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#as someone who's never experienced racism myself as a white mun; i feel like i don't have the right to speak for a character who has;
wisheswagered · 11 months
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also, tentatively, i have finally added patricia as a muse! see the tags for a few disclaimers about that, though.
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theglamorouslist · 3 years
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being a poc irl in your group it disgusts me that you would use race as a reason for people not interacting. I HAVE NEVER experienced this and have constantly played poc. Its never the race when it comes to replies, if people are not giving something in a post then no one will reply. I find it vile that you would use bipoc to make yourselves seem better. I will be reporting this to tumblr. You probably won't post this because you know you're in the wrong
I will be posting this, actually, as a person of colour myself who also majorly only writes people of colour, I can tell you, I have personally experienced this. Not only in this group, of course, but in many other roleplay groups during my time writing on tumblr, twitter and discord. And as a person of colour who has multiple friends that are also poc, I know for a fact that they’ve experienced the same. I have, in every instance, received more interactions on my white characters each and every time I pick one up. Moreover, people made a consistent effort to ask for interactions when I wrote someone white. It’s not my opinion that poc get ignored, it’s a fact, and can be easily proven if you’d like to come into our ims so I can provide you with relevant screenshots. We’re always happy to provide proof to back up any of our claims! 
Since you’re a member of our group and you feel this way, I believe talking about it off anon would be far more productive than taking up an accusatory tone in our inbox! We’re here to listen to the voices of the people in our group and make sure everyone feels comfortable. Members came to us saying they were being consistently ignored on their muses of colour, despite giving long replies with sufficient substance. This is a fact, I know because more than one admin has double checked these claims. I have personally experienced this as well. Considering the state of the world right now and the blatant and awful xenophobia and racism we have to face out there, the last thing we want is for anyone to feel that way in here. This is a safe space for poc, especially muns of colour like myself. As you’re a poc yourself, we’d rather have your support here in uplifting all other muns and muses of colour in having their voices heard, rather than trying to drown out their own valid experiences.
And since you do find it necessary to report our group for trying to maintain it as a safe space, we would also respectfully have to ask you to leave. Please contact us off anon so we can either talk this out or post your unfollows. 
- Cherry
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dark-infatuation · 4 years
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...you know exactly what we came here to ask. - X, Gem & Mun
Yes dear, I am well aware~
1. What’s one animal you wish you could have as a pet but can’t?
Once upon a time, I would’ve said a dragon~ Now, I suppose any sort of big cat. A melanistic lion would be quite magnificent, don’t you think?
2. Favorite thing to wear to sleep?
Usually, it ends up being flannel pajama pants, with or without a shirt, doesn’t matter. But, I do have a set of silk pajamas that feel rather nice
3. What song really gets you going?
That’s a good question. I’m not very up to date with modern music. But the song ‘Endgame’ from the musical Chess is very good.
4. Where do you usually eat your meals?
Preferably, at the kitchen table. Though I do admit I have a habit of sitting on the kitchen island to eat
5. Favorite meal: breakfast, lunch, or dinner?
Breakfast
6. Most embarrassing habit?
Uh, yes, well, I have been disconnected from society for quite some time, and I’m afraid my slang isn’t very up to date. I try not use slang as a general rule, but there are occasions where I can slip and say something that truly shows my age
7. Chocolate or fruity candy?
Chocolate, no question
8. Soft or hard tacos?
Soft
9. Worst way to break up a fight?
Participating in said fight, solves nothing
10. Best thing to say in an elevator of strangers?
Shift a pair of demon horns onto my head and boom “Going down?”
11. What color/design are your bedsheets?
Plain black, though the comforter has a nice black and white patterning I’m not sure how to describe. Swirls mixed with paisley?
12. Any hidden talents?
I don’t think it’s hidden anymore, but I can play the piano quite well
13. Favorite thing to drink out of (mug, glass, etc.)?
Mug
14. Socks or bare feet around the house?
Bare feet
15. Favorite board game?
Monopoly
16. Do you sleep with the fan on or off?
Off, I’m cold enough as is
17. Heat on or keep it cold with lots of layers?
Depends on my mood, but usually ends up being both with how big the manor is
18. Do you sing in the shower?
Yes
19. Favorite song to belt out at the top of your lungs when you’re alone?
......‘Poor Unfortunate Souls’
20. Last thing you cried about?
.....Everything, really. Everything that happened that night.
21. At what age did you first have alcohol?
When we were 7, but it was also a very different time back then. 
22. Relationship status?
I’d say I’m taken, wouldn’t you, Xanthias~?
23. What’s the most amount of money you’ve spent on a single item of clothing?
Oh I can end up spending quite a lot on my suits. I think my most expensive one was...somewhere in the $30,000 range?
24. What do you typically wear to formal events?
Suits
25. Favorite memory?
............I’d rather not say. Time has made the moment bitter, but...it had been quite beautiful while it lasted
26. Gum or breath mints?
Mints
27. Favorite shoes?
I don’t have a favorite. I have very few pairs, and all of them are the same.
28. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
The list, my dear, is longer than I’d ever care to admit
29. What is the natural state of your hair?
Usually in my eyes, which is quite annoying
30. Have you ever had braces?
No
31. Most dangerous thing you’ve ever done?
Go to that stupid party
32. Most embarrassing thing your parents have caught you doing?
Our parents were never around to catch us doing anything
33. Last time you had an orgasm?
This morning, isn’t that right, Xanthias~
34. Celebrity crush(es)?
None, I’m not sure who the modern celebrities are
35. Windows or Mac?
......Pardon?
36. How old were you when you learned to ride a bike?
...I’ll be honest, neither of us ever learned
37. Makeup or natural?
I’ll always prefer a little makeup, no matter the body
38. What color do you wear the most?
Black
39. Favorite season?
Spring
40. Umbrella or rain coat?
Umbrella
41. Have you ever fallen out of a tree?
Yes, quite a few times as a child
42. First car you ever owned?
A Ford Model T
43. What time do you usually go to bed?
That relative
44. Are you a competitive person?
Yes
45. Least favorite color?
I’m not sure I dislike any color, though perhaps yellow
46. First pet you’ve ever owned?
Does Samuel count?
47. Sweet or salty?
Sweet
48. Favorite pasta dish?
Chicken and broccoli alfredo
49. Favorite kind of chips?
Are Pringles still around? I like those
50. Talk about something you’re passionate about.
I -- suppose I’m rather fond of music. I used to hoard records, still do, actually. And I used to write my own songs, for the piano. Never wrote any of them down, however. I didn’t like them to feel so concrete. I liked to experiment with my music
51. What are some of your hobbies?
I...I’m afraid I haven’t allowed any to flourish. 
52. Caffeine? If so, what kind?
Coffee or tea
53. Favorite kind of pizza?
I don’t believe I’ve ever had it...?
54. Fast food or sit-down restaurant?
A sit-down restaurant
55. Lots of acquaintances or a handful of close friends?
Close friends
56. Something that ruins your appetite?
In terms of food? Or mannerisms? For food, any type of squash I dislike, and in terms of mannerisms, open-mouthed chewing tends to repulse me
57. Favorite labels about you?
‘Mysterious’, ‘terrifying’, ‘attractive’. I’m aware that’s not the intention of the question, but those are still labels
58. Are you a religious person?
No
59. Night out with a bunch of friends in public or night in with one friend having deep conversations?
Deep conversations with a friend
60. What size shoe do you wear?
How is this relevant...?
61. Favorite thing about yourself?
I...suppose my charm. It can be quite useful
62. Have you ever told someone you loved them first?
Yes
63. Have you ever had sex on the first date?
Yes
64. Heroes or villains?
Villains
65. Favorite fruit?
Pomegranate
66. Least favorite fruit?
Plum
67. Favorite vegetable?
Broccoli
68. Least favorite vegetable?
...Is squash a vegetable?
69. How many plates can you eat at a buffet?
Usually just one or two, plus a dessert
70. Favorite dessert?
......Admittedly, I will eat virtually anything with chocolate, though those dark chocolates filled with raspberry creme are divine
71. Do you play any sports?
Not at all
72. Age you learned how to swim?
I can’t remember my exact age, but we were children
73. Tell a funny story.
You’ve never seen Damien pine, when we were kids, he had a crush on a boy. His face would get so red whenever he could so much as see this boy, and he’d get that dreamy look on his face, and not watch where he was going, so one tiiiIIIIIIII -- THAT’S ENOUGH
74. What’s one interesting thing about your culture?
My culture? I don’t -- I’m not sure -- I don’t know all that’s happened in the world, I don’t know how culture has possibly changed over the years, I can’t confidently say what would be ‘interesting’ about modern culture
75. What’s one annoying thing about your culture?
......One thing I have a feeling hasn’t changed is that we claim to be inclusive, yet racism and homophobia and hate crimes prevail
76. What job would you be terrible at?
Anything that required a bedside manner
77. Would you rather watch a TV show or a movie?
A movie
78. What’s your favorite compliment to give?
My dear, I am not a pick-up line generator with a sole goal to get into someone’s pants. My compliments, when I give them, are sincere, and vary from person to person
79. What’s your favorite compliment to receive?
I can admit I can be rather vain. Anything complimenting my looks I enjoy
80. Has your opinion changed on something recently?
Technology. It really has come a long way, hasn’t it?
81. Do you always order the same thing at a restaurant or order something different each time?
I tend to be a creature of habit
82. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?
Hmm...I’ve always wanted to try and learn to draw. A friend of mine used to be quite good at it, and I’ve always been a little jealous of his seemingly innate skill
83. If you could learn to do anything right now, what would it be?
Switch between male and female bodies myself
84. Favorite physical feature about yourself?
My scar. As painful as it was, it’s quite beautiful, don’t you think?
85. Least favorite physical feature about yourself?
My dear, as a whole I despise this body. It’s not my own, it’s broken, but...it’s all I have
86. What’s one amazing thing you did that nobody was around to see?
I summoned the...thing, that’s in this body with us. Of course, only Damien was around to see it, and it...ended unpleasantly, but it was quite the feat.
87. If you could change your height, would you?
For my female body? Yes, I’d like to make myself a little taller in that form, but I’m quite content with the male body’s height
88. What’s something you would rate 10/10?
Music, any kind
89. Heels or flats?
Heels
90. What’s something you wish you had more knowledge about?
There’s a lot of things I wish I had more knowledge about, the list goes on
91. Would you want to be famous?
I used to be, in a sense. The public eye is quite taxing. Nowadays, I prefer the shadows
92. What’s something you would get arrested for?
Murder
93. What’s your spirit animal?
I’d like to think it’d be a lion
94. What’s the luckiest thing that’s ever happened to you?
You, Xanthias
95. Are you the type to have an organized mess, or no mess at all?
There’s a fine line between ‘organized’ and ‘organized chaos’. It depends which of us is doing the organizing
96. Do you tend to make decisions based on the past, present, or future?
I try to take all into account
97. Are you a planner or a more spontaneous person?
I’d like to say I’m a planner, but history tends to disagree
98. Thoughts on the oxford comma?
A needed grammatical tool
99. What do you hope never changes?
Having other people with me. After experiencing company for the first time in...60 years, I don’t think I could go back to isolation
100. How would you celebrate your 100th birthday?
I’m afraid that’s already come and passed. I can’t even remember my birthday, so undoubtedly it was uneventful, and spent alone.
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