#Made unrebloggable because I've seen the shit people get up to

[marzipanloves]

Since it's not letting me reblog the post, since they might've made it unrebloggable, in regards to @cowboybebopfan100's FAKE callout post towards my fiancee, @fictorose

Hi! I'm @fictorose's IRL fiance who I live with! They have literally never, EVER sent any messages of any sort to anyone, harmful or otherwise. Me and their method of interacting with other nonsharing people is blocking someone and then never interacting. And I mean, never. The thought of even getting involved, nevertheless causing any kind of drama or even interacting with sharers is pointlessly stressful.

But you won't even let them see this post since you've blocked them so they can't defend themself against your BASELESS FUCKING ACCUSATIONS.

And that's all they are, you make some baseless bullshit claim because you can't handle that someone else likes your f/os. It's ok to not share but don't start rumors that are absolutely not true with 0 fucking proof.

Literally they are the one who gets hit with people needlessly harassing them, and they immediately delete and never put that person's @ anywhere so other people don't harrass them. You think someone who does that would even consider doing the disgusting shit you're lying about?

You didn't even have the guts to make fake screenshots cause they could be disproved in an instant you coward.

By making fake call out posts about things that never happened to get someone else in hot water, you're the one harassing people. If you really don't wanna get involved in drama, don't fucking start it.

And if this is a case of someone on anon claiming to be fictorose, don't fucking believe it, nevertheless make a call out post about it before you've proved it; it's basic internet safety knowledge.

And no wonder you made a new blog to post drama on since you knew you'd get fucking caught immediately for lying.

TLDR; fictorose did none of that claimed stuff, @cowboybebopfan100 fully made it up with no proof on top of making a new blog just to do so.

Edit: They have me blocked as well, but this is my side blog so I can still see their posts. Why would someone I've never even seen before now block me when we don't share f/os unless they knew I had a connection to fictorose and could disprove them immediately lol

[amalg-em]

The thing about the lateral aggression I see in trans communities is that it's everywhere. All the time I see people parroting this idea that trans woman = most oppressed, trans man = spoiled manchild that never has any problems ever. And it's pretty disturbing how many people I've seen regurgitating it. People I cared for. People I trusted.

Did you know that transmasculine people have the highest chance of being a sexual assault victim? Higher than cis women, trans women, or cis men? But certainly that's nothing, right? Certainly that sort of trauma isn't the thing that irreversibly damages you, makes it harder to make life worth living?

Do you really think invisibility is a privilege? That being forgotten and ignored is beneficial? The last 12 months have been the worst of my life, and I've had the least support that I've ever had. Even my biological family has fucked off. The only thing keeping me from offing myself is the knowledge that it would leave my partner abandoned and unsupported. But surely I'm just being dramatic, right? Somewhere out there is a trans woman who has it harder than me, so how dare I complain.

The thing about suffering is that it's not readily quantifiable. It all sucks. It literally all sucks, all the time, and people can have the exact same amount and kind of suffering and be affected by it completely differently. It's utterly pointless to try to create some sort of hierarchy of most oppressed and we know this. We've known this forever. We literally have a term for it (oppression Olympics). We know that it's counterproductive and pointless to lash out at people on the same sinking ship as us because, well, MY end is lower in the water than YOURS so YOU don't get to talk about your problems. In fact HOW DARE YOU coin a term for the problems facing you, that makes you exactly the same as a TERF.

It's so fucking bleak out here. We could ALL be talking about our problems without demanding silence from others while we do it. We could be building solidarity with people who have different experiences, acknowledging those differences without trying to rank them, and give everyone space to be heard. There shouldn't be imposed scarcity of compassion - but there is, from people who claim to be compassionate, who claim to care about the struggles of people not like them. Not really though. Not unless you're the Right Kind of oppressed.

Today my social circle gets a little smaller. The world gets that much more hostile. And the noose of isolation tightens around my neck that much more. And somewhere, someone will find a vent post that I made while trying not to be another trans su|c|de statistic, and use that as proof that transmasculine people are a Lesser Breed of trans and don't deserve support, acknowledgement, or the ability to name & talk about our problems.