#Tim's sex life when they do that shit to multiple strangers every single day. including him tbh

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What if.. hear me out.. conspiracy theory here.. Timothy & Heidi didn’t save their first kiss for marriage but only Heidi’s family knows? 🤔

Honestly, while I would 100% support that if they wanted to be open about it, what they did or didn't do before marriage isn't that important to me. The point of the whole drama for me is that people in relationships should be allowed to keep their personal lives private under any circumstances, including if one of their mothers is an oversharing attention whore in the internet. Even being someone's parent does not entitle you to the details of an adult child's personal business, and if that makes someone like Jill mad, that's a her problem.

This whole thing has made me think a little more about what I speculate on tbh. I try to be good about that kind of stuff, but I do remember times when I've shared pics or posts about fundies being physical before marriage, and it is tea don't get me wrong, but to be quite honest it's none of my fuckin business. Especially when said pics are taken without the couple's consent.

Anyway yea I think a big takeaway for me from all of this is to be more mindful about prying into the personal lives of especially the kids of these fundie parents who didn't ask to be gawked at by thousands of strangers.