#bc I feel a disconnection from gender in such a way wherein it’s less about trying to express myself as how I feel and rather trying to mak

[vintageghoststories]

pride asks!! 1, 8, 15?

1-Which labels do you use?

hmmm the main ones I use are queer [which is my go to for everything, gender + sexuality + identity +romance etc etc. queerness has become someone to deeply ingrained into myself which is v neat] someone I refer to myself as genderqueer or agender but not often, and I use aromantic !! [<- I could go into what that means for me but I’m not <3 I’m arospec n aromantic is just comfy so]

8-Describe your gender without using any words traditionally related to gender:

when the Mental Illness makes it so that you don’t notice something that’s been around, it’s part of the room now and will never be acknowledged again

15-How has your identity changed over time?

oh boy has it . I started out as a cis bi [but veryyy guy leaning] until I started to get a little silly w/ it n learned more abt the community.at some point I was omni and genderflux, then I was bi and non-binary again, then I got tired and found that I could just be queer which was a real game changer !!