#In my family they don't really like labels like they're a bad thing per se so that's also why I'm very scared of this | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

alexjcrowley · 3 years ago

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The aro urge to fantasize about being in the same world of your favourite fictional characters and you don't fall in love with anyone and nobody falls in love with you but everyone is your best friend and there's at least one character you get to come out to and they accept you and then some other character turns out to be aro and you just keep having the pretend-life of your life

Maybe this isn't really the aro urge maybe this is more of a personal urge but you get what I mean

#aromantic #techincally I'm still questioning but you won't judge me for that right #I'm trying out this label friend of mine said it's the best thing to do #just start using it and see if it makes you feel good if that's something that feels natural #let's see if it fits shall we #so yeah apart from me having a personal crisis thi was meant to be a funny post #like I know I'm not the only one you fantasize you come out to your comfort character and everything is fine in your head for a while #I'm now rewatching Sherlock and my comfort character is Mycroft who I also headcanon as aromantic #and idk I like to think of him reassuring me it's fine you know #luckily my real life friends are very supportive and one of them is aro too!#but I'm still scared of talking to them about it #as I said it's a new thing for me I may not even be aro but I have a lot to thank the aro community for #In my family they don't really like labels like they're a bad thing per se so that's also why I'm very scared of this #what if I mess it up and then I'm not aro and people hate me for that because they thought I lied #please don't hate me I'm just trying to work some things out here I'm still learining about myself

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