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actuallylorelaigilmore · 3 months ago

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the deeply dispiriting feeling of being told that a handful of friendly strangers in a shared community would like to be part of a group you've proposed, only to hear from none of them and still be the only person in the discord you created when invites are about to expire almost a week later, leaving you paranoid and wondering whether you set it up wrong or just haven't received any kind of acknowledgement because they saw the work you put in setting it up and all realized you are way too much

#the odds that all of these people decided instead to form their own group and not tell me? highly unlikely #but with no other explanation...yeah #(i was trying to create a reading club for other people similar to my adhdness who want company/encouragement #in doing more reading like we did when we were younger #and setting up my very first discord server was kind of daunting but i did it with channels and intro posts and all #...and it's just been crickets #but because the people interested are on a substack i love rather than people i've spoken to before #i can't just ask why everyone's ignoring me #(lol)#cuz my total lack of patience isn't their problem #but having figured out a way to help myself read more by making it social #--just like how i've learned that making other things like writing social helps me stay on task--#only to have no one to be social with...definitely has me a little sad)#randomness #adhd

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