#but sure lets say he didn't see any fan tweets What about his peers who have all spoken about it

[korogie]

Guys I'm losing my mind I can't keep doing it

[destinyc1020]

I'm the anon who didn't want Keke and Halle trending.

I get what your saying and agree that these are the men that they are with and they chose to post what they post, but I just hate that we don't ignore it. Unless it is something harmful. Like I know Darius has liked transphobic posts and has other scandals👀. Disgusting. So I get calling that out. But I do see people calling Keke and Halle birds and judging them for being with them and then when discussing them that all they talk about. Which your right their celebrities unfortunately their life will get judged. I mean shoot we do that to non- celebrities lol. But to me the difference between people picking on black women and their white peers is that there is a level of anti-blackness that plays into it. That white celebrities won't deal with. Sure Taylor was trending and being picked on for dating that horrible white man. But they won't make that all she is known for. Whereas I see it happen to black women all the time they will just be known for that. It's almost like the media pushes those stories to humiliate black women and to me it doesn't help we contribute to it. Am I making sense? Sorry if I'm not ,but that's just how I feel. It feels like black women can't make a mistake without them being branded with that for the whole career. Whether the mistake be saying something wrong, doing a bad performance or dating someone that other people don't like or accept for them.

I see what you're saying overall Anon, but I just think the examples you're using are just the wrong ones.

People are gonna talk and tweet about any relationship scandals/gossip. It doesn't matter if the celebrity is black, white, green, or purple lol. Ppl are gonna talk. Period.

You yourself mentioned a great example.... Taylor Swift. Yes, she was trending too for dating that Matt trash. 🙄😒

There were media articles written about her too!

Fans didn't just "ignore" him and his craziness either!

And Taylor DOES have a reputation for the guys she's dated in the past... 👀 Idk where you've been lol 😆 It used to be a running joke not to date her coz then she'd write a song about you lol.

Most fans felt she could do better than Matt, so they clowned her too! Don't even get me started on the jokes at Tom Hiddleston's expense when he dated Taylor briefly years ago rofl 😂 He was clowned from sun up to sun down in that relationship lol.

Then there's the meltdown that fans had when Kylothee were confirmed. Timmy and Kylie were trending too. Some of his fans aren't gonna let him live this one down. 👀

It's not just bw who go through this Anon. EVERY celebrity (if they're famous enough) has random strangers weighing in and making comments about their rlshp. 🤷🏾‍♀️

With that said... I do agree with you that bw aren't always given the same grace and room to "grow" and "make mistakes" in their fame career as their white counterparts. But as far as dating rlshps? I think most would forget the past if Halle and even Keke ended up dating guys who don't seem to be embarrassments to them.

And you're asking the black community to "ignore" some nonsense? Please lol 😆 🤣 One thing we're gonna do is we're gonna call you out lol 😆 That's just how the bc is. We don't "ignore" nothing rofl 😂 🤣

That's a cultural thing though...... You can't control what millions of ppl do or choose to focus on 🤷🏾‍♀️