#edit: yozora has a short hair version of her self i'm also referencing that image of her physically

[sappho-knight]

I don’t know if you’ve been asked this before, but what would your ideal type of girlfriend would be? 😳

oh gosh okay let me think; thank you for the ask, anon!

my shortform answer is my anime waifu; to be vague using concepts of astrology stereotypes, someone who's a virgo or capricorn lean? there's a whole list under the cut though!

my longform answer is that:

it's got to be someone i feel like i could get comfortable/intimate with physically, and someone who wasn't afraid to offer critique when asked for it.

someone who might think about differing ways to pamper me; any type of love languages would be accepted tbh?

someone who thinks of or about me when i'm not around (with some material proof; a letter or poem or gift would be nice...)

someone who's willing to communicate to me their desires and try their best to adapt as i do for their too

someone i could argue with on disagreements, but drop all grudges at the end of the day if it's not a deal breaker;

someone who would consider my viewpoints and try to understand where i'm coming from, as i do for their, in pursuit of proper resolution

someone who's willing to let me visit them and vice versa for casual meetings (i love dropping by with gifts or for a short hello!)

someone who i can work out a schedule with; sometimes for dates, but also for ease of home planning (and i also think scheduling sex is really hot)

someone who's in it for the long haul, despite the possibility of it not working out. someone who has time and space in their life to try co-living situations, maybe prepared to discuss bigger life decisions, etc

someone who's my biggest cheerleader despite everything would be nice...

someone i could also hold an intellectual conversation with! i'm not fussy about credentials or knowledge, just someone whose values and logic/reasoning skills are sound

someone who's willing to try! at things they're not comfortable with or great at

someone who's willing to be patient with me

someone who's proactive in the bedroom? 🥺 (i'm the most audible bitch in there amazon would be ashamed. also having someone push me around while they're doming is hot... and someone who's willing to direct me on how to pleasure themselves would be great!)

(whoever this imaginary girlfriend is: please tell me you love me 🥺🥺🥺)

physically it's someone who's:

butch/gnc

short hair, lithe build,

sharp eyes, asian; but that's because they're usually the type of girls i see irl that i crush on haha :0c also foot note that asians can have wider eyes too!

height doesn't matter too much! (somehow i end up finding shorter women though???)

lives nearby, minimally in the same country; i'm not okay with long-distance relationships anymore!