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sexual-wasteland-baby · 4 years ago

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I'm so done with gender. Nobody ever say anything ever again about gender. The only time I want to hear about gender is if someone walks up to me and says "nice gender!" like it's some silly hat I'm wearing

#to be #I'm just so done with posts I see mentioning ''differences in men and women'' and be constantly paranoid that OP may be some sorta t<3rf #like YES if you look at large populations and look for shared majority characteristics you'll find some #that doesn't mean that you should completely group all of a single sub-group together based on a single common trait between (most) all #and you really shouldn't extrapolate that onto people it doesn't apply to!!#Yet at the same time YES all men should be held accountable to the inherent benifits they get from this system!!#yet addressing one group as 'civilized' & the other as not is holding people to the wrong standards. & all ppl should b held 2 standards!!#moreover the goal should be breaking gender barriers down more than... trying to instate them as further fact #and. like. Humans r social creatures and we're gonna copy what we see our 'in-group' (aka the ppl we respect and spend time with) do!#I just hate posts that r like men = this and women = that when the only thing that defines what a man is is man being a man #the fucking GREEKS started with trying to define what a man was and Diogenes threw a chicken at them!!!!!#and since this is way deep down here. I know I need to unlearn toxic masculinity. Yet so much of femininity is controlled by white women #I myself am a white woman and I still feel like it's unbelievably controling and restrictive #there's a line between holding people to reasonable standards and instituting bs protocol tht only in-groupers understand #ESPECIALLY when it has just to do with 'etiquette' that white women expect of others #and I don't mean like 'clean after making a mess' or 'look out for others not just yourself'#I mean shit like 'the only conversational style that is good is turn based' or 'quiet is the only way to be polite' like!!! no!!!#anyway gender is a skateboard and I'm riding it outtie

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