#bpd makes you so dependant on other people's validation that you'll put up with literally anything just to have people around you | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

townofcrosshollow · 26 days ago

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Glad to have friends where if they do something that makes me uncomfortable I can just say that and they'll be like "Sorry I'll stop doing that thing!" as opposed to past friends who would go 1. It's your fault 2. How dare you say I should change my behaviour to make you comfortable 3. You should describe your triggers publicly in front of a bunch of people you barely know instead of bothering me with it even though I'm the only one making you uncomfortable

#it sounds like a joke when i say it like that it's so absurd #this literally happened to me #but at that point i didn't have any other friends so i was so easily manipulated into thinking that shit like that was reasonable #'if you're so triggered by my behaviour specifically then why don't you tell all of my friends about it publicly'#now that i'm in a better place with a good partner and good group of friends i'm like bro how did i ever put up with this 💀#bpd makes you so dependant on other people's validation that you'll put up with literally anything just to have people around you #glad i'm choosier now lmaoooo #love you tess and toasty <3 #and also all my other friends who aren't losers who use tumblr LMAO #incoherent rambling #personal

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