#conversely you can tell when a man is draining a woman's mana they literally make us ill
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being the mother at the center of a household (the man is also a dependent) sounds like hell on earth, actually.
#i watched it wear down my mother's already tenuous grasp on reality#the mental load is too much for one person and most men don't care they happily let their female partner do it all#i myself have never been in a relationship where i felt looked after beyond the beginning of it#once men think they have wooed you they drop the effort and hope you don't notice#i'm single and childless in my 30s but you know what else i am?#not stressed#moisturized#rested#without a man and children draining my life force#capitalism does that enough#if a man does not add tangible value to your life please stop popping out his babies and cleaning his shitstained underwear i beg y'all#my friend's husband is the only man i've ever witnessed who is a true partner in the sense of the word#he cooks he cleans he takes care of their baby WITHOUT BEING ASKED NAGGED OR TOLD#he just sees things that need to be done that would make his wife's life easier and does them#he is kind of a boring guy but you know what#maybe with men boring is good#i need to stop chasing intellectual or physical excitement if a man makes you feel excited he is probably toxic#so i retain extremely cautious optimism when it comes to males#and you know what? i can tell that she is a woman who is CARED for. she glows. there is just something about a woman's aura#when a man is taking care of her physically emotionally spiritually financially and logistically#conversely you can tell when a man is draining a woman's mana they literally make us ill#personal
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