#an intellectually stimulating one where i'm so so excited to share my thoughts and hear the other person's thoughts articulated

[thebirdandhersong]

tomorrow is date number 3. we shall have to see how that goes because for whatever reason I am simply not super excited to see this guy. and I do not know if I am 100% curious to find out what kind of person he is. I know it takes a while to get to know someone but surely my interest should have been more piqued by now

[kuuderepunkin]

Halo halo! If you could please, I'd like a match up for Bleach and/or BNHA (feel free to choose between them if you don't feel like both, or if that's too much). My pronouns are she/her, I'm pan, and I like all kinds of art, social sciences, animals, documentaries, and gardening. I'm scared of spiders and heights, and have strong opinions and little patience. If it helps at all, I'm also tall, round, and love battle axes so SO much.

Why yes, of course my dear!  I know (believe) you like Grimmjow and Bakugo so I will include some head canons catered to them below, after I do who I match you up with. 

Boku no Hero Academia Matchup : Ryuko Tatsuma

To be honest I match you with her because you two seem intellectually equal, you enjoy a lot of stimulating and enriching topics which I can totally see her being a woman of high education. She’s so kind and I can’t think of a better significant other than one who would cherish you and your interests.  She’s a bad ass woman, you’re a bad ass woman, you’re a bad ass couple- yet it’s so soft and domestic sometimes. 

Okay you cannot tell me this gal makes her own armor, which- to me- means she knows how to forge. So guess who’s getting you your very own battle axe? You observant and compassionate girlfriend Ryuko. 

She is an educated and respectful woman, and I can totally see the two of you having discussions about social sciences. 

Basically the whole relationship is enriching! A lot of your interest would align with things she would also be interested in or things she would love to partake in learning with you. 

Loves gardening with you, it super domestic and cute. She finds it very relaxing to spend time with you doing something so wholesome and relaxing. 

Just imagine waking up on Sundays together as you two walk to the garden to tend to your plants.

She comes home from her pro hero work sometimes and will join you in the garden, happy to unwind from the stressful work and listen to you talk about your day. 

Dates often include documentary cuddling nights, because it’s relaxing, she loves to learn, and she enjoys spending time with you no matter what you’re doing. 

She’s a great gift giver, often for you it’s flowers and new cute pots for your gardening. She also knows exactly what brand of art supplies are best for the area of art you enjoy doing. Only the best for her talented girlfriend. 

Ryuko is known to praise people for their good work, and being her significant other she’s going to let you know every moment she see’s you how wonderful you are. How you’re so talented and brilliant. 

As for your strong opinions she values that aspect of your personality, because it’s important to have your own opinions and views, and as a pro hero she has some strong opinions herself. She loves having intellectual discussions with you. 

And where you lack patience she has plenty for the both of you, but if you’re upset about something she won’t be little your feelings. She listens and often if you lose your patience she believes that it’s rightly due. 

She’s there to help calm you down and stand by your side. 

Grimmjow Jaegerjaquez 

Trying to find out who to match you up with in Bleach was a little hard, because I just love ships with Grimmjow- and knowing you like him my brain wouldn’t let me think of alternatives too deeply. I did consider Harribel for the same reasons as Ryuko, strong intellectual woman who would like to learn your interests. But she’s also not as lovey dovey, in a sense? It’s hard to explain, and then I thought about Nel- Which would but cute as hell, but I feel like she’s a little too excitable to hold a relationship, at least with someone as smart as you? If that makes sense, I don’t see her having an interest in social sciences or having the patience for gardening?  So in the end I fell back to Grimmjow- the duality of man. Loud wreckless boy- who is actually calculating and observant. Big huggable oaf. 

He’s not a perfect lover either, since he doesn’t share every interest that you have, but sometimes that don’t matter in a relationship. (A lot of the time in my opinion, as long as their is mutual respect y’all don’t got to like the same shit) 

He loves your passion, meaning your strong opinions, because when you get into it he sees exactly how much your opinions matter to you. Loves that fire you get in your voice when talking about your opinions, the way you seem to light up like a fire sparks joy in him. 

He will listen to you talking about social sciences, and he might understand some of it, but for the most part you may have to educate him, but you get so passionate he doesn’t really mind having to listen to you explain things to him. 

Grimmjow is just very drawn to your passion and energy, because he is passionate as well. 

If you want to have a date night watching documentaries, he’s fine with that, but there’s a condition, you have to be resting against his chest as he holds you. 

He’s a big kitty, he loves physical contact with you. 

Your love of battle axes, may cause him to be a little too excitable and he will get you a battle axe and then offer to train you. But he gets a little to excited, showing you how you can use it. 

He doesn’t train in battle against you, he doesn’t want to get too into the battle and hurt you. But he does help you handle it, putting his arms around you as he helps you swing it in the “right” way. Aka the best kill strike. 

This boy may be a little self conscious, that you two don’t have a ton of common ground of things to talk about. And he worries you’ll get bored of trying to explain things to him, but he lets you know how he’s very interested in what you have to tell him. Hoping this will be enough to prove that he does care about your interests. 

Bakugo Katsuki 

Another boy who is great to see people paired with, and you my dear are no exception cause he’s loud and intellectual. 

He’s on par with your knowledge, and will have debates with you about social sciences. Bakugo is a smart student so you can’t tell me he would have some kind of knowledge about different subjects. 

And as a pro hero he has to have some sort of knowledge about social sciences. Even if it’s not his strong suit he knows enough to hold a good discussion with you and follow what you’re talking about. 

Not going to lie, he has some strong opinions, so if your opinions don’t align he may debate it with you. Not to worry this is not going to make him upset with you, Katsuki is just interested to hear why you have that view on a certain opinion. 

He’s not going to try to make you change your view, but if the debate does educate you enough to change to his side he’s pretty smug about it, feel free to lightly jab him in the side. 

He enjoys challenging debates with you but not to the point of arguing because he just wants to see you get passionate about your views and interests, he just doesn’t know how to place those feelings. 

I hope these are okay! I love you bb!!