#My relationship with inanimate objects bc there's something in them! And I don't think they feel 'joy' or any human emotion necessarily
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p0th · 1 year ago
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ik im probably rlly late to the party but what is objectum, like is it a role play thing, is it a coping thing? I need someone to explain it to me like im 5 bc i genuinely just don't understand what it is lol
So the literal definition of being objectum is someone who's attracted to inanimate objects, whether that be platonic, romantic, sexual, or somethin else. However, looking at it with only its literal definition doesn't really account for the intricacies that such a label brings.
I just want to point out that while some people see objects as alive (the label for that being POSIC), others dont. Animism is also a similar term for where people percieve inanimate things as having souls. Personally, I dont see my object as alive, but do sometimes use gendered terms to describe them and feel comforted by their presence. People can also be objectum and be attracted to actual people too.
Being objectum is also more common in autistic people. Object personafication is a common trait seen in autism and other disorders and i can see how that can lead people to being objectum. Though I have never been formally diagnosed with anything, i am probably neurodivergent & maybe that has a part in me identifying as objectum idk!! Theres a study on autism in objectum ppl here if u want to glance over it: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-56449-0
For me, I started using the objectum label coincidentally around the time I started finally figuring out that i was aroace and not attracted to real people. I realized that the love I feel for my friends is equivalent to the love I feel for my hobbies and interests which was also the same love i felt towards certain objects. I drew this out cuz i think its a lil confusing how im saying it LOL. Theres also a thing called "conceptum" which is the attraction to concepts which I think i actually fall more into, but I just go by objectum because it is more general.
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You know how people will swear they have this great relationship with nature? How they feel so so connected to plants and how they love watching the ocean and how they wish they could live outside forever because the forest is a part of their flesh and blood? How they feel more alive feeling the earths fresh air and how nature teaches them things they never even knew about themselves? okay, so, why is this normal to say but once u turn it around into something that’s an object it is insane talk!! I feel like there's this interesting dynamic where its okay to be super attached to nature but kinda weird to be super attached to inanimate things but i think i am rambling & getting off topic!!!
Personally, I dont really have objects that im attracted to in the same way I would be attracted to a human. It is very broad for me. Others though, have certain objects that they really like and thats fine. For me, going by that label just makes me comfortable even if i dont fit into the literal definition. I like computers in general, not just my own personal computer. Objectum for me is just another way to say that my love for inanimate things can be just as great as my love for animate things. Theres just so much complexity and nuance in it that it is hard to describe unless you've experienced it yourself.
As for it being a coping thing, I've heard some people say its a result of not being able to trust people due to past trauma, but i dont believe that's necessarily true for the majority of people and not too good to generalize. Ive grown up surronded by friends and in a loving environment and am able to maintain relationships with living people, but also use the label of objectum because it makes me comfortable.
I can very much see how someone can look at someone saying theyre attracted to objects and just cringe a little bit and thats okay LOL. At this point, I have been exposed to so many concepts -being online so much and surrounded by so many diverse people- that i just dont even pay it mind. But, I know a lot of people have literally never heard of this label before and are just weirded out by it. I think honestly people need to think about the limitless potential a relationship can be when in the hands of such a complex being as a human. At the end of the day though, it doesn't hurt anyone but its also okay to be a lil unsure of it as an outsider. Just be kind to others!!
Im sorry if this is a bit of word vomit, if u cant tell i got a lil too into it & my thoughts tend to be rlly scattered LOL. thank u 4 the ask & plz let me know if u need any clarity on anythin cuz i know i am very hard to follow at times !!!
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crumboat · 8 months ago
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hihihi do YOU have any favorite songs/why do you like them :)
okay so .. yes and no
I have current favorites but they change so frequently that it feels wrong to call them "favorites" but here's my current faves + why I like them
Gushers - between friends
I really like between friends generally, something is so tragic and messy but easy and simple about the kind of relationships sung about. It drives me a little crazy tbh. The gentleness about Gushers and the almost underwater quality of the music akdbsjs. I can't it's soosososo good
beautiful waste - Beauty School Dropout
Honestly the line "I get heart palpitations when I think of you naked" goes so hard. Once again it's tragic. It's one-sided. It's in my percico playlist for a reason.
Exit Wounds - Placebo
Again with the chorus being a banger line "want you so bad I can taste it" um ??? Excuse me??? That makes me feel physically sick /positive. Also! Another one-sided but this time! They're exes! Also the line "And at night, under covers, as he's sliding into you, does it set your sweat on fire?" HELLO???
STUPID IN LOVE - MAX, HUH YUNJIN
Absolute devotion and recklessness and oh my godddd. This is also in my percico playlist cuz thats really all I listen to. The songs a banger or it wouldn't be in this list but like "let's get married in Vegas, we don't need a guest list, we dont need to think too much" nnghhh it's sooo good I love it so much.
Falling Behind - Laufey
Laufey is another one of those artists that I just really like their music. Falling behind is especially great bc it's about feeling like you're 'falling behind' bc everyone else is in a romantic relationship. "Cause the sun's engaged to the sky" even inanimate objects are depicted as being romantically involved and as an aromantic this really hits home
Hold Me Like A Grudge - Fall Out Boy
Honestly? This song was picked out for my percio playlist because it fit so well and after listening to it a couple more times it grew on me. It's a fucking banger. It's really good music to scream-cry to (or imagine ur fav charcters scream-crying to) Fall Out Boy has mid ass lyrics honestly but the chorus is good (ie the title of the song)
dui - estelle allen
Fully in love with this song. It has an eerie feel to it (amplified by the dhmis-esque music video) and something about the sound of blood-curdling screams really adds to a song. It kinda hurts to listen to though 💀💀
HAHA - Lil Darkie
"When the jester gets mad, put a gun to his head" followed by mocking laughter goes so hard. So hard. This whole song is amazing 10/10 no notes. I love me a good power-ballad. Especially when looking at his other music which is SO different
OXOX - Dutch Melrose, Lost Boy
here's where I reveal that I really like overtly sexual songs. "That push, that pull, that force that draws me into your direction" ughhhh it's such a good song especially to play on loop. Idk I listen to really sexual songs when I do hw to Pavlov myself into not hating it. It kinda works.
Sloppy Seconds (Ick Pt. 2) - Lay Bankz
And here's another really good, really sexual song that I listen to while I do hw. "Fuck her, flip her, bend her backward, baby put your back into it" banger!!! It's a good song!! Perfect for playing on loop (it's like three verses that repeat)
(There's probs more but idc go check out my Spotify @crumboat (it has the same pfp) if you wanna see more of my impeccable taste <3)
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trans-leek-cookie · 3 years ago
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I dont have any specific religious beliefs but I do think inanimate objects have something akin to what we would think of as a human soul but constructed differently in that human souls have death as part of their cycle due to emotions and such meaning they need to rest at some point whether permanent or temporary whereas the "souls" of objects cannot feel in a human way but still have their own meaning, but do not need rest in the way human souls do. Anyways whatever soul is in my pink dolphin plushie is older than time itself I think.
#Unreality#This isn't a joke just to be clear but I feel like this may be complicated? Idk#But I do legit like... it's not smthn I actively think abt but genuinely I would say this is at least one way of describing#My relationship with inanimate objects bc there's something in them! And I don't think they feel 'joy' or any human emotion necessarily#But they have a purpose and get some sort of like... cosmic satisfaction for fulfilling it#And destruction of the object does not harm the soul of it rather it forces it to take up a different object#And a part of this is things that are close to me bc I cannot like mentally consider other objects? You know out of sight out of mind deal#This is all very. Rough bc I literally just realized it as something I unconsciously believed#And just 2 b clear it's not that I don't believe it after thinking abt it I just thought it was fascinating to try n describe#But genuinely whatever makes up the soul of my pink dolphin I'm certain is old as hell idk WHY but it IS#Oh wait its less that objects innately Have That Soul its partially that like... human emotion coalesces it?#A part of this is trying to make sense of it to myself but like if I bought the same pink dolphin after this one got messed up it would be#A very similar core but with slight differences vs replacing a lost item with a similar one (or even same one) bc that soul isn't 'free' so#It may be 'related' but if the same item as one that had been destroyed has tbe same core a similar/same item to one that is lost has maybe#25-75% of the core depending on circumstance? What the fuck am I talking about how did I write so much. I need this energy for my#Fantasy world building. And I just wanna make this 100% clear this isn't at all like 'oh I'm so silly for thinking this' I just think it's#Interesting to try to write these ideas down when they've been just... background noise like Im sure I know it even without having to think#Abt it at length so doing just that is very strange and also I've written so many fucking words.#Plushies mean a lot to me be nice to them.#OH I MAYBE SHOULD HAVE SAID FOR SOME CLARIFICATION THAT THIS IS DEF IN PART BC IM AUTISTIC AND HAVE A LOT OF OBJECT EMPATHY#So that's like A Big Factor
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lilmissbacon · 4 years ago
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Why Jelsa is Ridiculously Stupid
Let me start off by saying that the idea of this ship was cute at first, I have nothing against it. In fact I have a few ships myself that have nothing to back them up. I am not making this to convince people to be anti, stop the ship itself, or spread any form of hate what so ever.
But this Jelsa fandom has gone too far. And when I say "jelsa shippers," of course I don't mean ALL of them, just about 80% of them.
In fact, I'm very appreciative of the few jelsa shippers who don't go around harassing others because "jelsa is life."
Also, allow me to correct you in saying that I'm not a jelsa hater, I'm a jelsa loather. There's a difference. Most jelsa haters, hate jelsa for the sake of hating it.
I genuinely hate it.
And don't go commenting about, "how do you know you don't like it if you've never tried it?" Because you see, that's where you're wrong. I did used to ship it, when I was 11. I was a child, I was new to the internet, I didn't know better. But I do now!
I am writing this so that some who may not know, will now understand why jelsa is bad and because I need to get all of this out of my system. I am slowly dieing inside.
First; I'm gonna go into how all the excuses to ship this are pointless. Next, I'll talk about just how these two would never work out as a couple. Then, will be what the toxicity has done to not just to the ship itself, but to the big four as well. And finally, I'll go into how uncreative the shippers are and just what horrible/stupid things they've done and are still doing.
1) Excuses are Pointless
Excuse #1: They have the same powers.
...Yeah, that's like saying you ship Lavagirl (Sharboy and Lavagirl) and Bolin (LoK) because they can both control lava. That's not a valid reason to ship anyone. There needs to be actual substance and I'll only say that once because that sentence applies to every excuse here.
Excuse #2: They look alike
🤦🤦🤦 First of all: that's also like saying you ship Tiana (Princess and the Frog) and Frozone (The Incredibles) because they're both black. Second of all: no they don't. It may be because I'm an artist so I notice small details, but here's how it is; Jack's hair is white, Elsa's is platinum blonde. Jack has a square chin, Elsa has a round face. Jack is much paler! THEIR EYES AREN'T EVEN THE SAME SHADE OF BLUE!!! Your excuse is null and void. Even so, if characters do look alike, then they're most likely to be related. Especially in animation.
Excuse #3: Jack can teach Elsa to have fun and Elsa can teach Jack to be serious
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This clearly proves the point that jelsa shippers don't know these characters. The job of teaching Elsa how to be social and have fun is already taken by Anna. So if anything, Elsa will see Jack as a younger brother. And Jack wouldn't have been chosen to take on such a responsibility of guardianship if he didn't know when to quit. I don't know what it is about playful characters that make people think they're obnoxious. Jack is an immortal teenager with the heart of a child, that's what makes him a good guardian. But he's been alive for over 300 years, he bound to have the mind capacity of an adult and he does know better. He doesn't play when he's in battle, he's dead serious.
Excuse #4: They understand each other because they were both isolated for a long time
I don't know where you come from but people don't really "bond" over their trauma. Infact, if anything, that would make the relationship more unstable. Plus, Elsa isolated herself for 13 years because she was afraid of her powers. Jack was forced into isolation for 300 years! He has never been afraid of his powers and Elsa could still be seen throughout the day by parents and servants. They would never be able understand what the other went through.
Excuse #5: They both have a sister they love
SO WHAT?! At least half of the population have sisters. Simple as that. It's a horrible excuse.
Excuse #6: They both have an enemy in fear
Bruh, almost every fictional character has to deal with their fears, literal or mental. It's not at all unique to these two.
Excuse #7: Jack can teach Elsa to control her powers
She already has control of them by the end of the movie. And even if you mean prier to that, the reason she couldn't control them was because she feared them. I doubt that even if she could see him and if he showed her his powers, she's be irrational, believing that their powers were different.
Excuse #8: William Joyce says he ships it
Really, you're going to base the possibility of a ship because the writer of the 'books' that "inspired" rotg says he likes it. First: the books and movie are not the same worlds. Two: he most likely stated this in order for jelsa shippers to shut up to him about it. And three: his own canon with the books is a mess as it is. With him adding a bunch on random/unnecessary details on twitter that have no relevance or reference in the books. Even if he does ship it, everything that's going on with Jack's character in the books is weird enough as it is. Plus he's physically 14 in the books. I know age doesn't really matter but Elsa would definitely feel weird about dating someone who looks so young when she's currently 24 by the second movie.
Excuse #9: They could've met before the events of rotg
Not a reason to ship them but whatever 🙄 Even if their stories were based in the same world (which it isn't), Elsa never would've believed in fairy tales. Having to grow up so soon and all. She believes in magic, of course, but you need to believe in the individuals themselves in order to see them. Plus it is very clear in rotg that Jamie is Jack's first believer.
Excuse #10: Now that Frozen 2 is out, they are both spirits who followed the memories of their loved ones. They can live forever together!
Once AGAIN, how does this factor to them being a good couple? Plus the title of spirit is different in the Frozen-verse than the Guardian-verse. Guardian-verse; they are un-aging beings who keep the entire world in balance. Frozen-verse; never confirmed to be immortal (especially since 3 out of 5 spirits are inanimate objects), magical things that keep a single forest secure. The only reason the elements needed a fifth spirit was most likely because the one before Elsa died of old age. Plus the idea of Elsa outliving Anna goes against the theme of sisterly love that both movies strive on. This can be changed in fanfiction but I hate how people lie about her mortality for an excuse to ship.
Excuse #11: They're both single
So what? People ship characters who aren't single with other characters all the time. That's not a reason to ship them. Especially since your statement is false because Tooth is Jack's canon love interest.
It is true that jelsa haters will give reasons to not ship that I necessarily don't agree with.
•Like the age gap — Jack has the mental capacity of an adult, as I've said before. He's smart enough to make his own choices.
•Elsa not being immortal — that doesn't mean they can't still date, even if he outlives her. Plus you can change that in fanfiction.
•They come from different studios and will never be canon — Again, this is fanfiction, we can do whatever we want.
•Elsa is independent and shipping her with someone takes her independence away — for one: most of the world is bound to find love at some point in time. I would imagine that Elsa would want to find love like her sister. Two: Mulan, Pocahontas and Jasmine are very independent and they all still ended up with men. Three: she's not that independent to begin with. Independence isn't relationship status, it's your ability to make it on your own and Elsa is clearly, very dependant on Anna and her safety. Which is actually what pushes her to being a bad sister in Frozen 2. In fact it is because they made her more 'independant' in the sequel that Elsa clearly, no longer loves Anna as much as Anna loves her (you can check out Watso Videos' video on YouTube about how Elsa is a bad sister bc I'm not gonna go into it here).
My god that was ALL just part one. This is gonna take forever 😰
2) How they would never work out
For Elsa, she needs someone who is calm and collected. A rock for her to stand on when she's being irrational. Possibly even someone who is very stoic and straight to the point but with enough sense of humor to lighten the mood. And now that I'm thinking about it, Honeymaren fits that description to a tee. I'm not one to push LGBT+ in anyone's face, but I'm not gonna judge ships on characters assumed sexualities either. Even though Honeymaren didn't have much screen time, her personality still showed through and Elsamaren could very well work.
Jack on the other hand needs someone who would be able to keep up with his playful nature as well as be a rock for him to stand on when he's emotional. Tooth is a good suitor even though I don't really ship it myself. Hiccup, Merida and Rapunzel could also fit in this description.
They don't have the ability to be each other's rocks. They can't be stable if they both need someone to keep them so. If they were to date, the relationship would crumble before it even began.
Plus Jack has to be a guardian and there are a lot of fanfics that go into this idea of Jack being the king of Arendalle? First off: I'm fairly certain that you can't marry into royalty to become king. At least in the real world. Second: Jack wouldn't be able to handle that responsibility with him already being a guardian. And he can't just leave guardianship either, it was what he always was and was ment to be. And Elsa has the responsibility of keeping a magical forest in check, she can't leave to become a guardian.
3) The Toxicity
Oh my God! The fanfiction! As I usually say, you can do whatever you want in fanfiction. But if you have to butcher all the characters so much in EVERY fanfic in order to make the ship work, then there's clearly something wrong here! In every fanfic I've ever seen, the characters are so out of character it's insane. Not just Jack and Elsa, every character.
Olaf for example, is practically in love with Jack first meeting, in every fanfic. If he were to actually meet Jack, he would be apprehensive of him.
It's horrifying in not only that, but jelsa shippers will add Rapunzel a lot, just in spite of Jackunzel. They turn Rapunzel into a needy ex-girlfriend of Jack's when in reality, she's a very sweet and kind soul. Even if she and Jack had dated, they would've split on good terms and stayed friends after. There have also been cases where they do the same but with Tooth. Sometimes even both and it's honestly sick.
And let's talk about the sexism as well HAHA! I swear to God, they will rewrite Frozen but where Jack will save Elsa instead of Anna. They write Elsa as a hormonal teenage girl who falls in love with Jack within seconds.
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This is from an actual jelsa shipper, my dude. WTF!!! They make Jack super dominant as well as a douche who cheats on Elsa half the time. Jack is not that dominant, he's a very emotional guy. And he'd be the most faithful boyfriend on the planet. He was alone for 300 years! If anything, he'd be clingy but not too clingy because he also understands personal space.
And if you like angsty fanfiction where a character cheats on the other, there are literally no fanfics where Elsa cheats on Jack. As if a woman couldn't possibly cheat. This is very sexist towards men and women and is toxic as hell.
If anything, Elsa would cheat on Jack, she's not exactly trustworthy in keeping promises or being loyal.
I swear, half of the jelsa shippers has never even seen rotg and just go by what they read in others fanfiction.
Jelsa shippers have gotten so bad about this ship that they've low-key harassed people for not shipping it, as well as start shipping wars within the big four fandom. That's the reason the fandom truly shrunk after 2013. I've seen posts about people admitting to leaving the fandom because it got so bad.
4) The Shippers
Jelsa shippers have literally threatened lives, not just to other fans but even to the creators of the movies. Literally threatening them into making the ship canon. They've made patitions to make it canon as if that would work. They've even harassed a lot of recent shippers to Elsamaren because "jelsa is canon."
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Oh look at that, they're homophobic too...
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... That's great 🙃
Isn't it a bigger sin to love a celestial being though? Therefore the fact that you –as a toxic christian– ship Elsa with a spirit it worse.
THEY'RE DELUSIONAL!!! So many of them have shipped jelsa so long that legit think it's canon!
Not only all that mess but there are literally more jelsa games on the internet then there are Merida games. I'm specifying this for personal reasons (aka Merida is my fave Disney princess)
And let's continue on with what really aggravates me as an artist. Jelsa shippers, stealing artwork, mostly from Jackunzel. This is not just a rumor, it's very much real.
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And it doesn't help when all of their actual original fanart is just them taking scenes from Frozen and adding Jack. Then to add more salt on the wound is that almost all the fanfiction is the same, whether it'd be based during Frozen, rotg or in a highschool au.
There's literally nothing original about or going on with this ship, even after Frozen 2 came out, the shippers and fanfiction haven't changed. If anything it made the shippers spike up again.
The only thing that could say is original about jelsa is the frost daughter fanon. Oh boy! What we have to unpack here.
This is something that I recently heard about...
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I am mortified.
Frost daughters is this little thing that jelsa shippers came up with, believing Jack and Elsa (if they could get pregnant) would have nothing but girls. What's scary about it is they're designs. Like they're trying to be original... But it's not really going great.
Most of them are just young!Elsa copies, some are edits of Elsa with Jack's hair color.
For example:
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This is fine, this follows genetrical rules. I'm fine with this.
But what has me low-key petrified are some of the other designs.
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Like... WTF IS ALL OF THIS!!! Where are this colors coming from?!! I don't understand 😭 You can see in the screen shots that these are literally titled as daughters of jelsa.
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The white haired ones are fine. The ginger is understandable. Got it from Elsa's dad's genes. That's okay. A few are wearing pink? They can wear what ever they want. But wtf I'd going on with Nevada? Why is she black? Jack and Elsa the pastiest of white! And you cannot tell me that she got it from Elsa's mom because this was made BEFORE Frozen 2 and her mother is still white as an adult.
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Where tf does the blue and pink hair come from? None of these make sense!
I want to kill myself, just looking at these!
That's gonna be the end of this rant
Now I'll say it again, I really have nothing against the ship itself. I too have casual ships that make no sense. But with ALL the fanfiction and fanart being so unoriginal and most jelsa shippers low-key being dangerous, it's hard for me respect people's opinions about it.
I try, trust me, I do! But it's become so murky in my brain that I can't tell the difference anymore and I'm also just not a fan of Elsa's character in general. And I like ships that actually make sense.
And being that I'm an equalist... it's really hard for me to look at this stuff and not get pissed off. I'm sorry if all of this comes off as aggressive because it kinda is.
I'm just very passionate, okay?
I hope you understand where I'm coming from. None of the pictures I used are mine. And I hope you have a good day?
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gardenstateofmind · 7 years ago
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i have pretty strict views on keeping animals as pets which i guess aren't the most popular among the people ive known but ive also seen how some people treat their actual human children so uh,
i also kind of see a difference between having a pet vs having an animal companion, which in regular conversation they mean the same thing ofc, but in this i specifically mean a pet being an animal that you make sure has their every survival need met and is also fairly comfortable and you do this for no other reason than it brings you joy to keep a little being alive and observe its habits. meanwhile an animal companion, or whatever else people call it, is an actual friend, a partner in life, you take care of them and they take care of you in return
my biggest problem when it comes to keeping pets is that a lot of people see it as the animal's purpose is to entertain the human-that is not at all the case, or at least it shouldn't be. the animal's purpose is to just exist, just like any other animal in the wild, and it is YOUR purpose as the pet owner to give that animal a good quality of life. the entertainment/joy/fulfillment comes from the actual taking care of the animal, they should NEVER be used as just a toy or inanimate object, they don't have to do ANYTHING except what they do naturally.
animals that i think are possible to humanely keep as pets, but i still don't believe Should be kept as pets, are SMALL insects, reptiles, amphibians, and fish that have relatively low maintenance and that will be well suited for the particular environment you live in. and that environment needs to be BIG. if you're able to let them roam around your home supervised for a little bit every day that's fantastic, if that's not possible then they at least need a dedicated space just for them. just because they're tiny doesn't mean they can live in a shoe box. humans are pretty small, we can live in super compact spaces, but we go crazy if we're stuck inside our houses for too long, it's kinda similar for most small animals as well. you're taking them out of their natural habitat, where they have room to roam and to choose where to make their homes, if you're going to bring them inside then they HAVE to have the best enclosures and some supervised free roaming. the pet industry is just beyond horrifying, if you look at the statistics, the vast majority of wild/exotic animals sold as pets die within a couple years. and (i think) that around half of the animals that are caught in the wild will die in transport, as in they don't even make it to the pet stores. that's why really don't think they should be kept as pets unless someone is a specialist or is committed to dedicating a big chunk of their life to their pet. and most of these animals have a LONG life span in captivity when properly taken care of, im talking a range of 20-60 years (the reason why lots of fish, turtles, spiders, etc. only live a few years is because they weren't taken of properly :( )
and these animals don't show affection. some of them are incredibly smart and have good memories, so they will learn their owners, and most reptile and insect owners say that their pets seem most comfortable around them, because they've learned that this big, soft, and warm perch is always safe and will give them food. some will seek out your company and be very content by your side. but they will never be affectionate in the way we are, and we as humans don't really know quite how they think? a lot of people say they can't feel love, i dont personally have an opinion on that bc, well i just literally don't know what they think at all. they might feel love! but it's not love in the way humans understand it, and it's unfair to you and your pet if that's something you desire from the relationship. my big fundamental view is that having these animals as pets is about taking care of THEM, not them taking care of you. it's a lot more like having a really messy plant that sometimes bites you than having a dog or a cat.
and above all, if someone is going to keep an animal like this as a pet, they need to Do Their Research. what are the laws for exotic pets where you live, is this species endangered/being exploited by the pet industry, from whom are you buying this animal, what do other keepers of this animals have to say/is there a community you can rely on for help, can you get vet care, what will your life be like in the next few years and if you can't keep your pet who will it go to, the questions are endless honestly but i dont think it's ever okay to get so much as a goldfish without doing all this research beforehand-and actually goldfish are pretty complex fish that can easily live 10 years or more and grow to be over a foot in length. the reason you see tiny lil goldfish who only live a couple years is because they're horribly mistreated most of the time :^)
yeah so i really am against keeping most animals as pets.
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myloveholtzy · 8 years ago
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Yes really! You're not trash and to answer the why, it's because I want to get to know you more but if that's uncomfortable for you then you don't have to
Wow! Okay, I’ll do it bc I refuse to get out of bed, so this is a good excuse
1. Do you ever doubt the existence of others than you?Sometimes when I question my own existence
2. On a scale of 1-5, how afraid of the dark are you?3 ½? Depends on where I am
6. When you looked in the mirror this morning what was the first thing you thought?“Your hair gross…very gross.”
7. What shirt are you wearing?Power to the girls sweater I bought bc I saw Supergirl wear it (im trash)
8. What do you label yourself as?Tired asian lesbian trying to move forward
9. Bright room or dark room?Dark room
10. What were you doing at midnight last night?Watching the Great British Bake Off
11. Favorite age you’ve been so far?Idk this one? 17?
12. Who told you they loved you last?Best friend of 11 years :)
13. Your worst enemy?Idk like I guess I’m my worst enemy but that’s too real so I’ll say theatre kids at my school
14. What is your current desktop picture?I have 4, Kate McKinnon, SNL cast, Parks & Rec cast, and 30 Rock cast (im trash)
15. Do you like someone?No, no point in getting into a relationship when I’m getting ready to move
16. The last song you listened to?Q.U.E.E.N. by Janelle Monae
17. You can press a button that will make any one person explode. Who would you blow up?Angry Orange.
18. Who would you really like to just punch in the face?Angry Orange.
19. If anyone could be your slave for a day, who would it be and what would they have to do?Wtf weird question. Um I guess Angry Orange? I’d only make him like stop fucking the country and donate his money.
20. What is your best physical attribute? (showing said attribute is optional)My long legs lol
21. If you were the opposite sex for one day, what would you look like and what would you do?Idk I’d probably just look the same and I’d go out and see if people treat me differently
22. Do you have a secret talent? If yes, what is it?Not really? I mean most people don’t know that I can draw
23. What is one unique thing you’re afraid of?Like unique thing about me? Idk I feel like I’m always trying to hide something about me.
24. You can only have one kind of sandwich. Every sandwich ingredient known to humankind is at your disposal.Turkey, swiss cheese, spinach, cucumber, and light mayo. Yup, that’s basically my subway order.
25. You just found $100! How are you going to spend it?I should save it, but I’m probably not going to. Um clothes/food I guess
26. You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere in the world, but you have to leave immediately. Where are you going to go?NYC, it’s basically home
27. An angel appears out of Heaven and offers you a lifetime supply of the alcoholic beverage of your choice. “Be brand-specific” it says. Man! What are you gonna say about that? Even if you don’t drink booze there’s something you can figure out… so what’s it gonna be???? I don’t drink, but I’ll just pick some random brand of beer that my friends like. They can have my lifetime supply
28. You discover a beautiful island upon which you may build your own society. You make the rules. What is the first rule you put into place? No homophobia
29. What is your favorite expletive?“Fuck”
30. Your house is on fire, holy shit! You have just enough time to run in there and grab ONE inanimate object. Don’t worry, your loved ones and pets have already made it out safely. So what’s the one thing you’re going to save from that blazing inferno?LAPTOP.
31. You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be?I guess all of 8th grade lol
32. You got kicked out of the country for being a time-traveling heathen who sleeps with celebrities and has super-powers. But check out this cool shit… you can move to anywhere else in the world!I guess England?
33. The Celestial Gates Of Beyond have opened, much to your surprise because you didn’t think such a thing existed. Death appears. As it turns out, Death is actually a pretty cool entity, and happens to be in a fantastic mood. Death offers to return the friend/family-member/person/etc. of your choice to the living world. Who will you bring back?Um is it weird to say Carrie Fisher? I don’t have a family member/friend that has died, but Carrie Fisher did a lot of good. It would be amazing if she came back and continued to bring people joy
36. Have you ever been admitted to the hospital?Yup, car crash last summer. Had to go to the ER
37. Have you ever built a snowman?NO. There’s no snow here I hate it
38. What is the color of your socks?Light blue
39. What type of music do you like?Musial theatre, movie soundtracks, and I guess pop? My music taste is trash
40. Do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?Sunsets
41. What is your favorite milkshake flavor?CHOCOLATE
42. What football team do you support? (I will answer in terms of American football as well as soccer)I don’t follow sports
43. Do you have any scars?Ya, a lot on my thighs, but they’re fading!
44. What do you want to be when you graduate?Graphic designer
45. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?Wish I didn’t hold so many grudges…
46. Are you reliable?Yea definitely
47. If you could ask your future self one question, what would it be?Do you have a stable job?
48. Do you hold grudges?YES it’s kinda bad, I hold too many grudges
49. If you could breed two animals together to defy the laws of nature, what new animal would you create?Horse and a bird, I want a pegasus
51. Are you a good liar?I think I am
52. How long could you go without talking?Probably pretty long. Few days?
53. What has been you worst haircut/style?This one maybe lol idk people are telling me it looks good but I don’t like it anymore
54. Have you ever baked your own cake?Yup yup, made a cheesecake a few days ago
56. What do you like on your toast?Nutella!!
57. What is the last thing you drew a picture of?Toriel from Undertale lol
58. What would be you dream car?Uhh idk I’ll just say convertible
60. Do you believe in aliens?Yup yup
61. Do you often read your horoscope?Nope, I don’t really remember to
62. What is your favorite letter of the alphabet?X
63. Which is cooler: dinosaurs or dragons?DRAGONS
64. What do you think about babies?Um sometimes cute? Please don’t ask me to take care of them
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