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sweetdreamspootypie · 1 year

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Does aanyone have any links to info describing pressure tactics (like interpersonal argument strategies) or like general info of the psychology of being pressured into bad choices during high stress situations

#I'm still lingering on that stress patient last week #Its genuinely stressful #They were laying it on so heavy taking all sorts of personal attacks trying to make me do things their way #Purely because I had the audacity of not doing everything their way #So because theyve got a thing abott control they were doing everything to pressure me into doing it their way #Even though their way was literally high risk of literally dying as a direct result #And like my only defence is 1 - I'm not going to do something stupid just because you're pressuring me #And 2 - I'm following the goddamned flowchart. It is a good flowchart. The flowchart is my friend #Nursing microtrauma lol dealing with people with no sense of self preservation who make it everybody else's problem with spitting rage #Is v stressful it turns out!#No doubt the answer is that there was never any danger and I should trust my own nursing judgement because it was fine #I've just got my feel gs hurt for being called an ablist hateful unsupportive judgemental bitch for the crime of not murdering them #Just need a thicker skin #Like I was trying so hard to be supportive and make a psychologically safe space and bending over backwards for them only to be told that #Told if I'm gunna be judgemental then I shouldn't take patients with those needs #When in fact I had them because I'm the only person on the ward still willing to try and be supportive because they've abused everybody els #Bleh #Anyway yeah post was for resources so I can feel more secure next time around #My posts #My life #Nurblr #But yeah it's just scary to think that all it would take is a splitsecond of poor judgment

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