#and it's like. honey. idc where tf you are. i'm still not home alone. i don't get the same freedom | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

honeybittersweet · 7 months ago

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My brother broke up with her girlfriend and says it's my fault bc I didn't say hi to her nicely enough all the time + I didn't make her feel welcome by putting on a good face when she was around. Girlie, I'm sorry to tell you this, but in my house, I'm not gonna put on a nice face, I've been doing it all day and I'm not gonna do it in my own home just bc you're gonna cry if I don't.

#for context she is a very sensitive person. has anxiety and depression.#and i may be an asshole. but i'm not gonna change my whole demeanor just bc of that. i'm not gonna treat you like a delicate flower #which was how my brother was acting. he even say it so. that he watches the things he says or does as not to make her have a break down #which makes sense if your partner is like that but what the hell do i have to do with that?#listen. i've been in love and friends with people who have both anxiety and depression. and it was exhausting.#i will never put myself in that situation again. no matter with who. idc #also. funny how it was me the principal factor and not the fact that my brother literally told her he didn't have life plans with her #a bit more of context: me and him have never gotten along and we've been living together without parents since 2021 #and he has annoying attitudes #he takes like a week to do the dishes and pots. he leaves his towel wet on a wood furniture. invites ppl over. treats me badly #he also tends to insult me. we fight a lot.#and on top of that he was inviting her over all the time #i'm someone who likes to be home alone. i love it. my brother leaves work at 8pm. she gets out at 7pm. i get home at 7pm and she's there #up until last year she would eat the food my mom would buy especifically for me and stopped bc i literally had to hid the food in my room #also both of them were like !!! but gf locks herself in (my bro)'s room!! so she doesn't ''bother me''#and it's like. honey. idc where tf you are. i'm still not home alone. i don't get the same freedom #+ when i'm truly home alone i spend time in the kitchen. go around semi naked. sing out loud. do you really expect me to do those things #when somebody else who doesn't even live here is staying over?

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