#and barda wanting to reject the traits she's acquired from her trauma while scott doesnt
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something that's been on my mind as of late is the way people see some characteristics (specifically a negative one) of themselves that originate from traumatic events in childhood as somehow interfering with their "true self", and wantning to get rid of it through methods of self help/therapy/etc., but that the attitude itself can easily be a manifiestation of self hatred. like how traumatized does one need to be for their self centeredness to be pathologic instead of simply an aspect of themselves. how wrong are you allowed to be as a person and who draws the line. why can other people be shy or rude or loud or selfish and still be normal while all these aspects are seen as pathological only thanks to a more clear point of origin. when does it become a sport of dehumanization against yourself
#.txt#was ruminating on it but that conversation in mister miracle where big barda and scott are talking about their trauma and how it shapes#their ideas of how to decorate the house#and barda wanting to reject the traits she's acquired from her trauma while scott doesnt#and in a way trauma defines you because everything that happens in life defines you you know?#like the constant state of unraveling of the self that doesnt stop and while its good to not let it exclusively define you its also like#at what point are you just rejecting yourself and fueling self hate and at which point is it healing#anyways
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