#but if i act aloof they'll want me. which is soooo crazy like that's not how anything should work
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#this is also like#honestly the first time i've wanted to become more active and communicative for someone else#i'm very timid and meek in dating unfortunately bc i've been trained to believe that like. if i show interest in someone they won't like me#but if i act aloof they'll want me. which is soooo crazy like that's not how anything should work#and we even kind of like bonded over that we were like yeah other people have called us too emotional but clearly i still am learning how t#like. not worry about it and be emotional and open#and genuinely having someone else tell me what they want from me is so helpful like ok you want me to ask you more questions i can do that#and i did i think! like we talked and told stories and i would ask questions in the middle which is like another thing we talked abt#is how like. for some reason in the midwest women r taught to never ever interrupt anyone EVER#and to me that kind of even extends into like. after they're done talking for some reason i assume if someone didn't tell me something then#they don't want me to know LMFAKJFJDSKJFKSJ this is such a fucking stupid thing i've been conditioned to believe but ANYWAY#idk whatever the point is i think i'm growing at least i hope so. like i hope it's working bc i really don't want to fuck anything up :S
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