#because i saw that and i was like 'oh i guess disliking genderbends/r63 is part of trans culture' | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

feeshies · 2 years ago

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i wonder if the trans man i met in my early fandom days who said "genderbends are inherently transphobic and trans people are always begging people to stop" has since wondered if that statement fucked up other people's gender journeys (i.e. mine)

#because i saw that and i was like 'oh i guess disliking genderbends/r63 is part of trans culture'#'so not only am i not actually trans; i'm also transphobic :/'#tbf i was very veeeryyyy scared of being trans so i was looking for any excuse to 'stay cis'#but i remember a lot of guilt and shame #anyway genderbending is cool and fun #of course it can be done shittily and i 100% understand people not being comfortable with it #but since then i've known plenty of trans people who found comfort in it #it's almost like we're not a monolith lmao

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