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lovesodeepandwideandwell · 2 months

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Today my roommate (m) got home from work (landscaping) before his wife and usually she makes him shower right away but today he did NOT and he instead hung out in the main area and I'm still getting whiffs of it three hours later

#also he left a full glass of milk sitting on the counter. that does not smell yet #they left for an event a while ago #even though it stresses me out it also makes me glad that her philosophy of when he does things like fall asleep on the floor overnight #is ''he's an adult and he can take car of himself''#that frees me to hold the same philosophy about the two of them #(obviously i don't all the way. how could i. you know me #but i limit my helpful interventions to crisis moments or casual offers that don't take me out of the way #or things that truly affect the safety and wellbeing of our home and also of me #like the mildew growing on her kitchen rags #the nice thing is she's a lot more vigilant about safety than i am so once i point something out as a safety issue #she'll be really serious about it)#ok i was trying to watch the fall guy in my chair in peace but it's too stinky out here. this is a sign for me to exercise

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