#Obviously sex isn't abt doing things under strict terms but it's useful to have vocabulary to communicate once you stray from vanilla a bit

[amygdalae]

i encourage you to separate thinking of sex as too bottoms and switches and instead think of it like. you're a person having sex engaged in sex.

ok but the thing is I wasn't talking about topping and bottoming. I was specifically referring to the power dynamics of dominance and submission. And switch is when you like both. Because my partner and I were playfully engaging a bit with pain play and some power dynamics stuff because we'd both established to eachother that we're a bit kinky and were trying a few things out. Obviously i was a person having sex engaged in sex