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[herehaveafandom]

Ended up in the radfem/terf tags (disappointingly, “gender abolition” did not lead to people who understand gender as social construct but instead to people who think that penis means man and man means bad) and like. The lack of logic - especially around “dysphoria” and “medical transition” baffles me. A lot of their points revolve around “you don’t want to be a man, you just don’t like how you’re treated as a woman!” which, ok. Let’s say that’s true. That doesn’t change the fact that having a hairier tummy and chest and all over would make me happier. Doesn’t change the fact that having different genitals would make me happier. Actually, my actual gender identity is kinda the least important thing about the way I do transness - idk what my gender is but I could do with some testosterone!

“You can treat body/gender dysphoria with therapy!!” A) not entirely B) most (maybe all? Idk) states in America require letters from therapists before you’re allowed to start medical transition. “I have dysphoria and I don’t RUIN MY BODY with hormones!!!” Ok. You’re living your life and I’m living mine. Also it doesn’t seem like you’re that happy.

“RUINING YOUR BODY YADAYADAYADA” I don’t like cosmetic surgery. I feel a bit sad when people with big noses get rhinoplasties, I don’t think breast implants are particularly attractive. I think cosmetic surgery preys too much on people with insecurities. But am I gonna start ranting at people getting surgery and trying to get them to stop? Nope, because I’m not a freak who tries to control other people’s bodies! That’s just weird!

“Blah blah this man is doing for sexual gratification” First of all I’m sorry you aren’t receiving sexual gratification. Also I don’t care. Sex and kink are a part of life.

“I can’t have a penis in the changing room because people with penises hurt me!!” I’m sorry that happened to you. I was sexually assaulted by an Indian person, but I’m not demanding Indian free spaces. My friend was assaulted by an Asian person, and she isn’t demanding Asain free places. My other friend was assaulted by - gasp! - a cis woman, with a vagina, and she still came out with me to the lesbian bar.

Anyway. Your logic is lacking + trans people have always existed + there is no world without trans people + the second you start engaging in bioessentialism you have already lost + “gender critical”? Yeah I did engage critically with my gender and decided I wasn’t a woman + I am currently talking with a trans woman about the hot kinky gay sex we are going to have. Ratio.