#aaaand this is why i've applied for extra help through disability for household chores
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agayconcept · 10 months ago
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#aaaand this is why i've applied for extra help through disability for household chores#my mother threw a tantrum bc i ran out of clothes and needed to do a laundry#but bc i cannot carry the heavy bin up 2 flights of stairs and thru an extremely heavy door#that means she had to do it#so she just threw a bunch of shit in that i DID NOT want in there#and she shrunk and ruined my brand new 'Trans & Tired' t-shirt that cost me $35#and i just looked it up and its gonna cost me nearly $48 to ship a new one to myself. for a tshirt. what the fucK dude#i am. So unamused#i do not have 50 bucks lying around for a fuckin shirt#and theres no chance in hell she'll offer to help w the cost like i woulda done if the situation was flipped#ughhhh#sorry i know this is such a minor problem comparatively but like.#a) she does this shit all the time out of spite and then throws her hands up when it results in consequences like this#b) that shirt was something i was saving up for for ages and qent to like 3 different markets in the hopes of getting in my size#bc its a small business owner and its limited quantities#c) this is once again why i wanna shake her by the shouldera when she complains that i requested outside assistance#this is why !!!#bc u refuse to help me with things and then when its unavoidable and u have to u throw a fit and end up ruining my clothes#or breaking my stuff or making the apartment inaccessible to me#and u rant and rave about having to do it for ages#only to then turn around and shout at me for trying to help w that by getting someone else in to assist me w laundry / cleaning etc#my guy#if i look up the word hypocrite on urban dictionary its just gonna be a picture of your face#*went *shoulders no i wont fix my typos im too annoyed to care#she knew that shirt was not to go in the laundry. we discussed it several times. but she got mad and put it in anyway#and now i have no shirt. cooool beans. this is why i cant have nice things#i am aware this is a very minimal problem in the grand scheme of things. but i was so excited to wear that shirt to an event next weekend#i rly was. but nooooope
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