#but leos also gotta learn how to forgive themselves and understand mistakes are inevitable

[astrologysvt]

Hey! How're you? I loved your readings and thank you so much ❤️ you're incredible. I'm so curious about seungcheol! His sun, rising, venus and mc are same as mine! And i wish to be as good a Leo as he is. 🥺 I was wondering if you could do a boyfriend reading for him and are there any tips from astrology that tells me how to be good as him 😁😅 all the best! Take care.

aw man anon, while I'm absolutely going to say with total conviction that you are already well on your own way to being ur best leo -- I totally get it cuz I also often ask my leo self how do I become as lovable a leo as him 😂 so idk if I have time to do a boyf reading for him, but I will take this time to talk about the horribly tormented process i feel so many developed leos go through. One of the things I love most about cheol is like... where his confidence stems from? you can tell when a leo is all about themselves and when they act on that confidence solely for themselves, but cheol is def an extrinsic leo?? if that makes sense? he's able to access that confidence (which he already has but may be hard to access himself) through the people he wants to support and show up for. that confidence is always there but it's something really only people outside can see, which in a lot of ways makes him more attractive.

that being said, leos are incredibly self-critical. I always think of it in like one of two ways. if you see a totally confident leo who acts stereotypically leo and is so outwardly confident and "all knowing" then it's usually all show with not a lot to back them up. usually these people's egos are super easy to bruise and do not like people questioning them. then you have the leo that lives in CONSTANT fear and self-reflection and do have that sense of confidence, but it's backed up by constant reassessment. like leos are either incredibly transparent or incredibly stable. they’re either constantly trying to prove they’re confident, or are just confident.

You see this in cheol where he is so confident and proud and sturdy, but when you dig in deep there are a lot of fears and anxieties under that and that's because he's constantly questioning and improving upon his own abilities in order to meet that incredibly high standard he has for himself. the best way to find a good leo is to see if they're looking for ways of improving themselves. it's probable that there is always going to be a sense of bruised ego or defensiveness with a leo -- I like to think I'm a pretty okay adjusted leo and even then those things are hard to hear. that being said, learning to push through that discomfort to hear other perspectives is a good sign that you're on the right path towards "leo enlightenment" lol. overtime, especially with good adult leos, you can tell that they're secure and confident and that anxiety has lessened and become more constructive than anything. they can roll with the punches and have their charisma and enthusiasm carry them through the rough patches, and often at that point you can tell their confidence comes from much deeper a place than pride. but that shit tAKES YEARS of whatever leo anxiety we're more than likely ALL experiencing now (cheol included) 😂