#dont get me wrong i love the school im going to its litteraly the best i could have ener hoped for its just that its a private school

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So I'm an attractive dude right. Girls like me. And I'm fun to be around and hang out with. I'm really really good at talking. And I connect with people really well. Anyways about a month ago me and this girl started a thing. Shes the sister of one of my best freinds. He totally supported it and even wing manned for me a little bit giving me advice and all about her. Anyways it was going really well. She even texted her brother telling him she liked me alot. Problem is I'm 18 and a senior in high school, shes 15 and a sophomore. Pretty common age gap right? Nothing too weird about it and all. But her mom was against it from the start even though the mom loves me and its really only cause of my age. Anyways me and this girl were a thing or fling whatever you wanna call it. It seemed like she liked me alot and like we vibed really well. I was seeing her almost everyday. Hanging out with her and her brother. She and I would cuddle and shit and it was all fantastic. She was obviously really into me and all and it was all great. Anyways on friday a week ago we were in her kitchen. I asked her "Do you wanna date me?" she said "Idk i need to figure out my life but I think I do" and that night when I left I told her to think about it. She said she would. The next day I see her again and I ask her the same question and she said she still didnt know. Anyways i just go ahead and ask her if I could kiss her (Im a gentleman she later told me she was appreciative i asked her first) we were in the car with her brother sitting in the back chillin cuddling and she said "Not right now no" so instead Igave her a hickey and she was like "Fuck im gonna be pissed at myself for this in the morning" I made sure to ask her if it was ok and she said yes and she said she wasnt mad at me but she was mad at herself. The next day she texted me and was like "Im really not sure how I feel about you anymore.. Im not sure if I want to do this anymore" So in response I told her "Can we act like I had never asked u out or anything had happened yesterday or the day before? that was too soon and I'm not even sure if I want to date you its only been 2 weeks" and she was in agreement. Anyways on tuesday her brother thought she was mad at me so i went over and talked to her i was like "I thought we were gonna act like that all had never happened and keep going how we were before?" She said "yes we are" and it was all good. She wasnt even mad at me she was mad at her brother for being a dick to her during lunch. Nothing happened until last night when I asked her "Im confused about us.. are we still a thing? Do you still like me?" and she said "Were freinds nothing more... Im pretty sure I dont likeyou like that anymore and atm I can't see us being anything more than freinds. I dont want to interfere in u and my brothers freindship and id like for my mom to approve of it if we were too lol. Ive been unsure about it the whole time and i dont wanna engage in something im unsure of. Im sorry" so i was like "yea freinds is cool.. I dont really wanna be just freinds with u but i wanna hang out with u and all and iffreinds is it then ok" and she was like "ok".... What happened? She obviously liked me alot until I asked her out. How did she feel unsure? Like she didnt seem unsure until I asked her out. And like i dunno what happened cause it was 100 percent fine until I had asked her out. Even her brother and freinds were like "Shes really into u" I am so confused rn. Litteraly I've never had a girlfriend and I don't have much expierence with this kind of thing I had a thing with another girl and the same shit happened. Like a girl will start out liking me alot and then Ill start liking her too. Itll go well until I ask her out and then shell be like I dunno how I feel. and then a week later shell end it. Wtf is wrong with me? What happened with this girl? Can I get her feelings back? Was she influenced by her mom not tobe anything with me? Is thatwhy she ended it. What happened I need answers cause I have had no success with any girl so far. via /r/dating_advice