#and basically goes LALALA I'M NOT LISTENING!! when asked not to. this isn't an exaggeration BTW he literally does that | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

equalperson · 3 days ago

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whenever I hear someone talk about their shitty, deadbeat partner, I always feel proud of Myself for simply having better taste than them. I'm not in a relationship but at least I've never wanted one with someone like that LMAO.

#personal #NOT talking about abusive relationships but like I said. deadbeats #in this case I'm specifically thinking about this man who INSISTS on being the 'protector and provider' in the relationship #but doesn't know how to manage money or fix things or really do anything right and REFUSES to learn. she's known this from jump #but just lets it slide. and I think 'thank god I've never found people like that attractive'#I'm aroace so I don't find any real person attractive but at least the characters I've found attractive are generally dedicated #and conscientious. not to say that you need to be these things to deserve love (I'm incredibly flaky and disorganized Myself)#but the thing with this guy is that he acts like a first-grade boy raised with toxic masculinity. he burps to masculinize himself #and basically goes LALALA I'M NOT LISTENING!! when asked not to. this isn't an exaggeration BTW he literally does that #anyway but bragging aside I do hope all women in relationships with deadbeat men realize that 'boys will be boys' is bullshit #and they should either insist on better or leave. once again struggling to do better is one thing but once you actively refuse?#you really do deserve to be left TBH don't be a parasite #anyway I spent over an hour listening to her talk about this. I'm gossiping but it's fine because I'm not naming names #or even how I know these people. so it's basically harmless right?

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