#and yet my friends are convinced they're like. the scum of the earth
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Dude why are all my friends convinced my parents are horrible people 😭😭
#obviously they're not perfect but in the grand scheme of things I'd say they're pretty good parents#maybe it's bc they only hear me talk about the bad parts#so they don't know the good far outweighs the bad??? idk#but I could've sworn I talk about the good parts too??#my parents have done things that hurt me before#(not physically I feel the need to clarify)#but never ever intentionally#and rarely#and yet my friends are convinced they're like. the scum of the earth#my ex best friend actually tried to convince me my family is abusive. not just my parents. my whole family#which is just straight up untrue????#and I was at the peak of a delusional episode#and was very suggestable#so of course I believed them#a couple months later became lucid again and was like 'wtf was that about'
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You're not wrong, I'm just telling you why I think most people are feeling this way. Lots of people do have terrible spending habits and no one likes to admit they're wrong or at fault these days. I agree with you on the pricing as well, but in my experience and the experience of many people from what I've seen has been that landlords by and large increase their rent with a much greater frequency than they make improvements to their properties. I've rented from companies as well as individuals and yet to have a single landlord fix anything without being threatened with legal action or bypassed altogether. They want modern rent rates for homes and apartments that haven't been updated or repaired beyond the bare minimum in decades.
As for the shortage of housing, that one will always be hard to convince people in favor of landlords. If there's not enough housing, knowing that the guy you pay every month has 6 properties on top of their own home isn't garnering them any sympathy. I understand the principle of people making investments and winding up in that position, but when they don't want to provide the service that goes along with renting, they don't make friends. Luckily, in my state, you can repair or replace whatever you want and turn the receipt in and deduct it from your rent.
At this point though, I'll never be on their side. Too many awful experiences. Too many houses I could afford bought by some rich person who outbid me and turned around to rent it without ever investing a single penny into making it livable beyond being walls and a roof. Too many lies. Too many thefts. Too many idiots who inherited the property and expect to be paid without maintaining it. Landlords have wound up like cops to me. My personal experience will always outweigh any logic put forth in favor of them. Too many bad apples have spoiled the bunch to believe there are decent ones left.
I've had them illegally enter, steal my property, falsely charge me erroneous fees, tell me things aren't their problem, physically assault my wife, try to spy on my daughter, try to harm our pets, evict and sue successfully because they took our mail so I wasn't aware it was happening until it was too late to put up a legal defense. The list goes on. Scum of the earth 99% of the time. Liars, cheats, and cons make up their bulk. Same goes for other renters more often than not, so I understand why some of them are the way they are, but I don't care anymore. It's not a thought, it's a feeling, but I'm never going to stop feeling it.
Kinda like with commies. Even if they make a compelling argument, I hate them on a personal level. I don't believe their properties should be seized and redistributed or anything stupid. I only wish they were held to a higher standard. Uber makes sure you have a nice vehicle if you're going to drive for them. No one gives a shit about rental properties unless the building is hazardous and unfit for anything but condemnation.
I apologize if I come off as hostile, I'm just remembering a particularly awful landlady I had a few years ago. We wound up having to call the police on her numerous times. She was ignorant of the laws, uncaring as well. Lead constantly, would beat on our door demanding we pay the rent that we had already paid almost every month. She destroyed our lease agreement after failing to give us a copy, never provided a key to the mailbox so we couldn't get mail, added a payment I made to a falsified record of missed rent and evicted us. I found out when my wife called me at work to tell me it was happening. She stole all kinds of shit while we were moving out, denied it, then told me she'd sell our belongings back to us.
The only solace I have is that I saw her about a year and a half after that. She was a skeleton. Stage 4 cancer if I had to guess. I hope she suffered an unbelievable amount before finally going back to hell where she belonged. Cunt.
Anyway, defend them all you want, I don't care. This is a personal standpoint for me. They could all die tomorrow and I think the world would be a better place.
> Person A: I need somewhere to live temporarily, while I save up to purchase a home.
> Person B: No can do buckaroo, renting is evil!
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