#and now 'mascs are just glorified straight men being fem is More Lesbian'

[butchlifeguard]

hi aren i need to be a raging bitch. keep on seeing this fucking cunt on insta reels promoting her music (its the. horrible beat under doesnt everyone wanna be fabulous enticing magical or wtv. ok chappell roan ripoff) and im sooo tired. top pinned post is like when everyones talking about the masc shortage but theres a femme surplus cause yall dont think we look gay. and alllll the comments are like i think most "mascs" are just straight men who havent come out yet! fem4fem for life we dont need mascs! the world i wanna live in! im soooo tired. if i was to go around saying that we need more people dressing masc and lesbian culture has been corrupted by choice feminism and masc lesbians (ESPECIALLY studs and black lesbians which they dont make space for ever) built the culture and that femme is an identity existing around butchness the same way that butch is an identity existing around femmes im centering patriarchy. it just makes me soooo exhausted that even within the lesbian community u get shit for like. presenting in a way that you want to present? also the idea that mascs are privileged be so fr. the male privilege doesnt work if you have fucking tits. whateverrrr. need to start posting ugh doesnt everyone wanna be masc <333

UGHHH INSTAGRAM USERS SAY SOMETHING TRUE AND BEAUTIFUL CHALLENGE. also the way people will say mascs get male privilege rather than just. getting so much more shit for being visibly gay. ok man.. also the way people say butchfemme relationships are patriarchal is so WEIRD! bc lesbians have been fighting for decades and asserting that 'no, i wouldn't rather just be/date a gender conforming straight man.' just for people on instagram to be like 'hmm no this dynamic seems kinda cishet to me 😇' comes a point where You are the one centering men in other lesbians' relationships lmao

all this is to say. be normal about the mascs and butches 2k25