#bc for the past few weeks ive been genuinely debating very hard about asking them out this summer because we've already been so romantic an
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asfdhgsdkjhgb · 8 months ago
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asked them out properly today btw don't worry guys we got it cleared up
hi tumblr i think i got a girlfriend today not entirely sure though
#my wonderful wife!! they are now also my girlfriend#which is so so strange to me#we have been vaguely homoerotic friends for like. four years.#and it's been especially flirtatious lately the past few months and its just felt sort of romantic hanging out with them#like having a sleepover and stargazing on their roof and just laying there together under the stars#anyways giving u lot of tumblr dot com context beyond that-#yesterday me and them and one of our other friends were hanging out and they mentioned telling their therapist that they had been#saying for a while that she wasn't sure if she was ready for a relationship but that lately she's been like IM READY IT IS MY TIME !!!!!#and i was like. ...hey......#and she said she'd been thinking about asking me ??????? and i short circuited a little#bc for the past few weeks ive been genuinely debating very hard about asking them out this summer because we've already been so romantic an#been flirting so much more lately and i thought it would be fun for both of us to have a fun summer romance together and we can#go on a million little dates we've talked about doing this summer (tbf the fact that we've been calling them dates should've clued me in)#but ive been sort of conflicted abt it for a bunch of brain reasons#but yesterday when i was leaving i was like wait hold on btw this doesn't count ik we both said but like i want to ask you out fr#so this doesn't count yet im going to do something silly#and this morning in first block (which we have together) i drew this silly note and slipped it to them during class :]#so uhh.#frog girlfriend arc#(btw i say my wife bc we've had a marriage pact for a few months now- 30yrs old we are getting married)#(and so we've been calling each other husband and wife and it started as a bit but it's been feeling more genuine y'know)#just me rambling again#it feels so so strange because really nothing much has changed but its so weird being able to say they're my girlfriend because like#i feel like our souls sort of fit like puzzle pieces together and i have for a good while#it's weird like. having a little word i can slap on that /pos#btw no one say anything about my fucked-upedness from my prev relationship i genuinely think im fully over that shit??#which is so weird like obv im still sad abt losing that huge chunk of time and im upset at the ill treatment ive suffered in#recent months#but like. it's strange bc recently my brain has reached a place of peace about it. im feeling much more neutral on it all and i sort of#have a 'well that really sucked but fortunately- life moves onwards regardless'
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