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agape-l0ve · 4 years ago

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hello i am back lol

I think the last few times I wrote out a blog was when jj was deployed. tumblr was a really helpful tool for me at that time because it allowed me to be completely vulnerable without having to burden anyone else!

I was looking back at my old posts and it’s so interesting to read where I was back then and to see the progression of how much life changes in such short bursts of time! So here’s just an update for my future self -- warning, it’s not very exciting hahaha

So, since jj returned in dec 2018, it’s honestly been great! We saw 2019 and 2020 as a time to catch up on all the lost time we had in the previous years. No more exercises, training, or trips away, life actually went back to normal - which was weird. I look back and think about how we’ve only been in this lifestyle since 2016, but so much can happen within a span of 4-5 years. I’ve finally graduated from CFCC’s OTA program, which was honestly such a blessing because our class was able to complete our requirements before COVID got really bad. Well, I should say most of our class. As of right now, I think only one more person is finishing up their FW II, which is crazy because these days, I find myself thinking about how I was just finishing up HH and transitioning into peds outpatient in FW II exactly one year ago.

I’ll talk a bit about my FW II experiences.. since they were not the greatest lol.

Home health was really interesting. I was honestly DREADING it because 1, I don’t like spending long amounts of time in the car and 2, I hate being in the car with just one other person - especially someone I don’t feel100% comfortable with. Also, I wasn’t too fond of the idea of going to people’s homes either. I think this placement really stretched me and pushed me out of my comfort zone in every aspect. Looking back now, I genuinely enjoyed the experience for what it was! Would I voluntarily do it again? It depends! (which is a step up from a solid no)

Our area covered the extremely rural areas of our surrounding counties and it definitely served as a huge culture shock. But everyone was so sweet and grateful for any help they could get and I will always remember some of the most awesome patients I got to meet. The negative effects of this rotation mostly came from my supervisor. She was an awful human being, but thankfully, she was at least a good OTR. However, that being said, I saw ZERO treatments! Even when I tried to tell my professor, NO ONE LISTENED OR BELIEVED ME. It was extremely frustrating because I had all of these assignments to do and all of them were about mf interventions. Anyways, my OTR was untimely, rude, unapologetic, and lacked empathy out of her ass. I was so ready to be done with her and thankfully, she didn’t ruin HH as an option for me - just wasted my time with her. If someone could win an award for the amount of countless hours they could talk about themselves, it would be her. 9 hours every day, non-stop, talking about herself and how great she is and her bf. omfg JUST GET ME OUT OF THE CAR

FW II was supposed to be really exciting for me. I was done with HH and moving onto what I cared about the most and what I really felt passionate about. Helping children in clinic! It was honestly my dream. It was a multi-disciplinary site with SLP, PT, and OT. Everyone seemed nice and it just so happens that my OTR at this placement was a former Marine and he and I had a lot in common paper. Boy, was I in for it. He turned out to be an extremely narcissistic man who thought the world of only himself. He shit talked EVERYONE behind their backs, but was extremely fake to their face. Him and the front office administrator would gossip every moment they got, like they were 13 year old bullies. He suffered from several TBIs when he was enlisted, so it’s safe to say that his temperament issues and memory loss were definitely a result of those. But the worst part is, he refused to admit it. He would shit talk the boss, the PR manager, the PTs, the clients, and just about everyone in between. And he brought 100% of his personal life into this, which I get if we’re co-workers, that’s fine. But as your student, I don’t need to know about that kind of crap. On top of that, I was his first FW II student... lol of course I was. So he knew nothing about how to help me, guide me, or teach me. Instead of looking at the informational packed my professor handed to him, he puts that in the closet the entire 9 weeks I’m with him and proceeds to continuously throw me under the bus when it came to doing my assignments and treating patients. Mind you, I didn’t get to treat anyone in HH, so this is now my first real opportunity to start treating patients throughout the entirety of my program. Safe to say, I was nervous. But I pulled through and did my best and I forced myself to become really confident really quickly. I was awesome at it and I was honestly very proud of the practitioner I was striving to be. He did help me from time to time and I’d like to believe there were moments where he was genuine and tried his best to help me. But none of those times outweigh the flustercluck that was that clinic. Anyways, I came out pretty salty about the whole thing, but I didn’t let it ruin my passion for helping children, as that is what I aspire to do in the future. I made strides with kids my OTR wasn’t able to connect with for months. And instead of encouraging me and allowing me to fulfill my duty as a student, he re-books them with another therapist and anyone in healthcare knows how that detrimental that process is to their progression and tells me that he’s just trying to be nice and share his case-load with other people. No, you’re purposefully taking them away from me because you can’t stand the thought of someone being better than you at something. His pride and arrogance will forever taint my experience there and I have no intention of going back - which is a true shame because I absolutely fell in love with the kids and some of the other therapists there. Oh well, good riddance to both my HH OTR and my peds OTR.

Luckily through it all, COVID was just beginning and it only delayed my graduation process a few weeks. I was extremely fortunate to be one of the first few in my class to finish up and start studying for my NNCOT exam!

Studying for my exam was a time and a half. I honestly had -0% confidence in myself to pass this test. I knew it was coming, I knew I had to eventually take it.. but time just snuck up on me so quickly and before I realized, it was my time. I studied for about 3 months, graduating in June and taking my exam in Sept. I took a short break immediately following graduation and then read an entire 3,000 page textbook, took over 300 pages of notes, and took practice tests and listened to podcasts/watched youtube videos. It was a lot of information but it was honestly so rewarding to think about how much knowledge I’ve truly gained from these past few years. Fast forward, Sept 23, 2020 was the day I took my test and it was great! A lot less structured of a process than they make it sound and I was able to complete my exam in about 2 hours and passed a few weeks later! I got my license and everything was great!

For whatever reason, during this time, I felt in my heart that it was time to get another dog. This topic kept coming up un-provoked in EVERY single conversation we had with others and it just felt right. Being home now, I was able to spend every day with Teddy, rather than taking him to daycare. Because of the uncertainties of COVID at the time, I didn’t feel comfortable taking him in, nor did I want to drive if I didn’t have to. Teddy became extremely depressed, always sleeping in the closet or between the toilet and wall, which are places he goes only when he’s hurt or sick. I would try to play with him and take him out, but he had lost all motivation to do anything. It hurt my heart that I couldn’t give him what he wanted or what he needed. So, after a lot of thought and research, Chester came into our lives! Teddy’s breeder had JUST had a litter of puppies (on the same day I took my exam!) and I figured it was a good time to raise another puppy, since I have the time and no outstanding commitments right now. We picked him up in Nov, right before Thanksgiving and jj’s brother was in town to help us. It was a looooong day, 5 hours there and 5 hours back. I think we got home around 2am, but since then, my life has just been on hold while I raise Chester.

Teddy was not happy at first. I could tell he was confused and upset that another dog was here. But over time, they have become much closer and share experiences that has helped him become a better brother. Chester is a lot of work lol but he’s brought so much joy to all of us and I love him so much. He’s currently 5 months, losing all his baby teeth, and getting into everything and Teddy has been enjoying the company (in moderation lol).

In regards to our life, we were really hoping to PCS back home summer of 2020, but it didn’t happen. It was pretty disappointing because we’ve been on the east coast the whole time we’ve been active duty. A lot of our friends moved either back to their hometowns or to the west coast and it felt really unjustified that we were stuck here, but even so, we are making the most of it. We would have had to move through COVID and we wouldn’t have gotten Chester, so those are definitely some benefits of staying put. Since we’re here for a bit, we’ve decided to purchase a house! Our friends down the street are selling theirs and we figured it’d be a good financial idea to start allocating our rent into a cheaper mortgage. It has a double yard and it’s a bit newer than our current rental. So we are hoping to move around June! I’m excited, it’s kind of a fresh new start without having to be too big of a move for now.

Mentally, I’ve been fluctuating. I have a lot of self-inflicted guilt from not working at the moment. And yes, I agreed to get Chester and it’s a full-time job to watch him and not have to crate him all day. I want him to enjoy his puppyhood and I want to be here with him as well, so I do cherish these moments that I can have with both him and Teddy. However, I just feel like it’s the right thing to do or it’s what I’m supposed to do. I graduate and then I work! But being here, it’s just not the path for me. Besides, I keep reminding myself that there are no job openings in my immediate area right now anyways. So for now, I’m just spending my days with the pups and working on keeping the house clean, which does bring me a lot of joy. I need to learn to enjoy life and not worry about what I’m not doing. To help myself, I signed up for transcription services again, so hopefully that’ll bring in some money and take up some time. I think it’s the need to feel productive and I haven’t had that in a while. But with COVID, I’m sure that’s a very popular feeling.

I think that’s about it for now, that’s what’s been going with me the past few years! I can’t wait to read this in 2 years and hopefully, I won’t be in the same place lol

byee

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