#but I don't read xefmek fanfic so I have no idea if that's what's going on here at all

[homestuckconfession]

alot of xefmek shippers ive met turned out to be groomers and alot of them would tell me to go kill myself after saying the abuse made me uncomfortable, so it is a ship i find to be extremely uncomfortable to even think about. alot of xefmek fans seem to get extremely defensive and aggressive when met with "your ship is toxic" cuz they dont want to believe its true.

but honestly what are you expecting? its abusive, you either own it or disown it. i dont understand why people are so insistent on saying a abusive ship is somehow ok. just admit you like abuse, or honest to god ask yourself why you care so badly about shipping something abusive.

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