#UNEMPLOYABLE

[xtrablak674]

"You're being too visible"

This is what my Black woman VP boss said to a queer Black gender non-conforming person. #😳 And let's get it out of the way, the whyte liberal would have a hair-trigger response and spout something to the effect of, you're being too sensitive. But am I?

Two-thousand fourteen was the last job in corporate America that I worked at, and yes I don't have to do any complex math because that is ten years ago. I was over-qualified for the position and paid at least sixty percent less than my standard rate. I remember clearly a twenty-something fellow employee asking me how I had accomplished something that was obviously eluding him when my current tasks were his responsibility. I said I talked to people and we came up with a solution to the backlog.

Part of being too grown and too experienced, is that folks who are twice your junior take much longer to execute and figure out challenges, which are somewhat effortless for you. Per my standing preference I didn't work more than forty hours and performed a job that was over a month behind deadlines and got it all cleared up in less than ten days. #NotABadBitchJustDamnedGood

But my approach wasn't what the youthful employees had done before, I got up from behind my computer, left my desk and went to go see people, my 'clients' as we called them. I am a great believer in face-time and the importance of looking folks in the eye, listening the timber of their voice, and noticing their body language. All of these are a part of the emotional intelligence I have developed while working in whyte corporate America, I use my natural empathy in a way that probably isn't prescribed or best practice, but it ultimately gets the job done, efficiently and quickly.

But I do not look like everyone else in corporate America, and mind you this particular company was quite Black and also queer, I may have been a note too fabulous for this space, albeit it was in essence a creative space. This is part of my becoming more myself as I mature, I remain unapologetic in my approach to the world, how I present myself and this was reflected in my daily fashion which spoke to my unique voice as much as anything.

I don't think anything I wore was outlandish or even unprofessional in a business casual office where some folks would literally wear shorts and t-shirts to work everyday. I had one of my clients say to me after I was told her I couldn't see her any more because of my excessive visibility, was that she enjoyed seeing what I was wearing everyday and our brief check-ins, she felt she knew exactly where we stood on any particular project that we were working on and it left her free to focus on other real issues.

The thing I loved about this very whyte, heteromantic and patriarchal world was that unlike my past in the non-profit sector I was paid a more than livable wage, and I was able to usually utilize my mind, not my body to do my work. My real question is, what does it matter what I wear if I satisfactorily execute my job responsibilities? I will never get an answer to that question, so it will remain rhetorical.

I recall my working at one place maybe not even two weeks when the boss there seemed to admire my freelance mentality and quit. We had previously talked about how I like the off-and-on of contract work, I'd work a couple of months in one place and then take a trip to South America for a month, or three months somewhere else and go to Africa for ten days. The gigs were short enough for me to stay pleasant all throughout because my time was only temporary. Clearly she was sold and wanted to make a lifestyle change herself. #WasThatMyFault?

Looking back on all of this and where I am now I have no regrets, the next time I would be employed would be twenty-twenty, six year later, hundreds if not thousands of emails sent out, dozens of interviews, but not one closing. I wasn't as young as I used to be, quite a few positions I was also over-qualified for even with trimming my resume considerable to appear 'younger', but I think I had become TOO BLACK, TOO QUEER and TOO GENDER NON-CONFORMING. I refused to dim my light or alter my behavior to make whyte people more comfortable with my very overt Africaness, and I was unapologetic about it all.

Today I live off the interest from my investments, I wear what I want, I sleep as late as I please, and my days are filled with the thing I want to do and the folks I want to fuck with, and I needn't attempt to diminish myself in any way to conform to anyones anything. No one should have to change themselves to be suitable to work, if they have the education, experience and abilities. Folk should be hired on their merits and the fact that they can execute the job, not by how comfortable or uncomfortable they make you, or if they know your friends little friend. Nepotism has become the law of the land if you want to work in this country, and I am so pleased its a practice I don't have to fuck with anymore.

[Photos by Brown Estate]

[scopophilic1997]

scopOphilic_micromessaging_559 - scopOphilic1997 presents a new micro-messaging series: small, subtle, and often unintentional messages we send and receive verbally and non-verbally.

[spockoholic]

applying to jobs brings out my self hatred and self esteem issues more than anything else i stg

[lawluenvy]

is there such thing as a paper-writing phobia??? like there are people out there with severe test taking anxiety (we call it an anxiety but it functions as a phobia in that with severe cases it induces panic attacks) and mine is pretty much that except it's papers- especially research papers and reports which are virtually the only papers you write in uni no matter what your area of study is which is why i cant just GO BACK even for an elementary teacher's degree and most certainly not for a masters in my bachelor's field because 1. i hate the academic establishment and the only good masters and phds in arts are for is continuing in academia because its an ouroboric incestuous institution and 2. PAPERS MAKE ME SUICIDAL

but gods its actually become such a problem.

once again i find myself unemployed and EI is taking forever to come through and i was excited about this job that i made it to the last interview stage of but i havent heard back yet and tmr it will be a week and even at one time entry level positions like receptionists and office assistant jobs now require you to have a degree (there are office administration CERTIFICATES FOR FUCK'S SAKE) or 3 years exp and just goddamn

but i cant go back to school

i cant because i loathe papers so much they give me insane panic attacks and just thinking about being in that position again makes me want to die and

dear gods why couldnt i just have kept my job at LEAST a full year before they laid me off cuz unfortunately 8 months is not an option in the toggle down menu of applications that measure in years and then i am auto weeded out and just

FUCK. MY. LIFE.

[sp00kysk3lly]

In 13 days, I will be 26.... And I am not even looking forward to it.

What's there to look forward to? It's just another day. Every year, my birthday gets ruined. By something or someone.

2016 - I got diagnosed with type one diabetes, one month before my 19th birthday. Then my grandad got sent to hospital on my actual birthday. 2017 - My brothers girlfriend had a go at me over me putting a status up about my rapist brother calling him out on his shit. Made me cry on my 20th birthday. 2018 - I can't remember what happened, but I know something happened. 2019 - Celebrating my 22nd birthday, with a catheter attached to my leg. 2020 - Covid happened. But again, was just another day for me. 2021 - Got diagnosed with Diabetic Retinopathy stage 4, had to have laser eye surgery before my birthday. 2022 - Was just depressed, ended up self-harming.

Which brings us to 2023, my 26th birthday. I am just patiently waiting for something bad to happen.

[secretly-a-ghost]

[marketingpro1]

Understanding Unemployability and Unemployable: Breaking Down the Barriers

In today’s fast-evolving job market, discussions around unemployability and unemployable individuals are becoming increasingly prominent. These terms, though interconnected, highlight the challenges faced by individuals who struggle to secure jobs and the systemic issues that contribute to their predicament. In this blog, we’ll explore what these terms mean, their causes, and actionable steps to address the issues they represent.

What Does Unemployability and Unemployable Mean?

The term unemployability refers to a state where an individual is unable to secure gainful employment despite an active job search. This could be due to personal, educational, or systemic barriers. On the other hand, being labeled as unemployable suggests that an individual lacks the skills, qualifications, or characteristics deemed necessary by employers in a competitive job market.

These terms carry significant implications, both for individuals and society. Addressing unemployability and unemployable status requires understanding its root causes and taking targeted actions.

Causes of Unemployability and Unemployable Status

Skill Gaps One of the most common reasons for unemployability and unemployable status is a mismatch between the skills job seekers possess and the skills employers need. In rapidly evolving industries, outdated knowledge or lack of technical expertise can render even experienced individuals unemployable.

Education Inequality Educational disparities often leave individuals without access to quality training or certifications. This makes it difficult to compete with better-qualified candidates in the job market.

Economic Shifts Structural unemployment caused by economic shifts, such as automation or outsourcing, can lead to increased unemployability. Entire industries sometimes decline, leaving workers stranded without transferable skills.

Personal Barriers Health issues, lack of transportation, or caregiving responsibilities can contribute to unemployability, even among individuals who are otherwise capable.

Social Biases Discrimination based on age, gender, ethnicity, or disability often unfairly labels individuals as unemployable, regardless of their qualifications or abilities.

The Social Impact of Unemployability and Unemployable Labels

When large segments of the population face unemployability, the consequences are far-reaching. For individuals, it can lead to financial insecurity, loss of self-esteem, and mental health struggles. On a societal level, it can result in higher dependency on social welfare systems, reduced economic productivity, and increased inequality.

The label unemployable is particularly damaging. It stigmatizes individuals, making it even harder for them to find opportunities. Employers may overlook capable candidates simply because of preconceived notions about their potential.

Tackling Unemployability and Unemployable Challenges

Addressing unemployability and unemployable issues requires collaborative efforts from governments, educational institutions, employers, and individuals. Here are some strategies:

Invest in Skills Development Governments and organizations must prioritize accessible training programs that teach in-demand skills. Partnerships between industries and educational institutions can help bridge the gap.

Promote Lifelong Learning Encouraging individuals to continuously update their knowledge and skills ensures they remain competitive in the job market. Platforms like online courses and certifications can make this process easier.

Improve Job Matching Services Advanced job-matching algorithms and career counseling can help individuals align their strengths with available opportunities, reducing unemployability.

Combat Biases in Hiring Employers should focus on diversity and inclusion, creating fair hiring practices that value skills and potential over traditional qualifications.

Supportive Policies Policymakers must address barriers like affordable childcare, healthcare, and transportation that contribute to unemployability.

Encourage Entrepreneurial Initiatives Promoting entrepreneurship can empower individuals to create their opportunities, bypassing traditional employment hurdles.

A Positive Outlook

While the challenges of unemployability and unemployable status may seem daunting, progress is achievable. Many organizations and governments are already implementing initiatives to upskill individuals and reduce barriers. Success stories abound of people who have transitioned from being labeled "unemployable" to thriving in fulfilling careers.

Ultimately, addressing unemployability and unemployable issues is not just about individual success—it’s about building a more inclusive and resilient economy. With collective effort, we can ensure everyone has the opportunity to contribute meaningfully to society.

Final Thoughts

The conversation around unemployability and unemployable isn’t just a theoretical exercise. It’s a pressing issue that demands action from all corners of society. Whether it’s through education, policy reform, or personal initiative, breaking down these barriers will lead to a more equitable and prosperous future.

[danepopfrippery]

Many if not most of us are disabled or chronically ill meaning beyond money requirements, half the year we cant leave the house without fearing imminent death in covid cuz no one masks but us.

Nothing in my life changes because nothing can. Thats the design not a fluke

i just gotta have my weekly “i am frustrated w employed people” moment. because i just feel so isolated in every conversation, i feel envious of their income and ability to live an independent life and buy things. if thats u I truly do need you to recognize and be conscientious of the fact that even though there is much wrong with the environment and expectations of employment, still that it is a privilege to be able to participate in it, because it means you at least have that base level of worth to society so that you can participate in it as designed. ppl like me cannot.

[animentality]

[bedlund]

[mistressemmedi]

There's quietly quitting. And then there's whatever Sergio Perez is doing.

[probablyasocialecologist]

Last July, The Intercept obtained an internal Bank of America memo that stated “we hope the ratio of job openings to unemployed is down to the more normal highs of the last business cycle.” Translated into English, this means the bank was rooting for there to be fewer job openings. Likewise, a California real estate CEO said on an earnings call last year that a recession could be “good” if “it comes with a level of unemployment that puts employers back in the driver seat and allows them to get all their employees back into the office.” Around the same time, an anonymous Texas businessman told the Dallas branch of the Federal Reserve about his delighted anticipation that “the workforce pulls its head out of its rear when a correction or recession makes jobs scarce and people start to feel the pain or fear of not providing for their family and loved ones.” He did have one concern, however  — that the government might “jump back into the fight and pay them to do nothing again.” Even Janet Yellen, the current secretary of the Treasury and former chair of the Fed during the Obama administration, wrote this in a 1996 memo: “Unemployment serves as a worker-discipline device because the prospect of a costly unemployment spell produces sufficient fear of job loss.”

[mioakem]

shut up i’m talking patreon episode summary (only 7 dollars btw)

jack starts it off explaining the lead up to the situation and saying how dream involved himself out of nowhere. he said it was all very lighthearted leading up to dreams involvement (they don’t like mizkif or xqc very much but found the whole thing funny)

tommy said he didn’t think it would escalate very far and started off talking the piss out of it but after the 3 hour stream he realized it was getting serious. he didn’t want to involve himself with dream very much because a lot of people around him were saying that he shouldn’t speak to dream because of the way he took advantage of him when he was 16. tommy said he attempted to resolve it privately in the past but after the if youtubers were honest video dream sent him very mean and awful messages and after that he told dream he was going to block him everywhere (which he did)

jack says that it’s nearly impossible to resolve drama with dream privately because he makes everything public (and also it’s incredibly hard to talk to him) jack said that after the episode with phil he had a 2 hour long call with dream where they basically just went back and forth and nothing was really resolved

jack says that this episode was filmed right after dreams video dropped. tommy makes fun of the title (i’m sorry but not to tommyinnit). jack then admits that he does talk about dream a lot and he does it because he feels like before everything he was one of the only ones who openly disliked dream. jack says that everytime jack has criticized him in a non joking manner it hasn’t been a rumor. the only time jack has mentioned pedo rumors was when he was drunk and a fan asked if dream was a pedo and he said he couldn’t legally answer that. he said he was drunk and put on the spot. jack said that though he doesn’t think dream is a pedo he does think that messaging fans is inappropriate and strange. jack said that when the allegations came out dream messaged in the discord saying they were false and said he’s open to any questions. jack answered saying that even though he didn’t think dream was a pedo it was a little weird to be messaging fans (especially underaged ones). dream talked to jack privately after that saying that the message annoyed him because jack was being skeptical.

jack then talks about how on dreams stream he said that he knew some rumors about jack but wasn’t gonna say them but then said that there were rumors about jack being unfaithful. jack said that the point of that was that when jack had rumors it was handled privately but when dream had rumors it was very public- which is incredibly hypocritical because dream made jack’s situation public knowing it was false but jack kept dreams rumor private in his own regard.

tommy then jokes about cheating on molly and then goes into the editor thing. jack said that it’s a lie and then passes it over to tommy. tommy said he has nothing to say because there’s physical evidence that he didn’t underpay them (actually very graciously paid them). tommy says that it feels very weird that all his private messages keep going public. jack then starts talking about how the unpaid editor situation was actually about him. he said that he was one month into doing youtube and worked a minimum wage job and asked an editor what they wanted to be paid and they agreed on 50 quid. they said they both were young and didn’t know how much she should’ve been paid and he didn’t make any money from youtube at the time anyways. he said that now youtube is his job and he is much more knowledgeable in appropriate payments.

they then bring up how dream skipped over george and also how the only clip he took from tubbos stream was the one of him agreeing with him. jack says he can’t believe that dream tried to “win” by using straight up lies and brings up how dream has a reputation of lying and he doesn’t know why he did it.

tommy says he said all he needed to say in the video and the video was meant for dream rather than the viewers (except for the promo at the end). he says that dream knows why tommy called him sexist and he said that there’s so much that isn’t out and it’s incredibly miserable. tommy said that he doesn’t wanna do this anymore and he doesn’t feel happy with youtube anymore because of the creators in the space. he says that he won’t be doing the whole youtube thing in a couple years, he will still post videos but he’s not gonna interact with all the shit going around, especially when the people involved used to be his friends. he said that the dream video was kinda meant to be the last time he gets involved with everything. he says that it feels incredibly childish and that he’s appalled that people are pushing 30 and are doing this. tommy said that he makes jokes about mega famous people being dickheads because it’s how he puts his feelings into words. he says that dream is one of the most self indulging person he has ever dealt with in his life and he cannot believe he’s been dealing with him for nearly 5 years- and he doesn’t not intend to continue dealing with him. he says he doesn’t find the whole situation funny anymore and he finds no joy in it- which he did during the logan and mizkif situations. he says that this is no way to live and it’s all pointless to be creating drama like this online and whenever he punches up he’s not trying to cancel anyone he just wants to make a joke. he again says that it’s all childish and that they’re both adults now

jack brings up that there’s no one sticking up for dream and how everyone on the server that has spoken up has disagreed with dream. jack says that a lot of them have felt this way for years- especially him

tommy said that he feels very manipulated by a lot of these people and that it took him a very long time to realize how manipulative some of these people were. he tells a story about when he was just starting out and he did the lobby spamming in a twitch streamers lobby the guy got super mad at him and invited him to call and proceeded to scream at tommy and called him the r slur (he was 20 and tom was 14) he said he was super shaken and messed up from it- but now he’s incredibly used to it and it’s such a shame that he is.

jack said that he started disassociating with dream after the grooming allegations because he didn’t want to be friends with someone who would privately message fans (which was the case). he said that he doesn’t like being grouped in with dream because of the dsmp because he’s bad for his image so he’s tried his best to make it clear that he doesn’t like dream and that’s about all he wants.

they then start talking about how out of the blue everything was. jack said that he would understand his involvement if they had been bullying dream relentlessly for weeks but they were literally talking about mizkif and xqc at the time and

jack said that he’s made his piece why he doesn’t like him and how you don’t have to look very hard to see the manipulative tactics to get people on his side. they both say it’s painful watching him do that. jack said that he’s going to continue making jokes about what dream accused him of because they’re so ridiculous.

tommy says that it’s sad that the only thing that dream took from tommy’s video was that he was lying. he says it’s sad to see everyone come out with there bad experiences with dream and he can’t believe it got this bad.

jack says it’s questionable that dream mocked jack for jack not liking him because of things he’s heard about him and he was gonna keep joking about eveything public about him because it’s funny. jack said that there’s enough that’s true that makes him not want to associate with dream.

tommy says that dream is an impossibly selfish man . jack said that the only thing he’s gonna give to dream is that he’s clearly incredibly socially unaware and genuinely does not understand what he’s done wrong- but that doesn’t excuse being a bitch. he says that people have tried to explain that to him but he just doesn’t get it. he also then asks how willing his misunderstanding is- because he most likely is aware of some of it. tommy says he lacks alot of empathy and doesn’t have guilt for the bad things he’s done. tommy says that it’s very easy to simply apologize but just keep doing the bad things and that’s what dream always does. tommy says he doesn’t take dreams apologies seriously anymore and he doesn’t forgive him.

tommy closes saying that he’s done with the drama and this is the last he will speak on it

[premise29]

o7 Loser NEET reporting, ma'am!

...aw, I made myself sad.

How come everyone's got Monday to Friday jobs these days? What happened to the escorts and the cam girls and the loser NEETs?

[mikufanclub]

some of my art from each month this year..!

[feketeribizli]

mr gorgeous! 😁🏆‼️🥂🎉✨️🩵