#actually women to begin with. otherwise i could've written a tag that was more appropriate the first time around!! 🏳️⚧️)
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image of my tags from reblog, which read: it ain't women's lingerie if a man's wearing it though. that's men's lingerie now. and he looks real good in 'em too. 😘
hey, that's cool. nothing wrong with women wearing women's lingerie. i responded in tags with additional positivity about men wearing lingerie. my pov was that clothes are pointlessly gendered and my tags reflect the position that if a man is wearing lingerie, then he could feel good about it as a man. your response changes the original post, which was not about women, but i hold the same position i wrote in my tags: if a woman is wearing lingerie, then it's women's lingerie and she'd look real good in 'em too. 💖
thinks abyout men in women's lingerie and runs fast as fuck face first into a brick wall
#(can people not make a weird issue out of things that aren't an issue to begin with? like it seems as if this reply is making me out to be-#against trans women or something when the original post is literally about men...#and there are no tags on the original post or in replies or in comments that would indicate the men being spoken of in original post were-#actually women to begin with. otherwise i could've written a tag that was more appropriate the first time around!! 🏳️⚧️)#(how am i supposed to know that the barely one sentence all of 17 words total saying something about men wearing lingerie was supposed to-#somehow be about women? like genuinely. how would i know that? i'm tired of people making an issue out of things like this...#if there's no indication on the post or in tags to clear up the intention then pls don't bring attention to my tags as if i didn't-#get the memo. i'm not a mind reader. i just liked the post. still like the post. but now i'm worried random people are going to start-#sending me hate messages about this like i've intentionally misgendered someone by responding to this post as i have stated above...#which feels significantly less cool tbh#i don't see many posts hyping men in lingerie so i was happy to rb something positive about it! no other intentions here.#i see lots of posts hyping women in lingerie and i rb those too. the original post just happened to say men instead of women...#hopefully this is all clear and we are able to understand this interaction as idk the src. i happened upon this post and decided to rb it.#(no idea who the original person is that i've reblogged from. seemed to be trans friendly and over 25 without any specific dni on pinned)#(last time i reblogged a very simple text post and got a similar reaction it lead to that person posting about me a lot and sending hate)#(i'm just laying it all out in this so everything is transparent and i've shared as much as i know here. no offense or ill intentions) <3
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