#and constantly telling me i'm mean and rude and ungrateful and lazy and everyone who ever left me had a good reason | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

izzyspussy · 3 months ago

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my sister is telling my dad the story of last night and they are hard core both sidesing it. "well, you know, she doesn't take apologies well..." 1. that's her fucking problem not mine. 2. that doesn't have any fucking bearing on the two and a half hours straight of transphobic talk. 3. not taking an apology well is one thing, telling someone they're "lucky" you're not assaulting them when they say they're sorry for being a bit rude is actually a totally different thing LOL!

#jack facts #as far as i heard sister didn't even actually mention that part lmao #all ''jack got upset and raised his voice so i changed the subject'' and ''he tried to apologize'' and ''she didn't take that well''#by jove! it's press release ready!#and btw i didn't ''try'' to do shit #i said. word for word. ''i'm sorry for raising my voice.''#i fucking did my part thank you very fucking much #and then they went on with ''i know jack tries... but she tries too!''#girl. misgendering me at every opportunity threatening to hit me calling me an abuser #and constantly telling me i'm mean and rude and ungrateful and lazy and everyone who ever left me had a good reason #and belittling all my beliefs and cultural traditions and style and general way of life to my face and etc etc etc etc etc #AIN'T TRYING SHIT!!!!!!!#meanwhile i'm avoiding certain topics i'm making sure to i-phrase all my opinions i don't say anything if i don't have anything nice to say #i don't interrupt her i don't insult her i don't start arguments i ask for clarification or seek a translator/mediator #when i think i've misunderstood her i try to be courteous and remember to leave space for her i don't cross any boundaries i know about #i always say hello and goodbye and please and thank you and i'm sorry and ask about her life and congratulate or commiserate as fits #but here we are. both sidesing. because i'm Rude (don't mask) and Stubborn (not a doormat) and Aggressive (honest about my feelings).#anyway!!!!! whatever

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