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aromanticannibal · 8 days ago

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BROOO WHAT’S A GOOD OUTFIT FOR CLUBBING !?

ok so. gay clubbing. you probably will dance. you SHOULD dance. so dance safe clothes. as in, if you know you can dance in heels don't wear heels (I don't think you own any so you're fine but yknow. in general comfy shoes) etc etc. I advise shiny stuff. put on cute chains and jewelry, nothing that you fear getting stolen just in case and avoid stuff that could hurt people badly if they get hit with it but pick as much stuff that will shine with club lights as possible. glitter is good too if you have it. tie up your hair but know it won't stay up if you dance well enough. no hat, it's gonna fall. again, nothing you fear losing too much. DONT TAKE YOUR BIG ASS BAG WITH YOU. FIND A PURSE. I'M BEING SO SERIOUS. find a good safe pocket for your phone. in the same vein as the jewelry, flowy clothes that will move with you, OR if you're confident with it, tight stuff that will show how you move.

I haven't been to that many fun places and technically no clubs but my friends act like everywhere is a club so. generally I like putting on crop tops because I dance with my hips.

#other stuff you probably know but just in case and reminding you:#eat before coming. don't drink more than two alcoholised drinks and ideally drink water and eat after if possible #keep an eye on your friends and make sure they keep an eye on you #you're going to a gay bar so it's safer but keep in mind you still are not supposed to trust strangers #don't go home with anyone you don't know #watch your drink. begging you watch your drink #if you feel bad at any point you can and should sit down or get out ideally with a friend #(if your friend doesn't make sure you're OK they're doing something wrong. similarly make sure they're ok too but it's your first time so #like yknow)#don't be scared of being ridiculous when you dance - there's always someone doing worse and people pay more attention to enthusiasm if they #pay attention at all #DON'T FUCKING TAKE DRUGS #I'm being so for real don't be fucking quirky. don't take drugs #if you ever take drugs you do it in a controlled environment with people you trust and stuff you're as sure as possible is safz #you don't do it with randos at a club #Last thing I got is fashion advice - obviously be yourself #wear something you'll feel comfortable and pretty in #and remember you're likely getting out of there late so get soemthing warm #(and given the stage of your muscles stretch before lmao)#ask//#mutuals//

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