#but back to the point it really is a cycle w them bc l.l. has on top of it all ptsd i DON'T and is exclusive to them | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

but-a-humble-selfshipper · 8 months ago

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Something about Dave and L.L. both having abusive parents you knoooow is due to end poorly y'know. Like last time someone shared trauma with L.L. they both nearly ended up dead (Beau). VERY different circumstances of course but it goes to show how bad it tends to go.

I'm not going Anywhere in particular with this like I don't have a scenario or anything I just know their traumas would clash and blend in a way that'd incapacitate each other.

#💟.txt #*dave #sadness tag #dave is more of the freeze when scared and L.L. is more of the fight when scared too #but l.l. is also the crippling guilt and avoidant guy #and dave is THE UNREASONABLE ATTACHMENT GUY #like if they actually fought bad like if l.l. got aggressive and dave got scared they'd get scared BACK and flee and he'd just get angry bc #on top of everything they now abandom him?!#but tbh nobody undermines l.l.s trauma.like l.l. does. i tjink everyone else could tell when they're losing it #jack rlly is important in their relationship its what keeps them functioning i think #bc even if l.l. has other ppl (unlike dave) they tend to be busy and l.l. tends to push ppl away when distressed #but jack is calm and insistent and most importantly: a top tier slacker.#info tag #but back to the point it really is a cycle w them bc l.l. has on top of it all ptsd i DON'T and is exclusive to them #when they're harmed they attack but when someone else is harmed they freeze #they're blocked OUT they don't know what to do!!!#i dont think they're even taht bad at comforting people its just that dave both similar to them but also unpredictable so its #it's complicated!!!!!!!! 😔

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