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theradicalace · 3 months ago

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i just think it's so funny that when *i* lash out and start bitching *about* management to my coworkers because of a stressful day at work, i get pulled into the office to discuss my attitude, but when a manager lashes out and bitches *at me* because of a stressful work day, i get a halfassed "oh sorry, but-" and i'm expected to roll over and take it.

#ace rambles #negative//#boss prompted us to stop talking and keep it moving. okay sure whatever.#i lightheartedly asked what the rush was because we were almost done for the day #boss immediately snaps and starts yelling about how she's been busting her ass and hasn't gone to lunch yet #and she's ''not gonna watch four people stand and talk'' while she busts her ass #we were standing there for maybe thirty seconds. i didn't put you in that fucking situation girl #you're flying off the handle at the wrong guy #and i just know that if i had lashed out like that at her it would have at BEST been another ''conversation''#and more likely i would have been written up #i guess it's just another reminder that she's my boss. not my friend.#because if she were my FRIEND i would have been able to explain to her that that was incredibly hurtful #and that it really could have been just a minor issue at most #but i can't exactly look my boss in the eye and say ''hey you major overrracted and really hurt my feelings''#i've tried it with other managers and it doesn't end well #and look. i'm no stranger to getting frustrated and losing my cool.#it's a thing i'm actively trying to get better about but i'm big enough to admit that i have a long way to go.#the fact that she yelled at me isn't even what's bothering me #it's mostly the fact that i did not get a real apology and i really doubt i will.#and if i try and bring it up tomorrow or later then *i'm* going to look like the one who's overreacting and can't let it go #which tbh i probably maybe am?#i think i'm probably being stupid but i have a bad history with yelling and anger #which i don't need to get into you guys know the origin story already #whatever man #i want to cry but i'm in public still

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