was up at the time.

Their reblogs were a mess. People weren't happy at all with what they had to say. I think they made another post with more correct info, but that didn't help, because the 'lets not jump to conclusions' vibe was still there.

I think OP was leftist and sorry, not sorry, the American left (online at least) is very immature and hypocritical. This backfires on you in cases like this, because if it were anyone else being accused, most of you would have jumped to crucifying them.

People have been frustrated with the way you've been tiptoeing around gaiman, especially with what he admitted to doing. Even if it's proven that rape wasn't committed, he still slept with young women young enough to be his daughters. That's gross! What business does an old man have sniffing around brand new young adults?

I know you all looked up to him and admired his work, but coming online and making 'lets not jump to conclusions' type posts is not the way to deal with these revelations!

I made an earlier post that said something along the lines of 'waiting patiently to see more posts about this situation' but I take it back if the posts you're making are taking the focus off the victims and potentially excusing horrendous crimes.

One thing OP said that I agree with is that y'all should get off the internet and touch some grass. And probably put down your Good Omens and Coraline for a bit.

And probably delete any iffy posts you made about this situation before it comes back to haunt you in the future.

------

Just in case this attracts the wrong people: I don't argue on the internet. I'm not a debate- type person and I don't enjoy the act of going back and forth with people that don't want to hear you. If you want to argue, do it with the wall.

[theconfusedkiddo-blog]

?

i have so many questions to ask the universe about. most of these aren’t even important. well, i guess they are to me. but i dont think it really does to anyone else, unless they have the same opinion/thought as i do.

sometimes i wonder, are quotes i see all over the internet true? are they all realistic? how did people come up with those? is it based on their experience? or is it based on their imagination? or do they gather wise words up to SEEM wise? or do they make it to make other people feel bad about what they did?

people say that others hate each other because they are jealous. yes, that happens a lot but that doesnt occur in all situations. some people may just be too close-minded to see the bigger picture of “hate��. or am i the one who is not wise enough to maybe admit that im jealous? you see, things like this confuse me. you don’t always hate  a person because of your own jealousy. for example, you really really really dislike a person because of his/her inappropriate attitude/behavior. people cant randomly point out that you’re jealous of him/her. in situations like this, people need to understand that when you dislike someone, it’s not always because of jealousy. so stop acting like youre the victim. (yes im starting to throw shade at a person who won’t read this) I’m so sick and tired of your behavior since you probably thing you own us now. Now, you have your so-called “boyfriend” that all you do is call him and talk about him. I mean, girl! You’re only 13. and now youre already dating your ex’s bestfriend. i mean, i know he’s chill about it but you only have your childhood once. thirteen is only the beginning of the teenage years. But at least dont forget about your bestfriends since all you do is ask us what to say to him and hoe sweet he is. ive been by your side for almost 3 years when almost everyone in the whole grade disliked you in your first year of your new school. we were very relatable and we used to have playdates all the time. i really miss talking to you. but i guess all you can do now is look for snapchat filters and take your so-called boyfriend’s phone and send a snap video of how you guys are hanging out and you sent it through his phone to your friends and his frineds. and tbh, he seems annoyed of you being on your own little snpachat world. this is the seocnd time that youve treated us like shit. the first time was wehn you only choose one person out of the whole group to play with and you treat the others as if they werent even there. you excluded some of us, too. and you drag people to places and leave the other person/other people behind and everybody would end up having a bad time except for you. that habit of yours just really changed the image of your kind and caring self. you used to tell people to take pictures of you a lot. and if you have to take turns to take the picture, oyu would always complain that you have to be in the picture too. when we already took a gajillion pictures of you. we told you your mistakes, we told you why we kind of avoided you, and we also admitted that we talked behind your back. you were sad, it’s okay, im sorry for that. we know that it was worng for us to talk about tou behind your back, but at least we told ypu anyway, right? but then we were the ones who had to make it up to you again. you didnt even say sorry for what you did. and then, you accepted our apology and you’ve changed to be a better person. but i guess you got too carried away qith that. you thought that we are so okay with you that youve decided to go back to your old self again? you think that if we go against you, you’d have the whole senior gang by your side since you have mutual romantic attractions with one of their gang members?

even if you dont think so, actions speak louder than words, honey :)