#addiction does have genetic and chemical components but most of what our service provides is addressing the psychological addiction

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[ID: Five panels from Trigun Maximum. The first shows Milly and Meryl looking up at something, startled. The second shows Wolfwood hovering around a corner, peering out from behind it. The third shows a closer up image of Wolfwood peering around the corner, a serious look on his face as he says, "Booze? Him? First thing in the mornin'? Ya gotta be kiddin'..." The fourth panel shows Vash crouching on the ground, a really awkward face smile on his face as he looks down on his coat, which has been splashed with whisky from a broken bottle. He's sort of laughing, the speech bubbles saying "Ha... heh heh..." but he doesn't really look happy. The fifth panel is a close-up of Vash's face as he slurps some of the spilled whisky off of his glove. Despite being close up, his face is so heavily shaded that it's almost impossible to make anything out. His left eye is sort of visible, closed and curved as if he might be smiling, but that's really not the vibe. End ID.]

I know I yell a lot about Nightow ruining my health and happiness but Colourless Expression really is such an INTENSELY impactful character chapter about SUFFERING. These people drink a lot for fun (can't blame 'em, given where they live) but in the aftermath of remembering about July Vash is day drinking to cope--and his friends don't even know he's been drinking until now. FUCKING OUCH

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Things I have learned 2021

The Self

Figure yourself out

DNA

Genetics

Culture

Where you were raised

Political compass

Economic (left-right)

Social (Authoritarian-Libertarian)

Big 5 Personality Traits

Openness

Inventive/curious vs consistent/cautious

Conscientiousness

Efficient/organized vs extravagant/careless

Extraversion

Outgoing/energetic vs solitary/reserved

Agreeableness

Friendly/compassionate vs critical/rational

Neuroticism

Sensitive/nervous vs resilient/confident

Myers Briggs

Extroverted vs Introverted

Sensory vs Intuitive

Sensory:

Realistic, facts, and details

Apply common sense and past experiences for problem solving

Intuitive

Possibilities and big picture

Easily sees patterns, values innovation, seeks creative solution to problems

Thinkers vs feelers

Thinkers

Decisions using logical analysis

Feelers

Sensitive and cooperative. Decides based on their own personal values and how others will be affected by their actions

Judgers vs perceivers

Judgers

Organized, prepared, sticking to plans, comfortable following most rules

Perceivers

Prefer to keep options open.

Like to to be able to act spontaneously

Morality test

Care/harm

Fairness/cheating

Loyalty/betrayal

Authority/subversion

Sanctity/degradation

Liberty/oppression

Values

Pick from a list

Love language

Words of affirmation

Physical touch

Receiving Gifts

Quality Time

Acts of Service

Attachment style

Secure

Trust easily, emotional attuned, can communicate upsets directly, cooperative and flexible behavior in relationships

Anxious

Sensitive nervous system

Struggles communicating directly

Tends to act out when triggered

Avoidant: Dismissive

Downplays importance of relationships

Extremely self reliant

Can become more vulnerable in a big crisis

Avoidant: Fearful

More dependent on relationships than dismissive

Strongly fears rejection

Has low self esteem

Has high anxiety in relationships

Happiness and its components

Momentary mood

How you feel right now

Life satisfaction

Your evaluation of your life

Assessment of specific life domains

Work, relationships, finances, health, etc

People

Be aware of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths

All of these types of people are devoid of empathy

Narcissistic: 1% of general population

Sociopaths: 4% of general population

Psychopaths: 1% of general population

The dark Triad

Narcissism: grandiosity, pride, and lack of empathy

Machiavellianism: manipulation and exploitation of others

Psychopathy: antisocial behavior, impulsivity, callous, selfish, and remorselessness

Borderline personality disorder

Fear of abandonment

Unstable relationships

Unclear self image

Impulsive, self destructive behaviors

Self harm

Extreme emotional swings

Chronic feelings of emptiness

Explosive anger

Feeling out of touch with reality

Relationships

Marriage is sacred

Red Flags

Difficulty being yourself

Not for you

No trust

Low communication

If they cheated once, they are 350% more likely to cheat again.

In order to be in a relationship you need to be free of major flaws.

Controlling, abandonment anxiety, physical abuse, addiction, etc

Choosing a Partner

Must be at least compatible in the Big 5 Personality Traits (within 50%)

Must be at least compatible in the Myers Briggs personality traits test (within 50%)

Empathy

Trust

Physical attraction

Emotional depth

Intellectual compatibility

Shared activities

Productive conflict

fight, flight, or freeze vs solving problems and letting go. Attacking the argument, not the person. While angry love is still clear. It gets better with time.

Affection

Similar financial values

Commitment

Spending time together/effort in relationship

Positive to negative ratio should be between 5:1 - 11:1

Any more and any less is not good because it's too negative or the other person doesn’t contend with you and doesn't help you grow.

Clear guidelines for a relationship

It is almost impossible for relationships to work without the proper social guidelines

Attraction

Similarity

First and foremost we select individuals who share characteristics with us.

Self disclosure

We connect deeply with those we can share our thoughts without reprisal, acceptance, and low risk. Trust.

Proximity

How close they are to us matters in the frequency we come into contact with them.

Be with an XNFJ

Raising Children

Preventing Spoiledness:

Wait one year to buy them ANYTHING

At 16 years old stop buying them nonessentials

Essentials: clothes, food, school supplies, hobby supplies

Reward failures when they try

Critical Periods and Teratogens

Neural development is the first to form, even before heart and limbs.

1-2 weeks the child is likely to be lost if abnormalities occur.

3-8 weeks abnormalities will be major.

9-38 weeks abnormalities will be minor.

Teratogens: environmental factors that could lead to birth defects.

Alcohol

It affects the development of the nervous system. It can get through the blood barrier of the placenta. The alcohol cannot be metabolized by the fetus, thus it stays longer.

It affects neuron migration the most. This condition can cause cortical dysplasia, this happens when neurons fail to migrate.

Cortical dysplasia: makes it so the affected area of the brain is lacking the neural connections to function properly. This causes SEIZURES.

Tobacco

Prescription and over the counter medications

Illicit drugs

Pollutants

Toxoplasmosis

STDs

HIV

German measles

Mothers over 35

Teenage pregnancy

Gestational diabetes

High blood pressure

Rh disease (type of anemia)

Weight gain

Stress

Depression

Paternal impact

Advice/Tips

To be a man means to have self control

Don’t allow anger, sadness, or even happiness to take hold of you and allow you to get carried away

Don’t allow sexual urges to have dominion over you, but have dominion over it.

There usually is no right or wrong, just differences

So find those who are like you.

Trade pleasure & materialism for responsibility

Dopamine: pleasure seeking chemical in the brain

Serotonin: content feeling chemical in the brain

Dopamine and serotonin are inversely correlated. Chase responsibility and self improvement in every sense.

Frontal cortex vs limbic system

Frontal cortex is decision making, self control, and intelligence

Limbic system is more primitive, it wants and craves pleasure like food, sleep, and sex

Listen to the frontal cortex!

Control your urges, or become a slave to them.

Strive to be your best

Intellectually

Emotionally

In intrapersonal relationships

Body

Spirit

If you are upset and overwhelmed leave the situation/environment

Empathy is beautiful but you need enough logic to leave a person that is abusing your empathy.

Don’t do drugs or alcohol.

Earlier the initiation of drugs and alcohol the higher the chance for addiction.

Drugs and alcohol permanently affect neural development which occurs from birth to 30 years old.

There are large changes from gray to white matter during the developing years.

This change allows for:

Enhanced information processing, which is required for complex cognitive abilities

This development generally begins from the posterior regions to anterior regions of the brain. Limbic vs prefrontal cortex.

Increases frequency if risky behaviors

Contributes to adult health problems like:

Heart disease

High blood pressure

Sleep disorders

You become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

There is nothing more important than relationships, so choose wisely!

Happiness: Perma

Positive emotion

What we feel (happiness, warm, etc)

Engagement

Being absorbed by stimulating activities

Relationships

That are positive, nurturing, and rewarding

Meaning

Serving a purpose larger than oneself

Accomplishment

Pursuit of achievement and mastery

Happiness strategies

Focus on problem solving, not just venting

Take time to make quality relationships with good people

Practice gratitude

Random acts of kindness

Attend to others mindfully and practice compassion and empathy

Be kind to yourself and not too perfectionistic

Set goals that provide structure and purpose

Build motivation from within and not from the environment

Seek healthy challenges, to push you past your boundaries

Focus on what you have instead of what you desire (anti-materialism)

Avoid temptation to complain and instead be optimistic

Curing depression

give someone structure. Have them create all the pillars necessary to build a foundation for a happy life. (Job, gf, friends, etc)

Responsibility vs no responsibility

Responsibility causes suffering but gives meaning to life

No responsibility causes no suffering but gives no meaning to life which then causes suffering

The point is to live life in a way that it is worth suffering

Those with a moral structure are happier.

Those with less options are happier. When you have too many options you cannot decide. When life is too good it becomes unclear on what to do with your life.

Sleep schedule, regular circadian rhythm

Don’t get overwhelmed by the scale of things. Just focus on finding your community.

Save more than you spend

If you have no problems, you will create your own suffering

Do not give your children everything. According to their age, support them less and less and only support them emotionally.

Practice admitting you are wrong. Don’t let anybody make you feel bad for it

Health

Diet

Avoid: sugars, gluten, processed meats, fast food, too many carbohydrates, and antibiotics

It causes inflammation in the body, fat, and lowers good hormones.

Exercise

Cardio and weight lifting

Rest

3 days of rest a week

7 hours of sleep. At the same time everyday.

Hygiene

Showering

Trimming

Soap

Deodorant

Cologne

Skin care

When things are overwhelming, do what you are willing to do no matter how small.

Does the environment affect you, or do you affect the environment?

You can validate someone’s feelings and not justify someone’s feelings.

Focus on the things you can control.

You cannot control people

Find those who are like minded

Ignore those who are not.

So you don’t get upset or emotionally drained because you can’t change people to think or believe the things you do.

You have to have purpose. You have to have something you believe in. You have to follow your values and morals. You have to have goals.

If not you will be lost, get hurt, hurt others, be depressed, and your life will have no meaning.

Create a lineage of XNFJ

Don’t trust anybody without them first earning it

Define social constructs/biology

Gender: social characteristics of sex

Sex: biological determinant for female and male

Practical Facts

Happiness is dependent on

Genetics 50%

Circumstance 10%

Sex, ethnicity, income, education

Intentional activity 40%

Behavioral choices and thinking patterns

Positive emotion makes people impulsive.

The impulsivity can ruin your life

Impulsivity does not affect IQ.

Happiness should be balanced because it should reflect the state of the world.

The world is not puppies and rainbows, if we are only happy then we will be ill equipped for the world.

Compiled data on human development and genetics

1. Haplogroup R1b is the biggest determinant for human development

Brain Develops from birth to 30s.

Limbic system: reward center of the brain. Regulates emotions.

Prefrontal cortex: executive functioning and decision making

You cannot create your own morality. You can co create and discover your morality.

If you could then you wouldn’t ever be bothered by your conscience.

Feeling guilt, hurt, sad, etc are signs that we are most likely not doing the right thing morally.