#and the engagement rumour is new to mean and I honestly can't imagine 2009 jensen wanting to marry a guy

[cooloddball]

Hey there! I like your blog and I consider it a safe place to talk about Cockles which I strongly believe in. So, my question is - or rather, questions are - what do you think about their current status? Are they still in love w/ each other and are they waiting for the right time to make a coming out?

Also... There are rumors I heard that he and Jensen planned to engage after the end of the show which supposed to be after season 5. Do you know anything about them? But SPN got another season, than another... Jensen met Danneel and they got married. Cockles break up theory, hello... So, Jensen and Misha agreed to stay good friends since then? But at the same time I see all their latest flirting w/ each other, "sweetheart", "okay babe", etc, and "it warms the Cockles of my heart" 😇💙 I still have hope in them. 😊

Hey to you too!

That's very sweet of you to say. I'm always free to talk about cockles so don't hesitate to ask anything.

Their current status -> I have always thought of them as husbands. Hear me out, I don't mean that they are husbands in the traditional sense but more like a couple that has been together too long that they are basically married. Some people believe that they are married, because of the rings, but even if they actually did have a wedding ceremony, it would just be symbolic and not legal seeing that they are already married to the women they love. So I strongly believe that they are still husbands in an unconventional way that works for them. I hope this makes sense.

Are they still in love with each other ->They are definitely in love and have been for the past 11 years if the anniversary post is anything to go by. I mean have you seen how they look at each other even after all these years? I think that being that they don't spend every waking moment together makes the heart grow fonder. So yes, they are still very much in love with each other.

Are they waiting for a chance to come out? -> I honestly don't know about this bit because there are so many factors in play here. a)they may not want to come out at all which is okay by me and other cockles shippers I know. b)they have wives. I mean I believe Hollywood can forgive gay or bisexual men but not gay/bisexual men in a polyamorous relationship. I wish we lived in a better world but I doubt Jensen would even get any badass superhero roles he seems to like so much. Misha has political inclinations too and I highly doubt that most politicians would want to be affiliated with a gay/bisexual poly man. c)their kids. I think of all the things I have mentioned, their kids are their first priority. Their kids face backlash from some fans which to me is just appalling, why hate on kids, they didn't do anything. So can you imagine what they would go through if it was confirmed to the public that indeed their dads are queer and in a poly relationship with each other? So imo I am inclined to say, for now, NO they won't be coming out any time soon. But if they do, I and other cockles shippers will support them. And if they never do, then we will still be in the dumpster being their biggest fans.

I have never heard of rumours of their engagement after season 5 and highly doubt that it's true seeing that a) Misha was still married to his high school sweetheart, b)they had barely known each other long enough want to take that step, and c)knowing Jensen and how he used to be, performing masculinity and doing everything that was required of him, then I highly doubt they would want to get engaged back then.

I am 99% confident that they made up after the breakup and they are more than just friends. Their relationship is much more evident now than it was ten years ago. So, no, they are not just friends, they are husbands. See point 1.

I hope this answered your ask. If it didn't let me know.