#but simply because the amount of energy and mental capacity I would need to allocate in order to DO that simply isn't there | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

lizardlicks · 20 hours ago

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this should not be a discovery about me, and yet I've never actually added up the parts of the whole, but the one way to get instantly on my good side is to feed me.

so many people-- friends, family-- who want to get me things or do something for me when gift giving or similar events arrive and like. It's really easy. give me food.

#making myself food is the one thing i consistently struggle with #just on a purely spoons/executive function expense basis #lots of time I have gone hungry in spite of the fact that there food in the house #not because it don't know what to make or how to make it #but simply because the amount of energy and mental capacity I would need to allocate in order to DO that simply isn't there #I can organize myself into doing nearly any other task!#no matter how finicky or arduous #and I have cooked I can cook i'm quite good at it #but the bandwidth isn't there most days!#so you feed me #you give me food I can eat without having to make it myself #I am instantly your friend

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