#but because i'm as fat as i am and i have stereotypical aspects people ONLY see me as a stereotype

[sunkern-plus]

tfw i hate the fat chuuni failgirl stereotype more than anything...but i AM the fat chuuni failgirl (pxngender/genderlight version) stereotype

[zangtang]

Everything can change at any point!

Create images here: https://www.bing.com/images/create?FORM=GENILP before i say anything else though: not following someone else's prompts means you'll likely find some wild and unexpected things yourself. If you follow my prompts like they're laws, you will only ever get results like mine. There are people doing much cooler, weirder things. Don't get restricted by this.

the site was VERY BROKEN for the last 6 days, you haven't been banned. You get 15 boosts a day which usually override any current downtime, but the popup thinks you get 25 a week, which is an indicator of how busted and poorly planned they were for this flood of users. It's not too hard to create illegal results, and there's millions of users, so it's very unlikely a human is ever looking at your results. Unless you're doing really spectacularly terrible things, of course. If you get the warning as soon as you enter your prompt, change the most controversial aspects of your prompt immediately, as repeats of this will get you suspended for increasingly long times. It is possible to make alt accounts with throwaway emails though. It's unconfirmed but it appears that US residents get priority access during US times, and UK residents can only reliably make things from 7am to 1pm for example. Weekend access is a crapshoot. I don't personally pay for ChatGPT so I can't say anything about the alleged priority access you get there, but even that can be slow and restricted during the worst times (I assume this will the their priority to fix though). There are many conflicting reports about whether it's more censored or not. Reports is a very fancy way of saying reddit comments.

Everything I superstitiously guess about prompts:

you can be very descriptive and write in natural english, or you can be very brief. both methods work, I suspect both versions do different things. repetition and restating the same thing in other ways also seems to emphasise (possibly.) Prompts can be quite chaotic and contradictory - you can describe a lot of things happening and it may surprise you, so have fun with weirdness! some words are "heavy" against the automated filters, and can be safe in one prompt and unsafe in another. think of it like buckaroo, the AI is trying to find meaning in your prompt and it will sometimes combine things and get mad about it. be aware of politics and words that may be used in erotic senses, and switch those up.

this is the format I use the most because i am super lazy and unimaginative. items in [ ] are optional and can be anything, and I don't know how the word order matters - in old Midjourney it mattered quite a bit according to guides, but now they're all pushing to parse natural english I'm not so sure:

[number of] [body type] [age] [nationality] [male noun or job] wearing [clothes], with a [size, shape] belly, [hair description], [pose], [location, time of day, weather, lighting, era], [facial expression or attitude], [actions]

The number of guys can be vague like "several." Also placing a number here will generally result in all men being fat. To add a second, very different person (even women! imagine the power), simply describe that in plain english later in the prompt. Try adding "with friends" or something and seeing what happens.

Mentioning body type is separate from mentioning that he has a large stomach because "fat man" alone doesn't make him very fat. also, the body type prompt will dictate his physical build underneath the belly - this allows you to make mpreg very easily, for example. Mentioning his belly separately also seems to be a key part in making clothes not cover it up. However, DallE has clearly gotten much better at this for some clothes, but not all of them. Formalwear is improving, though tactical vests no longer do the cute thing they used to do, and football shirts still ride up reliably. Nationality can be weird, and you can use it to exploit stereotypes, or it can be an eye-opening view of stereotypes from countries you barely know about - want to know what differentiates an Angolan man from a Kenyan man? Probably don't trust AI results! I suspect some countries are controversial due to current politics, and I suspect some are controversial due to fetishy stereotyping. However, if for example "English man" got censored, consider going for capital cities or famous regions, eg "London man." Maybe look up sports teams from that country. I'm a big fan of the "Italian-American" prompt but lately it's gotten quite a few results blocked, so I'd switch to "New Jersey," maybe even "New Jersey Italian."

"Handsome" may slim your results down, or even break the prompt entirely. Consider making your men footballers or rugby players, mention trendy haircuts, or using out of date synonyms to get round it. AI isn't all that likely to give you especially ugly results anyway, particularly if you specify ages under 40. It doesn't get the hair precisely right, but even a generic prompt like "short thick hair" can help. Giving your character a job may dictate what he'll wear, but you might want to specify what clothes you want anyway. Don't mention either if you hope he'll turn out naked. Certain jobs are tricky to use, as AI strains to be as unpolitical as possible - it doesn't want you doing politicians and it sometimes seems to refuse anything that might make the police or military look bad. However, it will accept "wearing a [colour] uniform/pilot shirt" very happily, because it's duuuuumb.

Mention trousers, footwear or even just feet if your results keep zooming in too much. (It'll also zoom in if you mention too much about his face, I think.) Side view appears to make certain prompts fatter, but will often mean he's looking away - you can add "Looking at camera" if you want that. Metallic and plastic clothes can have very fun and weird results, especially if you change the location to a night setting in the rain. Gladiator costumes will reduce his clothes to a few leather straps.

"Flex pose" and "strong pose" will get butch bodybuilder poses (it will also buff up the muscle mass) and "battling strong winds" gets very superhero poses. At least when I was trying these out, I found I couldn't actually get proper bodybuilder poses or mention of superheroes past the censor, but it's been a few weeks so who knows what it's up to now. Give them all a go!

Casual poses and actions can liven things up a little if you just want portraits but don't want it to repeatedly be the same thing facing you directly. Getting out of a car, climbing stairs, leaning against things, adjusting his clothes or putting on a coat, all these kinds of things work. Smoking or drinking does quite a lot. "Tired" or "Exhausted" changes his attitude a lot too, your leans get leaned into more.

Contact words can be a little difficult, so consider ways to exploit using soft contact, or be very wordy and detailed about it so it's not misinterpreting you. "Patting him on the back" is a fairly safe phrase, but DallE isn't intelligent, so it will allow the contact but it will struggle to be precise, especially when the bodies are fat or not positioned in a way they can reach the back - the result of this is that there will be a lot of belly pats. Prodding in the stomach, pointing at the stomach, these both work, but I think DallE is vague about stomach=torso and you may want "pointing at his belt" to give a lower focus. Admiring can direct attention and vibes, whispering will draw their heads closer and make them interact somewhat. Embracing and hugging work but is very heavy for the censor, "hugging on his shoulder/belly" seems safer for some reason. Shaking, grabbing, "examining/concerned about his belly" can work. Bizarrely, squeezing past another man in a narrow corridor/doorway/cupboard works if you want a LOT of contact. And if you want unpredictable contact, fighting can work.

For more dynamic safe contact, try sporting actions. Baseball slides, football tackles, that kind of thing. It's hard to get them to lie flat and the AI seems to resist allowing heads to touch the ground, but "lying in a hammock" works pretty well, and sometimes specifying what the head is touching works. pretty much every minor prompt variation and scenario I've ever used:

"falling onto a broken chair/breaking an object with his weight" "washing windows" "with waiters helping him up" "with friends bringing him food" "falling over another man" "outside of a skyscraper washing windows, harness for safety, hoisted" "hyper-obese man wearing denim dungarees with an enormous inflated belly, drinking from a hose" ("blowing into a hose" gets better expressions for that IMO) "stuck in a broken narrow red british phonebooth with another man, bursting out with his enormous belly, black trousers" "bent over eating at a pie eating contest wearing a dirty white tank top with an enormous round belly and his face hidden buried in messy pie" "sitting on a throne next to a very fat 35 year old spanish monarch" "lying on his back the floor, enjoying a banquet, side view, tired expression" "very fat 35 year old handsome british man wearing tracksuit and gold chain with a hugely distended beerbelly, man with a massive round stomach, washing his car in a carpark at night side view" "at water park, stuck in a water slide" "before and after weightloss picture, in the left he is X and in the right he is Y" "with a large round belly spilled over eating at a banquet with an enormous round belly, bronzed, with waiters helping him up/being prodded with a fork" "washing dishes and leaning over his belly on a freestanding enamel pedestal basin" "climbing and leaning against a stepladder to change a lightbulb on the ceiling [with friend holding the stepladder steady]" "side view, photo of two 40 year old beefy handsome fat italian-american rugby player with a hugely distended round belly, resting hand on his chest, wearing a tracksuit with a gigantic round sagging stomach, gold chain, raining, whispering in a car park at night, leaning/hugging on shoulder, tired, stern expression looking at camera, smoking a cigarette" "side view photo of two strong 40 year old handsome samoan rugby player with a hugely distended round beerbelly, chest hair, wearing a white formal shirt and black suit, hugging on his belly, proud expectant father, boyfriends outside a busy pub at night, stern, looking at camera, raining" "two fat los angeles rams handsome footballers wearing white pilot shirt and plain tie and black trousers pushing through a narrow saloon door with their enormously distended beerbellies, stern" "photo of very fat 30 year old hunk rugby player with enormously distended belly, carrying his belly in a wheelbarrow" "very fat 35 year old man wearing white pilot shirt with an enormous round belly, tough man with a very large beerbelly, too fat for small broken airplane seat sitting on another man, fat belly spilling over armrest and pressing against over man, black trousers, slightly concerned, suave" "being carried on the back of a flatbed truck" can turn them into horrific lardvalanches but you don't get much control over it

original characters do not steal prompts: "30 year old man who looks like he's the main character from the game Uncharted with an enormous distended round beerbelly, with one hand on a bar in a pub, nathan" This is sometimes surprisingly effective, but most often it'll simply draw vibes from the IP mentioned, so you can use it to get specific settings at least

Try spelling the names wrong or reversing the name order - sometimes it'll even accept names sprinkled throughout the prompt. Repeating the name may increase its effect (it might also not!) Also it's speculated that placing the celebrity fraud in a place or situation they would normally be found in helps. That said, I could only get a Robert Downey Jr if I made him dress as a gladiator. So maybe weirdness and ingenuity are your strengths. see also https://www.tumblr.com/baron-bear/731903035856584704/what-do-you-use-for-your-ai-stuff

[send-noodles-not-nudes]

Tiny ramble with an important message

Idk why but I'm thinking about the time when I was like 18 and someone asked me to write an x reader with a "thick" black fem!reader and when I asked them to elaborate on what they meant by "thick" they said "slim curvy but not plus sized"

So I took about a day to figure out how to gently let them down and tell them that I wasn't comfortable writing someone who was "slim curvy" and not plus sized bc I personally find it damaging to people (especially young people)'s body image by contributing to this craze that you can be "plus size" but only if your fat is in the "right" places

And then they blocked me on all accounts and deleted their comment.

I also remember looking at their account and realizing that they were basically a fetish account looking for fics with black women that were curvy in "all the right places" but not actually plus sized, rather than wanting to read stories with colors of character in general. It wasn't about the minority; it was about the fetish.

I have no idea why I'm even thinking about it today but I guess my point is that I'm so tired of people fetishizing certain aspects of minority communities

People are more than just the boxes they come in.

Stop writing characters that look like they just walked out of a porno.

People come in all shapes and sizes, and pretending that they don't just so you can see your favorite shape and size is disgusting. That is one fetish that I will absolutely shame you for having, because it's not okay.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing to have characters that are conventionally attractive or who look like Barbies, but if that's your only type of character, you need to reconsider how you're writing.

It's especially damaging when you're writing for a minority, because representation for that minority is already low. How would you feel if you went to find a fic with a character that looked like you, and the only thing out there was fetish writing? This problem isn't limited to just black women, either. It impacts every minority, whether that has to do with race, gender, sexuality, figure, or anything else.

I am tired of seeing minorities only being in stories because the author thinks they're "hot". Your characters should have depth. If their only personality trait is that they're a minority, you need to reevaluate your writing. Stop writing stereotypes because you find them sexually appealing.

Diversity is supposed to be beautiful because it's human, not because it makes you horny.

TL;DR: Don't write a character a certain way just because you want to fuck them.

[scentedchildnacho]

The......man with curly blond hair that ran up to me wanted to steal my phone and beat me up.....he accused me of filming him and tried to throw a lot of insults at me

So I told him I didn't film him I more accuse him of being an uninteresting disease and won't give him my phone because I don't want a disease ever touching my things

Im normal I'm a disease everyone is a disease and it's weird disgusting and unpleasurable to interact without negotiated contracts

I also explained to him that if he is paranoid and has delusions that people care who don't that I have to call the cops and put him on his pill

Then I explained to him that he doesn't see the inequity of the situation and being a large male that threatened a smaller woman could get him called an immigrant and that's why people call police to pill you so you don't get sex trafficked ho

The mafia aspects of life are very real and I would not around catholicism ever tell them that people had not been conservative with me and tell them to not freak out

We all have to be things we expect from others man....if I can have a man provide for me then I get told I have to go to school and learn providence so man if I'm an immigrant to beat and blame and use that's what you will have to be man

Then I explained this is a library with aid from communist China so your going to have to fight everyone because your really really on camera everywhere you go and if you don't like it leave

I am a liberal and I enjoy really really on camera in fact it's noticed your lying because if you thought you were on camera you wouldn't have tried to beat me

But no I would never put you on my camera.....to me your manners even if unthreatening look like a chunk.....and I only ask for mens photos if they have a light about them that's profound in some way people like me believe I have been gifted some artistry and forgiveness

You look fat to me essentially or someone whose just around and suspiciously nothing to do with me....

And now I have to tell the cops you tried to steal my phone......because it could lead them to a more important crime and let someone out of jail that doesn't deserve it and my relationship with police is stressful and job related and ya know I dont like bothering them

I think you are paranoid man and you don't like me because you notice I'm the type of mother that would warn you your fat and if you won't be leaner and more stereotypical people don't like you

In fact I suspect you are a serial killer and don't do any more harm to me because I'm a food justice type instead of a real heavy metal mother type

If I was more motherly I think you would have killed me in my sleep

Maybe there are missing women's bodies.......around and someone black may not be let out of jail and now I have to report a fair evil maybe did it

Trust me i know I have had to be paranoid before and why do I do this it's kind of fat and people like giving me it because it leaves me alone and they get to live unnoticed and undisturbed

I have had to know what it's like to suspect my own mother and find out.....her intentions were normal and correct caused me a huge complex and got called a discontent a social ill at odds with the world

I think you though man liked going paranoid and became a terrorist and that's the difference between you and I

[butterfly-winx]

Idk if anyone's asked yet but are there male fairies? I'm sorry if you've answered this already but I'm following like 5 different winx aus and it's hard to keep track

Haha no worries! It’s actually great that there are so many of us with whole overhaul AUs :)

And yes, there are of course people of all genders using each magic stream, though of course there are cultural connotations marking fey magic and witchcraft as feminine and sorcery as masculine. Witchcraft is actually the only stream that started off with a gender segregated matriarchal background - the first ones weren’t called Ancestral Witches for no reason - but has become more and more open to male magic users. Witchers though don’t have a great reputation because of massive asshats like Valtor and the Witchers of the Black Circle painting a stereotype of witchers being cunning, untrustworthy and vile people.

Being a fairy on the other hand has been unfairly stereotyped as this high-femme magic art, that only people of a certain gender presentation and body shape could pursue. This for example messed with Techna for a while who thought they had to be a girl to be a fairy, but figured being a non-gender-conforming agender fairy was more than fine and worked on their self esteem. Because of the aspect of passive flight, people also believed that fat people couldn’t be fairies and a lot of pudgy people got bullied because of that, but it’s all a farce. Of course fat people can fly too if they have the necessary magic stamina. If a massive boulder like King Radius of Solaria can fly, then man, anyone can. Looking graceful is not a prerequisite for practising magic.

Sorcery is the preferred magic stream of many men, predominantly because of its connotations of it being a logical magic art as opposed to the other two emotional ones. That is obviously massive bollocks, as all streams of magic take equal amounts of study to master and dedication to practice. Especially for sorcery, if your heart and head aren’t in the right place and you aren’t able to commit to it fully, then the results of your magic will be incredibly lacklustre. Queen Marion is a good example for that. She can do magic just fine, but it is not her man interest and her half-hearted commitment yields half-hearted spells as a result. She much rather relies of physical combat.

On that note, there are of course female specialists in training at Red Fountain too, but they are much fewer in attendance than any of the other genders. The protag squad being all masc is actually down to pure coincidence, rather than planning of an all male team. Sky and Brandon obviously had to be assigned to the same team and dorm, which only left two other variables left. Riven was drawn to mix up the planet of origin of the group and Timmy was selected because he didn’t indicate his gender on the form. (Helia for his part lives wherever he wants on campus and joins whichever team he wants because Saladin more or less forced him to attend the school so Helia uses every opportunity to mess with im in retaliation). My two specialist girl OCs, Nelke and Guyanna don’t really appear in my AU, cause I have moved on from the school environment and am doing an S6 rewrite, but know that they exist and are close to my heart.

For the other magic users, I actually have two other male fairies other than King Radius who feature in key roles, one being Vulpin, Miele’s friend who helps the Winx on Lynphea and Cyanox, the Guardian Fairy of Prometia (secret s8 vibes over here). 

⬆ That’s Cyanox, bitch Fairy of the Deep Seas (also it’s a sketch and not my usual quality, sorry yall). I got a lot of diverse background characters like that laying around, I just don’t want to share my rough sketches, cause I’m not happy with them yet.