#also the potential inc*st..........im uncomfortable

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I've just realized another kin, and also that it conflicts with another kin I have in a Bad way- one is the older sibling of a character, and the one i just realized is the childhood friend of said character, the two very often shipped together, almost inherently. i don't. That's not good. i don't want to be brother & "partner" at the same time for obvious reasons(inc*st). it makes me uncomfortable. and im scared to talk about it anywhere. but i can't just get rid of those kins and the connections- that's not how it works. and i just so happen to be plural & have fictives of all 3 characters- and am frequently around other sourcemates including doubles- making everyone potentially involved uncomfortable. i don't know what to do. im grateful for realizing these kins & all, and want to talk about it with others, but not THIS!! im lucky i don't have kin memories/timelines or it could be even WORSE!!!

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i know its not quite the same scenario as navy seal, but ive highkey avoided ever talking about or publicly enjoying poly pirates content for the same kind of reason, but instead bc it involves shipping jay and chip.

like. yes, i know many people (including the jerboys) interpret them as having a more sibling-esque bond. I fully acknowledge it and I can even agree w it!* but i hate how it has been made that any other interpretation is not only wrong but also bad.

idk man like. i just hate how it feels like enjoying any dynamic of poly-pirates outside of fnc is wrong-- bc at that point, what is the point?

*i personally tend to see the two as very close, but the specifics of whether that closeness is platonic/familial or romantic depends on interpretation (whether of the individual, author, etc). they're two people who've found connection and safety in each other and also enjoy ribbing the other for jokes- what specific type of connection that is can vary for me, yknow? the type isnt the Core of their dynamic to me

(sorry the asterisk part got so long i just want to properly explain myself and dump a bit fjkdsjf)

Oh yeah, I'm 1000% with you on this. I mentioned navyseal cause that's my personal guilty pleasure that I am highkey obsessed with but had to keep it on the downlow after twitter decided it was just as bad as inc*st apparently (as someone who is very very deeply uncomfortable and revolted by that type of stuff in genuine, that shit pissed me off!!!), but this absolutely applies to Chip and Jay and polypirates as a whole. Hell, when I first started the show and didn't really have much fandom influence in my first 30 something episodes I was actually way more of a poly enjoyer

Anyways, as a whole I do sincerely think Chip and Jay work better as a platonic bond, I like this interpretation of their relationship better than romantic, but that doesn't necessarily make the ship bad or wrong you know? Literally ditto to everything you said in your asterisk I couldn't word it better myself.

Like bruh it really felt like these characters are stuck being bitchless fr LOL that whole twitter debacle made it feel like the only CORRECT ships were fnc and pistolwhip (as if fnc doesn't Also have some of the same dynamics listed in navyseal and chip/jay!! (although im certainly keeping my mouth shut further on that since people have started gunning to convince people fnc is a Bad Boring Ship, Actually, and it's better platonic (unrelated to the wlw vs mlm take that just happened there, big disclaimer (I spend too much time on twitter can u tell... there's so many shipwars there for no reason...))) anyways yeah there was just too many people trying to police these ships and instead of just being NORMAL and saying "oh X isn't my cup of tea I enjoy a familial/platonic bond between them instead" they start bending over backwards to prove that ACTUALLY it's PROBLEMATIC, SEE? And sourcing the boys' opinions on it doesn't Wholly matter to ships (unless it's in regards to boundaries, in which it Absolutely Matters) cause Bizly regularly dunks on fnc and that hasn't changed anything

This got very long winded sorry LOL I've been holding onto this irritation for a while now, it's one of the reasons why I'm trying to move away from twitter and come back to tumblr tbh. It is simply fandom culture to ship, and while I love fnc to absolute death as my main ship here, it's nice to explore some variety yk? navyseal has CRAZY potential cause of their parallels and their journey of self discovery and how much they deeply care for each other, polypirates is just a lot of fun altogether cause of all their personalities and that shared strong bond, then you have swordfish, fish² and chips, caspian/chip, marshall john/gillion, like, multishipping is FUN dude. Unless it's GENUINELY problematic or Actual Proshipping like twitter Claimed, I don't see the big idea. There is such thing as "Don't like, don't read". There is such thing as muting/blocking words and curating your own experience. You don't have to put down others because their enjoyment of something clashes with your personal interpretation of it. It's fandom bro!!!

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this is so dumb and im sorry if ur currently not into naruto but my brain is like "is sns inc*st because of the reincarnation thing" and while i know it's not im having trouble convincing my brain... if u dont feel like answering that's fine btw i just think the argument is dumb but my brain is like "what if tho"

obv tw in this ask for discussion of #incest

hello anon unfortunately i can nevr rly leave naruto.. but my thoughts are "overall no" with a side of "kishimoto did that shit on purpose"

first of all: i think what makes incest unhealthy and dangerous is the power dynamic that is always at play in some way or another. due to being in a family structure, this is a component which is unescapable when incestuous lines are crossed. even in the case of people who are related but dont find out until later in life, upon finding out, there can be a shift in dynamic to reflect this, which is the danger. so the question is: does the reincarnation thing make sasuke and naruto see each other as real, tangible brothers, and does this therefore create a power dynamic? and id give a solid "no". they dont begin to view each other as actual brothers. i also think when it comes to fandom, its important how its interpreted: fans certainly COULD fetishize that point, at which point it would become sketchy and dangerous. but ive never really seen that tbh. i think its also important to consider how we're interpreting reincarnation stuff - after a certain point EVERYONE would be reincarnated from relatives bc theres only so many people on the planet throughout history u know..

my second point is that i think this is unfort an issue that is always gonna plague depictions of gay couples in some way. straight people really go "these people of the same gender are SO close.. closer than ur average friends....... like siblings :)" and its like NO!!!! sometimes its an intentional "no homo tho", sometimes its genuinely the only way these people can conceptualize intimate same gender relationships. one time i got an anon insisting that ino and sakura were cousins so you cant ship them - which has no canon basis and was certainly just because thats such a cultural way to interpret close f/f relationships.

this is a really difficult subject to deal with, because on the one hand incest is horrible and we must be careful to never justify it. on the other hand, its frustrating how often media that could be read as gay is every time "oh they were secretly sisters the whole time :))" this doesnt happen the same way to potential m/f dynamics - with the exception of like luke and leia lmao - so its upsetting and hard to wrestle with

my overall answer is: no i dont think it makes sns incestuous that they are reincarnations of brothers, and i think the "but literally theyre like brothers" was a copout writing decision. that said, if it makes you, or anyone, uncomfortable, i think youre justified in that! while i dont think its an objective "this is evil" people are entitled to what can be upsetting, and that element is a potentially hurtful thing in sns's relationship.