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[absolutebl]

Hi!! I haven’t asked anything in a while and have been pleasantly viewing in silence, but I wanted to ask something.

Do you have any recommendations for bls like Utsukushii Kare/My Beautiful Man? I loved the show S1&2, and am waiting for the film. I’m reading the novel now, and the whole really offers a deep insight overall. There’s a LOT to break down.

Have a nice day! Because I might bother you later

Whipping boy? That's a tall ask because it's an unusual trope to deploy these days. I mean China used to love it. I did give a little list at the end of my discussion on the trope here:

I think Love Syndrome III also falls into this kind of harshness, but I haven't watched it yet.

Hope this helps!

[nonenosome2]

typical cowardice that you cant even bother to click a link and educate yourself

fucking fascist

"Coward!!" yells the person on Anon.

[bokettochild]

Do you ever have days where it's hard to eat anything? Like, the thought of food makes you feel sick so you just... don't?

Do you have any tips for working through that?

(Also hope your day/night is going well! I think night? I feel like I've discovered we're in the same timezone before? May be wrong lol <3)

YES!

Food is really hard for me a lot of time because it's a lot of effort :/

I've eaten the same breakfast for almost a year (Raisin Bran, judge all you want) so the first meal isn't hard, but pulling together lunch and dinner is a chore. Often times, I'll put off eating breakfast as long as I can so that I won't have to plan lunch at all and can just skip to dinner.

I'm still working through this, honestly. Having fruit and easy to eat things like cheese and yogurt helps a lot, as does not being harsh on myself when I'm not eating healthy. The thing that I'm eating, so even if it is a premade meal, or a second bowl of cereal, it's okay, Now, I also try to avoid keeping super unhealthy things in the house, but oftentimes it helps to have someone else to cook for. My mentality is often "why cook for one?" since I used to cook for 12 all the time LOL. Having a second person to provide food fro really helps though, because you think about what they need, and thus also care for your own needs!

Also, listening to 50's jazz helps get me in the home-maker mindset and makes cooking and cleaning eaiser for me, for some reason LOL

[marvin-cohen]

What’s your favorite alcohol?

-🥀

Right now? Vodka. Comparably cheap from the corner store, gets you drunk fast, no memories the next day.

Taste wise? I like a red wine now and then.

[sappymix1]

Earlier I was having really unethical thoughts and I think in an alternate universe where George can get pregnant this time away would be him getting pregnant and having the baby

that’s not an alternate universe that’s irl and that’s literally what they’re doing

[sailoreuterpe]

Thank you so much! You're a force for good in my world as well! I love your photographs; I get to see such cool stuff! Plus you have A-plus "Bob's" opinions, of course. ;)

[tar-dar]

You hbulit like eishhh

Awaga

W... What??? EIS? like... Icecream- HUH?

[thepaladincosplays]

About to see Wicked with my mom so I feel like now is the appropriate time to start up another round of!:

Ask Me Anything!

[jerzwriter]

Are you stopping writing for Ethan x Kaycee?

Hey Nonny,

No, not at all.

I have not been writing as much lately as my mind is just working on overdrive. It happens to those of us who are neurodivergent from time to time. :)

Right now, I've decided I have to write where my mind is at the moment - and if it's not settled anywhere - that means I need to focus on some other things. And that's ok. I'm not saying what's coming next right now, as I have to focus where I can at the moment, and that's subject to change.

With that said, I have some freaking awesome artwork for WTD that @rosefuckinggenius created for me - so I want to get that written so I can share it.

I also have some art from @/artbyainna for @tobias-carrick-appreciation-week, so I'll have to do that too.

I still want to finish up Vegas, and I'm still debating if I want to do Reset, so I'll see what's up next for Ethan and Kaycee after that. :) Of course, I have a few asks that came in, and I plan on writing little fics for them.

That was a long answer to, no, I have no intention on stopping writing for Ethan and Kaycee. lol

Thanks for asking!

[official-sokka]

what kind of fic do you need a beta for? just in broad strokes

Hi! It's actually a book I wrote. I guess you'd categorize it as Adult "urban fantasy". Hate the urban part. I just say modern fantasy.

[sharpestlives]

i cannot keep up with the asks in my inbox… might make a post combining the links.

[absolutebl]

hiii, i can't find an old post (on bl tropes) where you talked about the physical differences between the seme/uke? i kinda wanna quote you in a paper, please help me if you have the time!! thanksss

I think I just answered this. If it isn't one of those I'll need to poke more, but my best guess is this one?

[nonenosome2]

I keep seeing people say they want to fuck the fox from The Wild Robot so I'm a little afraid to watch it myself

They don't make the animals anthropomorphic so they just want to fuck a fox that looks like a fox.

[bokettochild]

Oooo, you're working on a Ravio scarf too? That's amazing!

May I ask how you are making it (crocheting, knitting, etc..)?

I knit!

Ask @apparitianhanako, and she might show you the finished one I made her last year for Christmas! I'm trying to make another one for myself, but I dropped it during summer and haven't picked it up again (it's currently stuffed under my stuffies LOL)

I'm using blanket yarn, because it's soft and doesn't irritate my skin, and it's also super warm! The one I made Bambi is...6 ft.? I think? It's long enough to hang past the waist on both sides even after being wrapped around the neck, and I'm pretty sure it was longer than me when I held it over my head!

[wirtsauce4020]

My internet is very bad and I don't think I'd be able to upload it since it is a minute long (uploading tends to be a million times worse than just loading, not sure why). It's alright though, thank you for talking you me! You definitely deserve all those notes hehe

I definitely understand that, it took me eons to upload the Tintin video here.

So consider this my public invitation to anyone that would like to do this task for the both of us to reach out! My inbox is open to you.

[daughter-of-aphrodite]

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send me a ❤️ and I’ll put my Spotify on shuffle and give you a song