#and I'm well aware that my maric + fiona stuff is based entirely in headcanons I made up but they're based on
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man getting older hasn't changed my ships but it has changed the way I think about them and my reasoning for the ones I don't love
#part of it is that all my early attempts at love were disasters#but like#solavellan for example#I can't#I cannot willingly make myself believe that an adult woman would date a man for like a year and then ten years later throw away#her entire life#all her friends#for an ex from ten years ago#you are simply not the same person anymore in ten years#and walking away from people like Dorian who have been your ride or die#it just doesn't make sense to me man#and it feels like some people who are championing this are not old enough to have an ex from ten years ago#also maric and fiona vs katriel discourse comes up a lot#and like ship what you ship#but the person you fell in love with the idea of when you were twenty#does not a true love make#in my opinion#and I'm well aware that my maric + fiona stuff is based entirely in headcanons I made up but they're based on#slow burn#and a kind of trial by fire relationship where you are there for each other where you can be and that has to be enough#idk I just#being older changes how you think about relationships
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