#but yall gotta understand that a blanket ban on all of a certain gender ends up pushing out some people that you probably didn't mean to

[opossumanon]

Would love if sapphic posts could stop posting "men dni" and achillean posts stop posting "women dni" because as someone who's sapphic and achillean, man and woman and neither, it's very awkward to sit and try and figure out if I'm "man enough" or "woman enough" because I'm literally duel-wielding genders here ;-;