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#also when ppl are like 'don't talk about _x_ on the nth date'

e-i-l-f · 6 months

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there's so much dating advice content on the internet, and you shouldn't follow any of it, no matter who you are

#like if it's about safety or basic basic hygiene sure #but the rest???#wtf just be real #i know that's cliche but the rules the grifters and even the well meaning people are laying out are CRAZY and overcomplicated #'he didn't try to impress me'#maybe he is just being himself and you don't like him and that's okay #like would you really rather someone do basically a party trick to impress you #than be impressed by their genuine actions and personality #why would you want anyone to be fake just bc they're meeting you for the first time #also when ppl are like 'don't talk about _x_ on the nth date'#girl TALK about whatever feels right and/or you feel is inportant for them to know about you etc #nothing is off the table idk as long as your being real #and if they don't like it #then they are NOT FOR YOU #all these convoluted rules basically encouraging people to hide their true selves lead to bad relationships that are built before thin veils #obv i mean if you're dating for relationships and not just hookups #every new person i dated would know after the first time we met that i am #not religious #childfree and staying that way #commie left #vegan #have multiple animal companions #etc #these things are important to know for embarking on a potentially long term serious relationship #i do not want to waste anyone's time #and i don't want them to waaste mine either

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