#especially when i repeatedly say i dont do long distance anymore regardless of how i feel | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

artisanalpeanutbutter · 1 year ago

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Looking back again i find it fascinating that you can say something directly to someone, exactly as you mean it with no room for interpretation, and they'll still take it as something up for interpretation

#'i am not interested in X' means im not interested in X #i dont see how that has any wiggle room #like man #if i say i am not interested in pursuing a relationship with you because x y z but i do or did have feeling at one point #it means im not interested in pursuing a romantic relarionship with you #i dont see how that means anything else #or leaves room for someone to think it's a maybe #im not going into this any more than i already have but legit i never leave room for interpretation when talking abt stuff like this for a #reason yk? i was so SO clear so many times but whatevvs #pisses me off ngl #also like. drunk texting me that they like me after i told them im not interested. instant loss of any potential interest i did have #ok im getting into it more #bc like. how does 'yeah if we lived closee i would be interested in testing the waters but i dont do distance so no.' mean 'maybe'?#especially when i repeatedly say i dont do long distance anymore regardless of how i feel #and that i am not interested #life aint a romance novel man #ESPECIALLY after i told them not to hang on to me and they should pursue other people because i am doing the same. because #i am not interested in a situationship or anything like that #and i will not string them along and make them think there's a chance. i said it's not happening #the stars didnt align man #and also im one hundo not interested anymore bc of the drunk text among many other things #and you still are trying to get my attention #gives me the ick and qt this point im just mad bc I've been open abt how much it bothers me when ppl do that #anyway #i just don't know how to handle this bc i cant just. sever ties. or stay away rn #to let things calm down or whatever

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