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werewolfbneimitzvah · 1 year ago

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I get so tired of people saying that underage people are too young to transition in terms of taking hormones or that even the younger adult years might be too young. Turns out your body naturally does irreversible things to itself if left alone even though you're supposedly too young to know what your gender is. But apparently it's evil or abusive or irresponsible to replace those irreversible effects with different irreversible effects. Or even just make them happen slightly later so kids have more time to really think about which irreversible effects they want. No, the only moral choice is to force one kind of irreversible effect on kids and not allow there to be any choice at all ever. Making that potentially wrong choice for them is somehow the only good option. Farquaad-ass "some of you may die, but it's a sacrifice i am willing to make."

#this is a vague about someone i was following but am not anymore #apparently they detransed which fine! good for you! I'm glad you learned more about yourself!#but your experiences are not universal. not as a trans or detrans person #there is no universally good age or waiting period or procedure or anything for getting to decide what gender you are #or what you want to do to your body #there is no perfect universal amount of therapy or guidance (parental or otherwise)#especially because some people's genders evolve!#i consider myself to have been a girl. and been a nonbinary girl. and been nonbinary. and now I'm very man-aligned #and who knows how I'll think of myself in another 10 years! 20! 50!#if I'm a woman in 10 years then good for me! i won't have been not a guy right now though.#maybe there's no perfect body solution for me. maybe there is and I'll find it #point is. there will always be people making wrong decisions or decisions they regret #we want to minimize that of course! obviously! but the solution is not going #''you must wait until your age is whatever arbitrary number that someone else decides and in the meantime your body is going through #permanent changes anyway no matter what you want or know about yourself because some people you'll never meet made the wrong decision''#that's just fucking bad and stupid #anyway. i had to vent. I'm going back to listening to ycdt and playing stardew valley now

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